2006-07-19 20:40:44 · 26 answers · asked by seenu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually, marriage just gets two people to live together.
2006-07-19 20:43:27 · answer #1 · answered by teh_sexi_hotttie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a solution that creates problems... Basically it is an official status created to mostly protect the children born to a couple... Laws recongnize marriage as a CONTRACT... Is a
contract a solution or a problem? Depends if any parties are
abusing the other party...
Otherwise, it is an happy event that should make you stop looking
for a partner of life... Married man live longer and happier per some several studies....
They never mention the women side ....
I wonder why...?
2006-07-19 20:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is neither. If you consider it a problem, don't get married. If you are having problems, marriage is not the solution, you have to look in a different place for solutions. Marriage is done because of love, and nothing else.
John
2006-07-19 20:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both, depending on the situation. Marriage is the relation between man and woman in which the independence is equal, the dependence mutual, and the obligation reciprocal.
You and your spouse have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weakness and strengths. You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together. Neither one of you is perfect, but are you perfect for each other? Do you bring out the best in each other? Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control? What do you bring to the relationship? Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain? Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without.
As what Simone Signoret quotes "Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last - more than passion or even sex!"
2006-07-19 21:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, it's a pledge between two people that love each other. If you're getting married because you think it will solve problems... you're wrong.
Problems are going to arise in your life no matter what you do... that doesn't mean they're caused by the marriage. Sharing your life with a person doesn't mean you're not going to have problems... it means that you'll have somoene there with you to help you through them and that you need to be there for someone to help them through their problems.
If your relationship is problematic, getting married is just going to screw you around more. If your relationship isn't problematic... that's great, but don't think it will stay that way. There is no such thing as a perfect life, or a perfect marriage.
2006-07-19 20:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a solution to problems.
Many women are fooled into thinking too often that marriage will "cure" what is wrong in the relationship.
Marriage brings on a whole new set of responsibilities, that for some, can also be identified as "problems".
Kids, mortgages, in-laws, jobs, etc..
2006-07-20 04:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by reignydey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a union, a bond, a partnership between two people, and it's up to them what they make of it. A marriage can, on one extreme, become a man and woman living alone together in irredeemable despair and misery, to the other end, where each one represents the others reliable help mate, trusted best friend, and sensuous lover. Pick a spot anywhere along that continuum, and you can make a case for that being what marriage is.
2006-07-19 20:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its both. The solution is that both couple get to live under one roof. But problem will also arise too. U get to know about each other worse bad habit so thats the start of problems. Think of it this way... problems in the world keeps us moving all the time.Teach us to think outside the box.
2006-07-19 20:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is neither a problem nor its solution. it is an institution, which is governed by the mutual understanding, love and trust of both the partners.
2006-07-19 21:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by The Choosen One!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage was invented when people got married at 12, and died at 30.
It has no purpose in the modern world.
2006-07-19 20:43:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋