Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2006

My Husband works for a computer company for hours helping people solve whatever issues they may have with their system/computers CAN THIS HAVE AN EFFECT/AFFECT ON HIM NOT BEING ABLE TO PERFORM IN BED? meaning @ one point he's ready then it goes LIMP. LOL AND NO IT IS NOT ME I'M FINE and LOOK DAM GOOD & HE KNOWS THIS, IT's HIM. JUST LIKE TO KNOW IS THERE SOMETHING HE COULD DO? AND NO NOT THAT< I WANT HIM NOT HIS Lips. HELP. NO JOKES unless clean & you can help me by helping him. THANKS

2006-07-19 04:44:48 · 12 answers · asked by sweettoni37 4

My girlfriend (not bi) and I (both married but not to each other) have been in love, good buddies, best friends and have had passionate, hot sex with each other for six years.
During sex, she liked to suggest fantasizes. She would ask me to “play-like” she was a hooker or a stranger or some other female we both know. We talked about what she would be doing while I was having sex with the other female and then how I’d swap back and forth. Sounded great!
We we did it. My girlfriend watched but did not get into the bed with us. (She handed me the KY jelly and opened the condom for me). After the other female left, my girlfriend and I had two rounds of good, hot sex and then we both went to our homes.
That night, my girlfriend’s attitude turned. She was mad at me. She was heartbroken. She definitely was through with me for cheating on her. She said she hated the day we ever met.
What is going on here? Is she mentally or emotionally unbalanced? Are women typically that unpredictable?

2006-07-19 04:41:27 · 31 answers · asked by secretlover787 1

okay so last night I had a dream about a coworker... we made love? and I was sleeping right next to my husband. I never thought of this co worker like that.. he is even younger than me? does this mean I have an attraction to him?? Or what??

2006-07-19 04:31:09 · 14 answers · asked by Mommy2Two!! 4

my husband left me and my children. I could someone just shut off there feelings like that. He is very angry at me about something, and will not give me any explanation why. The only thing he keeps saying is that I do for my family and not him. I think he is seeing someone else, Im not sure. The signs are all there. I have been with this man for 14yrs of marriage and plus he was my highschool first love. He gave me no signs of leaving. I came home one weekend from my daughters skating competition, and he started giving me the cold shoulder, then the next thing you know he left. I am so hurt and devestated I dont know what to do. He is a very hard person to talk too. I think he wants to see me fail, so I can go running back to him for help, not sure though. You think all the years Ive known him I would at least know what he feeling! But I dont. How can I get back the love of my life.................

2006-07-19 04:30:44 · 17 answers · asked by carol s 1

2006-07-19 04:28:11 · 26 answers · asked by Queen Victoria of Port 3

Hi i have a question maybe its been sked by someone but anyway.
Me and my gf had a baby then she left me. She asked for public assistance Court ordered me to pay child support, she also sent baby to another country. So is it possible to me to get a custody of a child even though we were not married??????
It is in NY state.
Thank you
wise advise needed

2006-07-19 04:21:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

His ex calls all the time, asking how to deal with their son. My husband even has life insurance on her which I think is strange. My stepson is only 12 and has already smoked pot. He lies constantly and my husband won't discipline him or set any rules.

2006-07-19 04:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by seashells425 1

We've gone thru a lot of pain for years and I've decided to be single again. We have two young children and four years together. Recently, I had a breakdown and he finally realized the serious condition I have been in, he asked what he needs to do, I said get help. I wish I would have told him it's over then but I wasn't tough enough. he is going to get some counseling for the first time but.... I don't want to be with him anymore. How do I tell him this and should I tell him?
Please note: we've had a very violent relationship and some things have stayed with me. I also feel that b/c of his past (sexual abuse/starvation/etc) that he will always be who he is in one way or another. he has similar interests and tastes but our character and personailties are opposite. I know he can't be perfect but I would like to enjoy my life and be myself with the person I love.
How can I tell him this and should I tell him now?
Thanks

2006-07-19 04:06:54 · 19 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3

Mini-golf, shopping, movies, dinner, going out to breakfast, painting, etc.

2006-07-19 04:02:54 · 17 answers · asked by kristin22 4

Married and I'm not happy with spouse, but I do love another, what should I do? Is this normal

2006-07-19 04:02:31 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out that when my daughter visits her dad and his live in girlfriend on the weekends she is shareing a room and bed with his girlfriends son (my daughter is 5 the little boy is 6). i feel this is inapprpriate. am i wrong?

2006-07-19 04:02:21 · 14 answers · asked by SWEETCAITY 1

my soon to be husband and i was talking about if i had to lose a part of my body would he still be there for me,he replied that he didn't know,i ask him if he loved me more for my hole body or did he love me for who i am,i'm 45 and alittle overweight and he still looks at other women like he wants to be with them and not me,(looks are not every thing right?) i'm not trying to start a fight with him but he some times makes me feel like i'm a dog on it's last leg,this hurts me very deep and this some times makes me wonder if he cares for me like he saies he does.he saies he loves me and only me,so why do i feel differant about us now, we have been togeother for 3 yrs and i love him the way i did when i first met him but hee is not the same way about me.i'm starting to cry over this very badly and i have cried for a while now,tell me whats wrong with me and what can i do to make him see i'm the one for him.
what should i do?

2006-07-19 03:53:20 · 24 answers · asked by DENISE 6

I've been dating my husband now since I was 16 years old. We both are the same age, and because of family pressure we got engaged early and marrried at 22. We both loved each other, but because of our culture we were, more like he was forced to marry me even though he wasnt ready. Its been a year now since we've been married and life just sux. We fight all the time, we don't have sex, we constantly argue. I think we both still love each other, we are even living with his family and now have decided to move out and try to live just with each other. We both want this to work, but he constantly throws it in my face that he got married when he was to young, yet he is willing to give this a shot and try to make this work. Our personalities are so different, I am very scared to let go, and I feel that we both are doing more harm them good. I am very confused I just need some help and someone to talk to. Any advice?

2006-07-19 03:52:25 · 7 answers · asked by Confused4life 2

she is happily married and i dont hv the courage to look for a girl
I am a Designer, 26 , new delhi, india

Do you think anyone can understand me?

2006-07-19 03:47:42 · 10 answers · asked by CoolestnHotest 2

We have been married for 5 years now. I love my wife and want to satisfy her in every way, including in bed. Ofcouse, with each year of marriage, you have to be careful not to let sex just become routine. When I ask her if she enjoyed our love making, she always says yes, but I want to know if there's anything I could do to make her go crazy. She's probably too shy to tell me. Any suggestions from MATURE women only please?

2006-07-19 03:45:34 · 19 answers · asked by Jimbo 2

2006-07-19 03:33:30 · 27 answers · asked by praveen jain 2

OK, here's the rundown. Since my husband and I have started dating and then got married, both of us have gained weight. I looked at myself in the mirror yesterday and just thought "UGH" yet it's so hard for me to get motivated to work out and start eating better. My husband and I have tried a couple times--but we just quit. Our anniversary is coming up in September and I have booked a trip for the two of us to go to Florida for a long weekend. I set a goal of losing 20 pounds each by the trip.(64 days from today).I would like to lose a total of 70 pounds but ya gotta start somewhere and I dont want to use diet pills or fad diets

.1) Do you think this is a healthy goal? 2.) What are some good ideas or incentives to get my husband and I both to stay committed to this goal? 3) What has worked for you and your mate if you've been in the same situation?

2006-07-19 03:27:28 · 14 answers · asked by Nikki B 2

Do you and your spouse have separate banking accounts?

Does it work better for you to have it that way?

2006-07-19 03:19:55 · 47 answers · asked by Krazy K 5

My boyfriend and I always fight about the chores. I feel like his maid and no matter how much I try to talk with him about it, I still come home and his dirty dishes are still on the table, the laundry is all over the floor, and the place is a mess. Any advice on how to get him to pitch in his share of chores?

2006-07-19 03:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by Stacia V 2

2006-07-19 03:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by Sandy 1

please help me.i'm missing my lover.what i have to do.he is not with me now.when he go to other counry,after that he does not care on me. my nerve does not work with out him.please help.oh god .

2006-07-19 03:10:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

mother of ex husband seeking child support .judge will like to know if he's divorce.

2006-07-19 03:06:59 · 6 answers · asked by carol b 1

To all gentlemen!

Can I have a straight answer please!

How many of you out there get beaten up by your own wives?

How many fought back and how did you fight back?

How many didn't fight back?

How many DON"T DARE to fight back?

Oops! I hope I would draw any fire!!!

2006-07-19 03:06:12 · 8 answers · asked by Street Smart 4

2006-07-19 03:06:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now that my marriage is over, how do I get back into the dating scene? Where does someone meet nice women?

2006-07-19 03:06:04 · 7 answers · asked by cuttur2000 2

Why need to sign the papers and not just have fun together?

2006-07-19 02:57:23 · 16 answers · asked by steaua 1

My husband and I are really in danger here in this marriage. So my husband decides he is mad at me and needs space. Okay, I don't mind. But taking space isn't all he does he begin to treat me very badly during his space (he is still coming home). One minute nice next minute I don't care about you. Then in between we would have these talks that seemed to bemoving the marriage somewhere, and I find out it was just a conversation and it means nothing. Now 3 weeks later, going on 4, I am getting frustrated with his so called space and we have this "serious discussion" two days ago. It felt good and it felt we are finally getting somewhere. So the next day, I figure let me call him and ask let's do something nice together to start...his response negative and filled with attitude. So last night, I decide enough is enough for me emotionally and mentally with this. I am shut off, turned off, and detached. What should my next move be? I still love him would love for this to still work out.

K

2006-07-19 02:45:53 · 15 answers · asked by kaiynasha 3

She works in the same building as me, I am thinking of taking her for coffee, or out to dinner, which do you think? Either place I take her my end goal is sex. Thanks.

2006-07-19 02:37:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is out of town, i m really upset with him, he will not make it by tomorrow :( . Should i not talk to him for few days? or what m i suppose to do at this situation????

2006-07-19 02:36:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-19 02:36:16 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl1977 1