Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2006

I have caught my bf 4 times chating with other girls. It started on the internet, I took that away. And now I caught him txt.ing on his phone. Why and what should I do?

2006-07-19 09:44:16 · 32 answers · asked by FarmGirl 2

I want to make my hubby super happy with my body, and I like strippers body. What can I do to get one quickly without surgery? Im 5'7" and 160lbs. Does it really matter, you think, for me to strive for that, or do you think he is happy with me the way I am?

2006-07-19 09:43:12 · 10 answers · asked by spoiled_angel80 2

You are after all paying for the service with no emotion.

2006-07-19 09:38:16 · 40 answers · asked by Andy S 3

Why can't gays have the same rights as man and woman and call thier union a 'gayrraige'? Why is it that always everyone else has to look at the things their way? Would it hurt fot gays to look at thing the other people's way for once for a change?

2006-07-19 09:37:18 · 10 answers · asked by dude 4

he said we can get married in a church later....and we need to be married if we are living together....I agree but I want to wait until we can afford a small wedding which could be awhile...should i just go ahead at the jp and do the wedding later....or should i wait until we are financially ready. he also said if i loved him i would marry him anywhere....and as soon as possible....

2006-07-19 09:34:35 · 10 answers · asked by jolie t 1

2006-07-19 09:34:28 · 9 answers · asked by Shadow 4

I've been seeing someone on the side, who I think I'm in love with. I haven't loved my wife for a long time, we've just stayed together as a matter of convience. I really want to get out of this marriage, but I'm not sure what to do. I don't know how to tell her. Should I leave? We don't totally hate each other, but we're just different people with different interests. We've just been growing apart over the years. I also think we got married too quickly, after 10 months of knowing each other. I don't think we gave ourselves time to really experience other things and other people. What should I do??

2006-07-19 09:29:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 27 yr old..married 1 1/2 yr back..going through rough phase with my career..i am getting into 1st yr of my residency next yr...whenever my friends ask me or see them with their kids i just freak out and i feel i will never have a baby...i liked kida b4...my hubby is a pediatrician and he wants kids sometime...ofcourse when i am ready..i am just worried...whats this...

2006-07-19 09:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I had problems and she complained to me alot. I made the necessary changes and she doesn't complain anymore. However, our relationship has serious problems: no life together, no intimacy; barely any physical contact- hardly any touching.

I am being mature and loving about our relationship. We went out for a walk and I expressed how I feel about our relationship and there's alot missing. I was specific.

She didn't have anything to say when I asked her what she thought.

I see no signs of improvement on her behalf. We love each other but we're not in love anymore.

Neither of us should live in an unhappy marriage. I will not wait forever if she has no intentions of changing.

I decided to wait one month from our talk, to see if she makes any improvement in her character; show some intimacy, show some interest in me or the relationship, or some initiative.

After one month, I'm separating.

Is this too harsh? Am I wrong?

2006-07-19 09:26:44 · 16 answers · asked by Sexual chocolate 1

2006-07-19 09:24:15 · 3 answers · asked by tiff2conl 1

I am affraid if he thinks that I always look for a chance to make out!!! How can I control it? Advice please

2006-07-19 09:20:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

we loved each very much but when the summer ended he had to go back to college and i had to finish with a divorce from my then husband although he has calledthe child his all these years. i told my child a few years ago and she now is ready to meet him if he is interested.i have know clue what to say to him in a letter. i cant get his phone number it is unlisted so i have to send a letter. i have no clue what to say to the man i fell in love with and broke his heart . i hope someone can help. if there are any questions let me know . thanks

2006-07-19 09:17:17 · 9 answers · asked by niceroundsoft 1

Every time i try to talk to him about it he don't want to hear it, or he crys and says i'm hurting him.We have 2 children together and i have tried everything i feel like i'm the only one putting anything into our marrige.So i told him maybe we should just be friends and he won't accept that either.. Anyone have any suggestions on what to do?

2006-07-19 09:16:13 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-07-19 09:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anne 2

my fiance is so weird. he treats me ok, better than anyone else ever has, but he has a kid to his ex- who he hates- but it still bugs me. i miscarried last year, and it hurts to see her kid and not mine. i dont know if i can deal w/ it all the rest of my life, but i dont wanna break up. hes fun to be with and i enjoy my time with him, the only flaw is that hes not real sensitive at all, and doesnt show any emotion at all whatsoever. are these reasons to break up, if not, how do i fix my feelings???

2006-07-19 09:13:27 · 14 answers · asked by Erin P 2

2006-07-19 09:11:16 · 10 answers · asked by Leigh F 1

My hubby is always trying to tell me that I am beautiful, and perfect for him, etc...etc...BUT, I catch him looking up sites for skimpy and naked women on the net, I only ever weighed about 115 lbs until I had our baby. And now that I put on some weight, I feel even worse about my body image than before when I weighed less...We have only been married a year, if he says all this crap about me bein the ONE for him, then why does he feel it necessary to still look at porn? I am NOT looking for a debate on porn, just some honest opinions...Thank you

2006-07-19 09:07:27 · 11 answers · asked by yoohoosusie 5

My boyfriend and I are planning to get married. The thing is he is very much a mama's boy and she does everything for him. I think that she resents me a little because I am the other woman in his life. She also treats him like he is a little child and it drives me insane. I am not sure about all of this and I do not want to make my bf hate his mother, even though she is very annoying and controlling. I dont think 23 year old men should have to call their mother to check in! And plus the way that she talks about us to everyone and lets them know how much we make and how much we owe on stuff and that when we get married we cannot have a big house makes me really mad! I do not think that it is any of her business and she just has to know whats going on and tell everyone about it also hurts my feelings. It also makes me angry that my soon to be fiance will not stand up to her to tell her to stop. I dont think its my place. HELP! Am i just being jealous or controlling! Im freaking out!

2006-07-19 09:04:27 · 25 answers · asked by SuzyBelle04 6

I have been with my sons father for three years. We have had many ups and downs and althought I feel like I love him there are times when I want out or think about what I could have in another mate. How do you know for certain you are with the right person if your mind is at times filled with doubt?

2006-07-19 09:04:00 · 5 answers · asked by laxseel 1

my husband is a really nice guy. women are always coming to him for advice and friendship. i have a low self esteem , even though i know i am moderately attractive and people are generally attracted to me. i sometimes get jealous , or insecure about his relationships at his office. he is the boss there and all of his employees are women (they are secretaries and phone solicitors).
he often says things like " sandy and i talk on the phone a lot , we are good friends and we both go out of our way to make sure that the vibe is purly plutonic" he has also said that another woman "makes me feel uncomfortable , i just dont like women to use sexuality"....but anyways , long story short , he throws things out there that make me wonder , thinking that i will just listen and let it go , but when i aski anything further (as he is usually so non descript) he backtracks and says its nothing and dont worry about it.
i cant help but think he has inappropriate relationships with these women . help!

2006-07-19 09:01:00 · 13 answers · asked by bec 2

I think I do.

2006-07-19 08:59:33 · 9 answers · asked by Andy S 3

Tell me what you guys think. Does it matter to you who asks who to marry them? Do you prefer the traditional guy asks girl or the spontaneous girl asks guy out? And why...C'mon let's work for these 10 points huh?

2006-07-19 08:57:52 · 8 answers · asked by Cloe 4

2006-07-19 08:54:31 · 32 answers · asked by Christine Y 1

the thing that is missing is sex. should i go out and find me another woman for sex? don't rec'd counseling, etc. we don't drink, fight. about 15 years ago she threw away our wedding rings. since than i'v always believe our marriage was over. what kept us together this long is the kids. they're all grown. is it time to move on? i am someone has gone thru this before. what did you do? give me some pointers. how do i get out of this marriage without so much hurt for both of us?

2006-07-19 08:52:20 · 28 answers · asked by eagle_claw1976 1

2006-07-19 08:49:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He reccently told me he doesnt know if he loves me anymore and also mentioned how he ran into an old friend and how they communicate on a yearly basis but I found email from her very personal.

2006-07-19 08:46:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you cheat on your spouse ..honest answers

2006-07-19 08:39:34 · 19 answers · asked by l2hunt2001 2

2006-07-19 08:39:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-19 08:37:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My affair with this man was beautiful. Not just the sex but him. He's young at heart, a gentleman, sweet, responsible, and sensitive.
I want to know if he truly likes me, help.
Besides calls and greets from him daily, he said he's willing to be patient with my current situation and regardless of what I choose, he will always be there for me when I need him (moral support not sexually). he said he enjoys every moment spent with me, not just the affair we had. I know its not sweet talk b/c he's been genuine evn before the affair.
In fact, he encourages the best for me, regardless if its with him or not. Of course, he wishes for it to be with him.
??

2006-07-19 08:35:23 · 9 answers · asked by voteforfreewill 1