My Wife and I had a fight a couple nights ago and she left with our 2yr old Daughter. I have seen them and spoken to them they are fine. I love them very much and want them to come back home. She wants a devorce but I don't I am will to do what every it takes to get her back and keep her happy for the rest of my life. Please help me with any ideas you may have.
2006-07-19 13:41:38 · 10 answers · asked by Cheese 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first, tell her you do not want your marriage to end, then suggest marriage counseling it works (experience) try to remember the things you did and gave to her that made you so special to her in the begginning. be sure to remind her of all the reasons you love her and how much you love , miss, have to have her. Stay away from drinking, heavy partying, and extramarital affairs. this is not meant to offend, it just seems like a lot of people in your present situation dry to drown the hearache with alcohol and stupidity. BTW it is nice to see that there are men in this worl you would actually walk the distance to get his family back. a lot of people(husband OR wife) just give up and lose help. if you loved someone to commit to them with wedding vows, then she shouldnt even consider divorce. try to stay calm and collected. she probably just needs some time. I really do hope that this works out good for all of you.Divorce is horribly stressful.
2006-07-19 14:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First let me start by saying that you should really look deep into what started the fight and what happened during it...Did you hit her??Did you verbally abuse her??So many things can happen in the heat of anger...What led up to the fight?? How have things been between the two of you the past few months??There are so many things to consider....What is best,really best for your little girl???I know there are two sides to every fight and sometimes its hard to tell what is right and wrong but if you really want to make it work sit down with a friend or family member and your spouse and talk it out....Don't do it one on one...Have someone with an objective view present...If she wants to make it work then it will if not....Always keep your daughter first!!!!!! Good luck friend..
2006-07-19 13:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry first of all because you two had a fight she needs to step up to the plate , and it was both of you not just you, she needs to stop taking off like that , your wife needs to stay there and try to work it out with you , , husbands and wives fight all the time then thay get back together, but you as a man need to fight for your family, get them back home trust me she really doesn't want a divorce , she's upset , trust me running away will get old after a while , she needs to grow up and learn how to deal with it
the best of luck to you and god bless ...........
2006-07-19 13:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by E.M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fifteen Ways to Say, "I'm Sorry."
1. I'm feeling defensive. When I feel defensive, sometimes I say things I don't mean.
2. I'm not talking to you like you are someone I love. Let me start over because I do love you.
3. I know I'm sounding angry, but I'm feeling extremely threatened. Let me take a deep breath and try again.
4. I know you're feeling harassed. Please bear with me, I will do better for you.
5. I'm afraid if I say I'm sorry, you'll make everything my fault.
6. I'm sorry. I think I was using a tone of voice I did not mean.
7. I think I'm overreacting.
8. I guess I haven't been listening very well. Please give me another chance.
9. Please forgive me?
10. I know I've hurt you. What can I do that would help us get happy again?
11. I've said some mean things. Can I take them back?
12. I'm making it sound like it was all your fault. I know that's not true.
13. I know I sound mad now. I'm sorry and I haven't stopped loving you.
14. I love you, I hate fighting, and I'm sorry for my part of this one!
15. I feel lousy about what just happened. Can we just make up?
Don't forget the best two words of all, "I'm sorry."
Don't forget the best three words of all, "I love you."
Don't forget the best four words of all, "Please forgive my ______."
2006-07-19 13:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥♥H뮧hË¥™♥♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must have been some fight.
Did it get physical? What was it about? Was it the first time, or the last straw? Was alchohol or drugs involved?
Sometimes, it doesn't matter how sorry you are. Sometimes you have burned the bridge and it's just too late to patch things up. I hope that's not the case, but stuff happens.
2006-07-19 13:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want a severe answer? Sorry lady, yet you're dropping a even as. HE slept with you, only because he felt like it, and then he requested to be friends after that. Come on lady dont degrade your self! you're extra proper than that! HE DESERVED THAT SLAP! Dont ask for forgiveness! He only used you and also you cant enable that bypass unpunished. Jus go away him on my own, he would not deserve u, you may do extra proper. good success.
2016-10-14 23:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by muniz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-19 14:19:35 · answer #7 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true apology includes true honesty. Any attempt at massaging the truth in your favor will backfire.
2006-07-19 13:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by TruthIsRelative 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and dont sugar coat it. If she has any questions, no matter how mad or painful answer them. Apologize..........again and again. PS .......a new diamond ring wont hurt.......k/j
2006-07-19 13:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Stephanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would really have to go into details inoder to give a sound piece of advice
2006-07-19 13:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋