2006-07-19 14:15:56 · 70 answers · asked by April G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think I could. I'd be too afraid he's looking for someone else all the time. I mean if he left her, how could you ever trust that he wouldn't leave you? Be very careful if you decide to go for it and watch for anything suspicious. I mean, just don't let your guard down. If you don't look out for you, who's gonna?
2006-07-19 14:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
This is a very hard one to answer because I know nothing of your situation, I really do not know what kind of man he is, I would think about a lot of factors, Why was he cheating in the first place, How long was the marriage?
What I mean is that sometimes when people get together for the first time around may be it's not for love but for convince.
I am not saying that gives him a reason for cheating on his wife I am just saying that a man does not do something unless he feels justified, In saying all of that It would take me a very long time before I could trust him, and I am sorry but, that is one of th main things that you need for any relationship to work out.
Good Luck...
2006-07-19 14:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She should definitely trust him. That shows not only loyalty to love, but also a willingness to follow through on that love. Sometimes love takes a second seat to social norms and it's hard to recognize when you're trapped in a listless marriage. Anyone that is willing to break with the social norm and actually leave his WIFE!! HAS GOT TO be trustworthy. He risked a lot with a woman that he was safe with to be with his true love.
That shows strength, courage, and commitment when a man leaves his family.
Definitely trust everything he says.
Good luck! And congratulations!
2006-07-19 14:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can answer yes and no to your question. What was his life like with his wife?? was he happy, was he satisfied...find out a little about his past and how stable he was with other relationships, that would tell you something about him and his personality. I would not blame a man who leaves his wife for another woman when she is making it as bad as hell. If you left her because of her looks or some laime reason like that, then he would do that with you as well, but if she was not the ideal wife, then you are the one if you know how to take care of him from all ends....
2006-07-19 14:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hellll no. if he left the one that he made vows to ,how can he be trusted . it says for better or worse .if he could not stik in there thru her worse why do you think he is gonna stay with you. as soon as you do something that he dont like or loose interest in you he will leave you for some one else. be very careful, because it seems like this guy have some issues of his own that he cant deal with thats why he is running from woman to woman. and he thinks that the grass is greener on the other side. it may be greener for a while but why stress your self out trying to be miss perfect so he wont leave you.
2006-07-19 14:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the wife he had left was a cheater, would he be allowed to
leave her for you?
How about if she was in a coma?
It really depends on WHY he left her.
If he simply decided that he loved you better, you'd have to
realize that he might do the same thing again. I think it
is naive to believe that he will never meet someone he
believes is more appealing. What will he do then?
So ... if you don't know the story of why he left, I'd be very
very suspicious.
2006-07-19 14:20:18 · answer #6 · answered by Elana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I mean, if he left his wife to be with you, what's to say he won't do it to you down the road when you both are married? He could also be doing it to you right now, i.e., he's cheating on you. You should try to find men who are single at the time you are dating him. Messing with a married man is not only wrong, it could land you in divorce court as you defend yourself against his soon-to-be-ex-wife's allegations that she's divorcing him over you!!!
2006-07-19 14:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by Big D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think these days you can trust a man or a women to leave a spouse for someone else if he left her for you then he will do it again.the best thing you can do is to find someone that is not committed someone else you are just as much to blame for that relationship if you let that man do this let him get it together an then see what happens it's wrong this way.you need to put yourself in the other women's place what if it were you he was doing this to think about it
2006-07-21 09:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Tina H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that can be stolen once can be stolen again. Honor is either in ones character or it is not. What goes around comes around so always have a plan B because one day you will be in the same position as the first wife.
2006-07-19 14:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats hard. Theres two ways to look at it.
1. He is not good to trust because he may leave you for another women.
2. He ditched his other wife for you and he really loves you. Then you can trust him.
I'd say its #2
2006-07-19 14:18:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no cause who is saying that he will not do the same damned thing to you i mean he did it to her for you who is saying that when the next best thing comes along that he aint going to do it to you. And who is to say that he aint cheating on you with her. And is there proof that he left his wife i mean some men will just say that they did so that he can keep you on the side i mean that is a really complicated situation but most men really do not change that easily so i would just say proceed with caution and make him earn your trust if you really want to be with him.
2006-07-19 14:21:15 · answer #11 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋