Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2006

He says he feels the same about me, what are the chances that true love happens when yoi are not looking for it. should we both give up on our marriages to start a new life together?

2006-07-19 16:41:36 · 25 answers · asked by ABIGALE ROSE 1

2006-07-19 16:39:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you believe that you should never give up on your one true love? even if hes taken? and you know in reality that you cant have him forever?

2006-07-19 16:34:20 · 10 answers · asked by lala 1

should I confront him now or wait til he comes home, and if I don't say anything now, how am I to make it seem that nothing is wrong when he calls. He comes home in about 2 months.

2006-07-19 16:22:49 · 24 answers · asked by me 4

My wife and I (married 3 years, together 7) emigrated to NZ from the UK 6 months ago; we rented a lovely house near beach, bought all the furniture etc; then 2 weeks later she admits that she does not feel the same way about me. Over the next 5 months her behavior gets weirder and weirder; she flirted online with men, sent naked photos of herself to her best male friend (who is married) then I find out she has been sleeping with a bloke in the office. She left me 6 weeks ago and only told me about new bloke by email. She has been telling people that we have had big problems for 2 years....why not tell me this before we emigrated. I am stuck on myown 12000 miles from home; I have made a few friends and trying to get on with my life. Can I get her back, do I walk away - HELP! this is all a HUGE shock and I am not sure she is straight in the head. We have always got on so well; but she is a quiet one that has problems talking through her feelings. Any suggestions???

2006-07-19 16:18:26 · 7 answers · asked by will_ashcr 1

2006-07-19 16:18:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Now, I'm a guy who is just playing devil's advocate as he is bored. So, I ask. What is the point of marriage these days? Before, it was a religious ceremony to show dedication to another person or a way to give a women away to a man to begin a family ( so I've heard). But today, with the ease in getting a divorce, rate of divorce, and lack of a need to take in a life partner seeing as they can get finacial security much more easily thanbefore. is marriage something that should exist today? or is it just away to make a break up troublesome? Why get married? Why not just give the gift of fidelity and time? Seriously.

2006-07-19 16:03:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister-in-law is the godmother of one of my daughters. But yet everytime it comes around to her birthday or any of my other kids birthday, she always makes other plans, like getting her hair done, or going shopping. But when it comes to her sons birthday, me and my husband are always there. How can I tell her in a nice way that it really upsets me. Also, what would u do???

2006-07-19 15:55:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been going together for 2 years. I am 18 and he's 20. I am 4 1/2 months pregnant. Does anyone think it's a good idea to get married at this age? I love him and he loves me. We know everything about each other. He has asked me to marry him twice but I haven't really responded. I'm ready I just know marriage is hard work.

2006-07-19 15:43:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my wife. Before we got married, we were going steady for 5 years. A year before our wedding, she had an affair with a married man. I tried to get her back but she said were over. I moved to a different place and she followed me. I took her back, got married. Now, were happy and with kids. We never talked about it and I never opened the topic, even now. Sometimes I just wanna ask her. Should I forget about it or should I clear things up? How do I start?

2006-07-19 15:41:14 · 26 answers · asked by Miko 1

2006-07-19 15:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by funguy 1

i've been with my husband 6 years married 3. he never works always in and out of jail i know i want a divorce but he refuses to sighn the divorce papers we have no kids together i just don't understand oh yea every time he goes to jail i hear the same story i won't ever do it again what should i do

2006-07-19 15:36:29 · 27 answers · asked by heather f 3

i've been separated 2 years and me and him are getting divorced. i hear it's a sin. i tried to ask him if we could work things out. but he says we should just get a divorce and see what happens later. i'm the one who left. however, we met up a few times and started being friend with benefits. yet he still don't seem to want to work things out. it hurts me so much. and i'm scared of disapointing God. and what if i meet someone else. will the relationship/marriage be a sin forever since i'm divorced?

2006-07-19 15:35:24 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can i tell my husband in a nice way that i got a seat belt ticket for my daughter and it is 135.00 without him get mad at me

2006-07-19 15:33:32 · 17 answers · asked by angel h 4

He sneeks around at night pertentding to watch tv downstairs but I am not stupid. I am usually in bed waiting for him

2006-07-19 15:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by rene 2

I am newly divorced, have two small kids which bothers most men I hear about. I want to start dating again, have no idea how to start it again. I am 41 going on 42 and no spring chicken. I don't want to bring any weirdos into my childrens life, most men my age want a 20 something sex toy around or one night stands, which rules me out as I am on parenting duty almost always. I just want to start as friends, see what happens...any ideas? I have tried match.com and hated it..mostly arrogant self centered men that didn't want the baggage of someone else's kids.

2006-07-19 15:29:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

The teenage son wants to stay with them for the school year. He is 14 years old, his mom lives in N. Carolina. When he is in North Carolina, he lives with his stepdad who is separated from his mom. He sees his mom on weekends.
We are in California, how can my friend get a temporary order so he doesn't have to return before the hearing? How can they get a hearing? Are they going to have to pay for a lawyer? He has been here 4 weeks, and Mom agreed to a visitation even though it was not in the court order. He will be here 6 weeks in August before he leaves.
Your help is much appreciated! Thank you.

2006-07-19 15:26:58 · 7 answers · asked by Gothic Martha™ 6

could you tell me why or why not? love or respect. why dont men tell women what is on their minds? we are not mind readers and we need to get a better understanding of each other.

2006-07-19 15:13:06 · 13 answers · asked by cmac 3

2006-07-19 15:10:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

as a married women I like to experiment with sex with my husband and I am concidering a threesome with my husband him and another woman is that wrong to do ? I would love to experimant like that I'm sure my husband will enjoy that . please everyonr answer my question..........

2006-07-19 15:07:17 · 6 answers · asked by E.M. 4

My wife just had a baby 2 months ago, and she has the worst mood swings what can I do to help her through this, without killing myself??? lol

2006-07-19 15:05:51 · 19 answers · asked by dolby 2

2006-07-19 15:01:11 · 9 answers · asked by Delanne S 2

I have been married for 10 years, and well I just know that my husband and I are at that point where we really don't love each other as much as we did we both really don't want to leave cause we have 2 girls , and well it reall fells like we are just friends roomates , and is that really normal or am i just trippin ,

2006-07-19 14:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by E.M. 4

2006-07-19 14:47:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK. It's only been a couple months over a year of marriage. He takes it off, puts it in his wallet, puts it in the car, puts it on the bathroom sink, etc. He says there's nothing going on (I believe him 97%~the 3% is due to the fact he used to leave it in the bathroom...now he puts it where I won't SEE if he's not wearing it, maybe just to sooth me?) My rings are beautiful, I wear my wedding ring on my pinkie (I'm pregnant) and my engagement ring on my ring finger (it's a larger size) plus they mean a lot to me. I feel naked without them, not that naked's a bad thing! Do you think letting him taste his own medicine (he's a doc, pun intended) might solve my problem? I wish it didn't frustrate me so much but it burns me up and he won't stop.

2006-07-19 14:32:28 · 12 answers · asked by Sleek 7

i want to know the best/worst way to dump my girl....the way that causes the most pain.... please help a man desperate to get away

2006-07-19 14:31:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-19 14:28:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do i get up the nerve my kids love there dad and he would never hurt them?
also i have a little brother and if i leave he will find him and hurt him like he said i dont want that to hyappen and the boys are so attached to there daddy

2006-07-19 14:22:37 · 5 answers · asked by tawner5238 1

do you have to do it?

2006-07-19 14:21:35 · 22 answers · asked by SuperGirls™ 5

If you knew she'd have to be there but wanted a special trip Just for you.. what event would be the most satisfaction even if she tagged a long?..

Get serious here, cause the hubby is up for an anniversary, and I want it to be a good one for him!

2006-07-19 14:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by Craptacular Wonderment 6