Thinking of leaving. Loney wife. No long feel on the same page as husband we talk about but never seem to be on the same page anymore. Even did a little councelling He is not a bad person just drifting apart. Wondering if just feeling sorry for myself or if will be happier alone. or with someone else.
2006-08-04 05:28:35 · 10 answers · asked by soo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I divorced her, hardest thing I ever did and wouldn't wish it on anyone. There are always regrets but I think I'm better off, and I know she is happier. See, I was thinking more of her than myself because I loved her. I let her go. Think carefully about it before you decide. It's not an easy process.
2006-08-04 05:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rick 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to work it out. I would suggest trying to go away together on a long weekend just the two of you. If you have kids get a baby sitter. It seems that people get tired of each other after they get married. You need to find ways to communicate to each other in different ways. I was married for 10 years and we always tried to find different things to do together that him and I both liked. He liked to fish so I would go along with him even though I did not like fishing to just be with him. You need to rekindle the love you both once shared. It is there some where.
2006-08-04 05:40:14 · answer #2 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation a few years ago and now I am really glad that I stuck it out. Our relationship is more toward the friend stage now but that is ok because I can talk to him about anything and the thought of a divorce seemed to bring us closer.
2006-08-04 05:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tonya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't left my marriage, though there have been a few times when I was packed to go. My feeling is this... if he isn't cheating and he isn't beating you (or any other seriously detrimental behaviour), then there's nothing that can't be worked through. The vows were 'for better or for worse'- I guess this is the worse for you. But you shouldn't take the vows if you can't commit to them. My two cents...
2006-08-04 05:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wife left me just 2 weeks ago with my kids. I was told I am not a bad person. She just cant get along with my mum. Gave her evrything and she returned nothing. Never felt sorry for myself cos now, I have several offers to be with others.
2006-08-04 05:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no 'knowing' what will be in the future. Try going 2 counseling, there are no guarantees, but if both will try with a sincere heart-things might work out.
Good Luck!!
2006-08-04 05:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hun, well, divorce is a devistating thing. it is sad, and well sinful...but the main key to undestand here is: what will make you happier, and him? now depending of if there is any children involved, i think...well the most obvious answer of all would be...PRAY! seek God for the right answers...not answers from people who witness and commit adultry and murder and lies and divorce everyday of our lives..ask someone wise and pure..like God
2006-08-04 05:39:20 · answer #7 · answered by i will be your friend! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only ever regretted having made the mistake of marrying her.
I dont hate her..... I just wish I hadnt married her.
2006-08-04 06:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to think about it
2006-08-04 05:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try more counseling:
http://www.barbaradeangelis.com/advice.asp
2006-08-04 05:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by jimrich 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋