i think my husband is gay...i cought him watching gay porn.....i dunno what to do?
2006-08-04 05:20:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go talk to him - he's the only one who can answer your questions!!!
But don't be confrontational - it will shut him up big time - so will embarassing him!! Just tell him you want to talk and gently bring it up... but make sure you do it or soon your emotions will overwhelm you!!
Good Luck!
Aloha!
2006-08-04 05:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he was watching gay porn does not necessarily mean that he is gay. You need to talk to him about what you saw or this is going to keep eating away at you and become a much bigger problem.
2006-08-04 12:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him and be prepared to become his best friend instead of his wife. Unless you won't be able to bear it and will hate him for it. Then be ready to divorce him and never see him again.
Many gay men feel that they have to marry and live the straight life. Then they find that they cannot do it but they have no way out.
If you love this person, try to understand that he cant help what he feels or doesnt feel and work it out with him. Your relationship will change but it could become the best friendship of your life.
Best of luck to you.
2006-08-04 12:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me I would confront him about it. There are too many diseases out there that he could bring home to you. Ive seen men who marry trying to suppress their gay feelings and in the end it doesnt work. Try talking to him...don't yell...and maybe if he feels like he can trust you and open up to you he will!
2006-08-04 13:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time 4 a sit down with him, u need ask him what's going with that. U should also talk 2 his friends.
2006-08-04 12:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that its something to think about. i dont know many men that would watch gay porn if they were straight.
2006-08-04 12:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by cma80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is. Mine likes to watch that but it doesn't mean he's gay.
2006-08-04 12:28:40 · answer #7 · answered by dollfacedbaby1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st........take a deep breath, and 2nd........go ask him. That's all you can do, he is the only one who can tell you if he is or tell you why he likes watching the gay porn.
2006-08-04 12:26:16 · answer #8 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be so p...... ask him what was he thinking?
I don't know what to tell as per how to handle this type of situation. I can't imagine what you much have felt. sorry you had to fine out the way you did.
2006-08-04 13:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to find out, talk to him, don't confront him and don't accuse him. Make sure he doesn't feel attacked so he'll be honest with you about it. This is your life too. Good luck.
2006-08-04 12:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋