Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2006

2006-07-19 14:15:56 · 70 answers · asked by April G 2

I AM IN A ABUSIVE MARRIAGE AND HAVE THREE KIDS AND NO PLASE TO GO MY PARENTS LEFT AND HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH ME AND ALL OF MY MONEY IS IN HIS ACCOUNT AND EVERYTHING IS IN HIS NAME SO I HAVE NOONE AND NOWHERE TO GO AND HE SAYS HE WILL CHANGE AND HE LOVES ME BUT WONT LET ME LEAVE AND WONT HELP ME WITH MONEY TO LEAVE I DONT HAVE A CAR CAUSE IT IS HIS AND I DONT WANT TO GET HIM INTO TROUBLE CAUSE I LOVE HIM AND DONT WANT TO KEEP THE KIDS AWAY FROM THERE DAD SO WHAT DO I DO PLEASE HELP AND NO MEAN REMARKS I HAVE IT BAD ENOUGH THANKS

2006-07-19 14:00:05 · 16 answers · asked by tawner5238 1

want leave me alone. How can I break it off without hurting him

2006-07-19 13:56:31 · 18 answers · asked by Sharelle1913 1

2006-07-19 13:41:55 · 20 answers · asked by iamlaura2006 1

My Wife and I had a fight a couple nights ago and she left with our 2yr old Daughter. I have seen them and spoken to them they are fine. I love them very much and want them to come back home. She wants a devorce but I don't I am will to do what every it takes to get her back and keep her happy for the rest of my life. Please help me with any ideas you may have.

2006-07-19 13:41:38 · 10 answers · asked by Cheese 1

My new husband has this woman whom he has known for 16 years. He had been intimate with her in the past, but after workinh on a relationship it never worked out. The problem I have is that she's continues to call for stupid reasons just to talk to him and he gets offensive when I express to him that I do not want her calling. It's not that I dont trust him. I just dont trust her. What to do? How to feel? Should I worry.. or just let it go? I've thought about calling her and seeing exactly what her motive is, but have been told that if I do that then she's accomplishing whats shes after and thats getting under my skin and causing me to be jealous. ANY ADVICE??

2006-07-19 13:37:17 · 16 answers · asked by Dawn 1

i'm not looking for anyone in particular right at this present time, since i've just got divorce however, part of me want someone and the other part of me just not ready yet what should i do?

2006-07-19 13:35:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ex paid for better portion of house. Divorced in excess of 10 years. No property settlement. No will at time of death.

2006-07-19 13:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm not looking for anyone in particular right at this present time, since i've just got divorce however, part of me want someone and the other part of me just not ready yet what should i do?

2006-07-19 13:33:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband can be sweet and one of the nicest people in the world. However ,he is extremly anxious and flys into a rage quickly and unexplainably. During his nice periods,everything seems fine on the outside. but, I'm always waiting for the other shoe to drop. Why do I always excuse his behavior and just put up with it?

2006-07-19 13:31:55 · 45 answers · asked by patty 3531 2

I`m with someone else-but its not the same. They say time heals-but its not for me. Does it ever really get better? I still miss him even after 3 years and think about him lots. How do I stop?

2006-07-19 13:30:01 · 15 answers · asked by gip55 2

What would you do if your husband told you he's "in love" with someone else. I feel his heart is no longer with me but he say's he is willing to 'give her up' and work at saving our marriage.
Im gutted of course but so unsure what I should do.
What would you do? take him back or end the marriage?

2006-07-19 13:20:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I were married three years ago because she was pregnant with my child. Her son, who is now 9, has been diagnosed with everything from ADD to ODD(oppositional defiance disorder) I have tried really hard to make things work between him and I, but his mom never backs me up when I discipline him. She says I am too harsh-I say he has alot of catching up to do. Basically, this leads to her and I disagreeing CONSTANTLY. I have stayed in this relationship for my daughter, who is the light of my life, but have fears about her living in a house where her dad is always "mad". My stepson has been gone for the summer and my wife and I have gotten along quite well, but whenever the subject of my stepson comes up, sparks fly. We have been to two marriage counselors,and my stepson sees a therapist regularly. I don't want to be upset my whole life, and I don't want my family to be hurt because of my upsetedness. Can my 2 year old daughter still love me if I am not there for her?

2006-07-19 13:09:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sure it's a milestone passed, but what would you do?

I'm looking for some inspiration here.. Thanks

2006-07-19 13:08:51 · 10 answers · asked by Craptacular Wonderment 6

Ladies...What is she doing? She has been online dating and meeting up with guys for a couple weeks. She still visits to see our two sons, and to get sex from me. She says that she is messed up and wants to stop. She was going to counseling, but cancelled her last appointment this week. I was paying her car and health insurance as well as letting her use my computer and my laundry room. All of that has been removed as I feel like a door mat. The sad part is that I love her more than ever, still believe in her, but she is driving me nuts!!! I have not yet restricted her from our two sons. How patient should I be and what should I do?

2006-07-19 12:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by Dan 2

in Southern California, but you aren't interested in leaving your husband. Would you consider looking for a long-term side relationship?

2006-07-19 12:51:21 · 12 answers · asked by drsteve362005 6

I'm a father of a 1 year old little girl whose mother left right after she was born. Now i support her by my self and want to move on with our lives the only problem is that i really can't afford it.Someone told me that i can type and file my own papers but i don't know where i can get the information from to do this. If anyone can help me to find out how to do this i will greatly appreciate this. I live in the state of Georgia.

2006-07-19 12:47:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want 2 marry my boyfriend who is british but packistani. i love him so much and he loves me.he says he cant because his family wont let him....is this true.am so nieve i dont know..he realy wants 2 marry me?

2006-07-19 12:36:39 · 25 answers · asked by shazz 1

my grandparents have been married for 40 years and they have never gone on their honeymoon.....we want to send them on their first honeymoon..but we dont know where....we want to send them some place where there arent mexicans or blacks(no offense..my grandpa doesnt like them,cuz hes weired like that)and some place where its not ganna cost 2 arms and a leg for it.please help....

2006-07-19 12:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by byrdie 2

My girlfriend is going thru a divorce and she told me that her lawyer was doing her duty and informing her that the court may ask her to or send her to couples retreat with her soon to be ex. I dont understand why?? I went thru a seperation and went thru mediation but was never asked to go to couples retreat!! My understanding is that only reason why a divorcing couple would go would be because they are trying to fix their marrage. So im a little suspecious! My girlfriend and her ex have been seperated for a little over 2 years and we have been together for 8 months going on 9

2006-07-19 12:32:54 · 19 answers · asked by Antonio 2

2006-07-19 12:32:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

He doesn't sleep with her though, he lives in their other house nearby. He helps me with the household expenses and we built our house together. What do you make of that?

2006-07-19 12:20:09 · 41 answers · asked by Ai 3

ok my parents r going 2 get divorce my mom talks 2 this guy i think its her bf i want 2 go with my mom but not with him who will the judge make me go with?

2006-07-19 12:18:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband tells me he loves me dozens of times a day and I know that he says it only because he wants me to always know how he feels about me. He asks me often if he says it too much since his former wife said she got sick of hearing it all the time. I assure him that I love to hear those words from him but I'm just curious how other people might feel about it.

2006-07-19 12:18:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

If everything in your relationship was going fine, but the sex drive of one person was far greater than the other; the other being once every 6 months - would you stay in that relationship? Why, or why not?

2006-07-19 12:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by 'Barn 6

2006-07-19 12:14:19 · 13 answers · asked by 'Barn 6

Anyone know any type of drink or food or POTION I can put in his food or drinks to make him wanta have sex. I know its lame, but Im desperate...plz help me or what can I do to make him want to have sex with me. I am pretty, he says hes attracted to me we do fight thats one big cause for us not havin gsex...BUT I just need some extra help we are doing much better not fighting I know sex will come in time...any one have any idea?

2006-07-19 12:11:20 · 11 answers · asked by Confused4life 2

2006-07-19 11:59:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-19 11:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by Confused 1

2006-07-19 11:43:09 · 8 answers · asked by atmyhomeblue 1