Marriage & Divorce - 19 July 2006

after nine years in a relationship my then boyfriend left me for another woman, he was gone for two months and returned home six weeks ago. we have two children together and we decided to get married. since he's been back all he does is talk about his ex girlfriend and the girlfriend he had before me. everytime i confront him about it he says he's just kidding or that he came home to me. what do you think about this?

2006-07-19 20:54:39 · 16 answers · asked by been there 2

2006-07-19 20:53:00 · 12 answers · asked by lol 6

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2006-07-19 20:51:12 · 3 answers · asked by wilsonallstar22 1

(Or: previous question rephrased.)

Why not just live together instead of wasting your time and breath saying pledges you're not going to keep? Why get so excited when the man you've been living with for the past two years finally asked you to marry him? And so on and so forth.

2006-07-19 20:48:56 · 16 answers · asked by teh_sexi_hotttie 4

my moms husband just told her hes been cheating on her. this isnt about him and her but i was wondering what exactly causes you guys to cheat, what goes through your mind during the affair (not just the sex part) why do you do it when you know your going to be hurting someone? women please do not answer i just want a guys perspective.

2006-07-19 20:47:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-19 20:40:44 · 26 answers · asked by seenu 4

I'm not talking attractive....I mean sex appeal. That primal attraction.

2006-07-19 20:13:47 · 13 answers · asked by loverly 1

2006-07-19 20:00:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-19 19:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by useyourboob 1

2006-07-19 19:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by Fiji_bound2007 2

For 3 years Ive been dating a man whos 37, I'm 23 (yes, I know BIG difference) but before this could move ahead to marriage, theres something sort of bothering me. He cant keep his hands off of me alot of the time. I mean for instance if I'm laying on his loveseat, he'll come over & lay with me (which I dont mind) but then he always tries to take it farther, he'll start going up my shirt, grabbing my chest, trying to unbutton my pants, etc. I get really sick of this constant behavior. When I get annoyed & tell him so, he says "I cant help it, I have a young sexy girlfriend", but then minutes later returns to the same behavior. He's not lacking in the sex department, we do it about 4 times a week. Im not a prude but Im sick of being treated like a piece of a**, I have much more to offer. So my question is, is he a typical man or does he not respect me? Thank you for your input, I dont want to wind up with someone just on the basis of sex!

2006-07-19 19:32:22 · 18 answers · asked by Ashley 4

2006-07-19 19:22:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

DO YOU HURT US ON PURPOSE AND WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE US YOU KEEP UP THE HURT EVEN IF IT IS JUST TO PUT US DOWN EVEN FURTHER THEN WE ALREADY ARE. AND WHEN WE START TO GET BACK UP AND GET HOPE, YOU KNOCK US DOWN AGAIN. IS THIS ON PURPOSE. Answer honestly. if you know you have someone at your feet, do you like to see them that way. And until they get up and wont let you put them down, youll bend

2006-07-19 18:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i recently found out that my husband cheats on me with any one he can convince too.

2006-07-19 18:37:29 · 33 answers · asked by Veronica M 1

I am a woman who loves sex and doing things in the bedroom with my mate to make things interesting. I am going crazy trying to figure him out. I think I am an attractive woman because men do hit on me but my husband makes me feel unattractive. When we do have sex it is just the same way and last's 3-4 min. MAX!!!! I have asked him to tell me thing's that he would like for me to do but he is not into sex like that he said......OMG.....I love him very much or I would have probley gone astray by now PLEASE HELP????

2006-07-19 18:37:11 · 22 answers · asked by smiley 1

I'm not talking about loving your partner...
or staying together for the kids...
I mean fire,passion,excitement...
anytime,anyplace,anywhere kinda thing...
can it still exist?
please tell me your age and how long you have been married also...

2006-07-19 18:12:54 · 11 answers · asked by crystal 5

I have been in a relationship for the past year and nine months. There has been nothing but terrible arguements between us. We love each other deeply and want to work it out. We are both in t wo different states and talk on the phone everyday. Recently he has post poned our wedding due to our way of communicating ( i.e. arguing). Will we survive?

2006-07-19 18:11:28 · 7 answers · asked by asinglegurl04 2

I posted the details about my cheating wife earlier (just emigrated to NZ etc) she went off with a bloke at work (a bloke is a male human for those of you that live in North America). She is seeing this guy in her office but I know that they are trying to keep it quiet. All our friends and family are on my side; I want to keep it that way. Is it a good idea to try and get some form of revenge, or shall I just let it go, ignore her, get my life back on track and walk away smelling of roses?? I could make their life very awkward, but then again how many office rebound affairs turn into good solid relationships - she has lost all her friends, if it goes wrong with this new chap she has nothing left at all. Revenge or walk away??? Thoughts??

2006-07-19 18:05:28 · 20 answers · asked by will_ashcr 1

and what about f- - - - - - and making love ? are they the same

2006-07-19 18:00:18 · 8 answers · asked by ABIGALE ROSE 1

Nine years for me.

2006-07-19 17:55:34 · 32 answers · asked by stickan8 3

Ive recently went through a difficult divorce last week, something my ex wife was begging for. She stated to court that she knows Im a good person, but she doesnt believe we can communicate.

Yesterday night, I saw her at a local night club with her friends. I think she had the option to leave as soon as she saw me, but she still stayed. I mean, there was definately no eye contact, but if someone got a divorce just to get rid of the person you definately wouldnt want to see him right infront of you on your fun night out, would you? Her friends were having fun, flirting and fooling around with some guys, but she was just minding her own business and was disregarding any guy approaching her. And lastly, what could be a great coincidence, is that when I decided to leave the place, they left right behind me a few minutes later.

I do admit that I still love her to bits, and Ill always want the best for her and to protect her from any harm. Do you think I should let her know that atleast?

2006-07-19 17:54:54 · 7 answers · asked by Zwerg 3

2006-07-19 17:49:57 · 31 answers · asked by toughgirl 1

I love that my hubby is so loving towards me. And that he is soo sexy doesn't hurt either.

2006-07-19 17:41:13 · 10 answers · asked by stickan8 3

If you had been married for awhile...
and let's say you were bored...
what kind of women would catch
your eye?
younger
beauty
brains
sexy
someone career oriented?...
or is it a mid life crisis?

2006-07-19 17:35:44 · 12 answers · asked by NONE 1

Jealousy sometimes is the root cause for couples who argues, inflicts physical pain, or verbally abuse and emotionally abuse the other partner.

2006-07-19 17:31:19 · 17 answers · asked by len 1

or would you get divorced in hopes of a happy life? Keep in mind we have tried counseling and everything like that. I am not asking for anyone to say "this is not the question you ask perfect strangers".. I am almost positive on what I am going to do I am just wondering what others would do in this situation!

2006-07-19 17:29:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-19 17:26:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 18 years,suddenly my wife said that she did not love me any more. We have two teenagers and I love them with all my life, we been separated now 3 years and she is now giving me hints, I feel she wants me back in her life. I trully need some good advice.

2006-07-19 17:19:55 · 7 answers · asked by ray 2

2006-07-19 17:01:57 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm writing for a magazine, I was wondering if anyone could help me out. I need to know who has cheated or been cheated on in a relationship? Please tell me if you are or were married or not. It's about who gets cheating on more, married or dating people... And whether beening married keeps you commited.

2006-07-19 16:43:42 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous