why do men love oral and should we give it when they ask ?

Answer 1

Same reason women do. You should never give a sexual act because someone wants it...only if you want to do it and they are worth it to you.

Answer 2

Just to clarify here, SOME men like to receive oral sex. I've encountered some very sharp, pointy teeth in my time. If I said, "You're nicking me!" she'd deny it. That's why I like vaginal sex and eye contact with a lover.

You should offer your lover oral sex only if you enjoy giving it. A considerate partner will never ask you to do anything that is painful or unpleasant.

I think that men enjoy oral sex because it feels different and pleasant, perhaps a little naughty, depending on how restrictive and puritanical one was raised. Oral sex performed by a woman requires no effort on the part of the man. He is able to "receive" pleasure without concentrating on another person's pleasure.

However, I think that the best sex happens when both partners can stimulate each other simultaneously. There are many ways that he can provide exquisite pleasure for you while you are doing the same thing for him.

Assert yourself. Ask him to reciprocate!

You deserve equal treatment.

Answer 3

Men love to receive oral sex for the same reason that you love to receive oral sex. We can lie back and relax and just feel the pleasure. We know how special and intimate it is. We know it's a beautiful gift. And when we reach orgasm and you swallow, we know you have accepted our most intimate essence.

The same thing applies when we perform oral sex for you. We taste your special place and feel you shiver, quake or writhe in orgasm. We taste your juices and love it.

Should you give it whenever we ask? No. You can be tired or sad or stressed just like us. Both of us need to be in the mood for it.

Answer 4

Men love it because they are able to sit back, relax and enjoy the act. Men are able to appreciate the pleasure that the women is giving them. So Yes, please give it when they ask especially if you are in a relationship with them. Ideally, the man should not have to ask. It is best when it just happens.

Answer 5

Men love oral because they love to visually watch a woman go down on them so they can fantasize that the woman is their sex slave and they are in control of them. Every time you give them oral when they ask for it, you score alot of "brownie points" with them. You'll have them "wrapped around your little finger" in regard to pleasing you in sexual and non-sexual ways.

Answer 6

Because it feels good. And for the last part, if you expect him to give you oral every time you ask, than yes.:)

Answer 7

Not all men like oral, just like not all women like oral. Personally, I dont think you should give it if he isnt willing to give it to you, but that's up to you. I like doing it, and I like making my guy feel good, so I dont see any reason not to do it.

Answer 8

It makes sex so exciting and very adventurous. Any woman that I deal with has to perform oral sex-this is an requirement and not an option. Oral sex is sometimes the ultimate climax.

Answer 9

if you want to you should because it feels so good. do you like oral and want it when you ask some one.

Answer 10

HERPES….TEENAGE SEX IS DANGEROUS

NEW YORK (Reuters Health)

Infections with the VIRUS that causes genital herpes are common among teen girls, a new study shows.
WHILE NONE OF THE YOUNG WOMEN IN THE STUDY HAD ORAL OR GENITAL HERPES SYMPTOMS, SOME OF THOSE WHO TESTED POSITIVE FOR THE VIRUS WERE SHEDDING IT IN THEIR VAGINAL AREA, MEANING IT WOULD BE POSSIBLE FOR THEM TO TRANSMIT THE INFECTION TO OTHERS.
A national survey of the US population conducted between 1988 and 1994 found that more than one in five people over 12 had blood tests that showed evidence for infection with herpes simplex virus 2 (HSV 2), the virus typically responsible for genital herpes,
Among the women who developed new HSV 2 infections, none had symptoms of genital herpes, but three were shedding the virus in their vaginal area.
It is likely that at least some of the new HSV 1 infections that occurred among women in the study were genital, given that genital HSV 1 infections are quite common in young adults, the researchers note.
They conclude, "HSV infections are common in adolescent women." They point out that efforts to reduce these infections "need to target children before adolescence."
SOURCE: Sexually Transmitted Diseases, July 2006.

Answer 11

Because it feels good! Why do YOU like it???? And , yeah, you should give it to him and you should make a point of improving your skills. I'm not saying EVERY single time he asks, but you get what you give. A sexual relationship is no different! Keep him happy and he'll keep you happy.