2006-08-04 05:57:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would get to the bottom of why you are not attracted to him. Are you attracted to others? Do you feel attractive? Do you feel that he is attracted to you? I would try doing things to make yourself feel more attractive. Maybe a hair cut, new makeup, new clothes. Sometimes you get so busy living life you forget to enjoy being a woman. If you find yourself attracted to others you may want to look at your marriage under a microscope and see if there are some underlying issues you haven't dealt with. Good luck.
2006-08-04 06:07:07 · answer #1 · answered by superrrmodel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
work out together. getting fit with your spouse is a great turn on. Sweating at the gym leads to sweating at home. When you first started dating you did allot of activities with each other. After marriage we tend to do more of our own thing and for get to do the fun stuff. as long as you keep it fun and keep talking to each other you stay very attracted to each other.
2006-08-11 11:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by venicerp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were attracted to him, and didn't love him - then you'd have something to worry about !
Love generally has a longer 'shelf-life' than attraction or infatuation or lust...
Your question had a little something missing ('...and want to be,...' what?)
2006-08-04 13:12:27 · answer #3 · answered by Meh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't realize that my ex husband was desired by other women until we split up. that's a good indication that others are attracted to him. remember that the grass ain't always greener. you could end up losing the one you love, and end up being with some good looking loser.
2006-08-11 01:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find away to spice things up. Sexy lingerie, new positions, spend the night in a hotel and pretend you are on another honey moon. Figure something out, don't just give up.
2006-08-04 13:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good luck, thats such a hard one. I got out but there were more reasons thatn just that, however it is a big one.
2006-08-04 13:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a makeover as a present.
2006-08-04 13:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by ready4it45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋