My boyfriend always accuse me of cheating and he is driving me crazy. What should I do?
2006-08-04 05:36:08 · 29 answers · asked by Ms. C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He possibly is,,,,,he's feeling guilt and is trying to turn the situation around, keep an eye on him, infact ask your self can you or do you see your self with this man in 5 years?.
2006-08-04 05:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an easy one. It's because women in thier competative nature are catching up to men really quickly in the cheating department. Women are becoming just as much in it for the sex only as men have been. Also we live in a dishonest world. I'll bet good money that you are dishonest like most people. White lies....actually full lies that you delude yourself into thinking are white lies ar not lies at all. Maybe you copy software from friends....illegal/dishonest. Maybe you make up exuses to get out of things. Say you are "ok" when you are actually pissed...or you say nothing is wrong when there is.
Bottom line is, if you are dishonest AND your boyfriend probably is too....how can EITHER of you expect to trust each other? The problem with lying, is if you lie at all, nothing you say can be trusted....BECAUSE EVERYTHING you say COULD potentially be a lie.
2006-08-06 04:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by Carl G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found from personal experience that the one who accuses is usually the one doing the cheating!!!
2006-08-04 05:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by skyjava1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. I dated a guy like that. I NEVER did anything to even remotely hint that I might be cheating. If I was anywhere other than him I was either a. Doing drugs or b. Cheating on him (I did neither). I spent a year listening to that garbage. So I kicked his sorry butt to the curb and found myself a real man.
2006-08-04 05:43:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
step back & ask ur self what is it that u could be doing to make him accuse u of cheating. it could a # of reasons why, guilty conscious on his part,past cheating by u maybe even a cry for more attention. we men tend act like babies sometime, i use to love the ego boost i got from my wife.
2006-08-04 05:51:48 · answer #5 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he has a guilty conscious or maybe prior women have cheated on him. Only way to resolve it is to talk to him. If you can't handle his constant accusation, and who would want to, then get out of the relationship.
2006-08-04 05:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just paranoid, overly possesive and jealous. Is he the introverted sort, quiet all to himself kind of guy. And you are probably just the opposite. The extro, friendly and social. If this is the case and you really love him and want the relationship to work. Girl, you got alot of sacrificing to do. Your "Big baby" needs to grow up and need some couselling, which this forum is just so not the place. Start with prayer.....all things starts from there....
2006-08-04 05:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal experience has been that if he is always on your case about cheating then he is feeling guilty about his own actions. Also he could have terrible self esteem. Let him know that you find a man who exudes self confidence to be sexy. Let him know that you are there to support him but you won't tolerate him treating you badly because of his own issues. Show him HOW to treat you.
2006-08-04 05:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by sweetmammaearth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are secure anyway. Usually when we think the woman is cheating, that means we are cheating.
2006-08-04 05:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by shizzy0117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 21:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋