2006-07-19 17:26:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do the housework. Handle the finances. No kids. No other problems known.
2006-07-19 17:33:53 · update #1
I work full time, and go to school full time.
2006-07-19 17:35:04 · update #2
Does her new job have anything to do with her being angry at you? You haven't given enough info to really give us a good picture of what's going on.
She could just be tired from work, or did she go to work so you could stay home? That might annoy her too.
Need more info to say much more though.
2006-07-19 17:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by lily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesnt like it or its stressful or she totally not comfortable there yet. It should most likely pass but in the mean time when she is stressed out you should try to do something that shows you care about her. like pick up any extra slack at home. Make her an appointment to get a manicure and pedicure and then drive her there so she can get some unwinding time. Buy her flowers make her feel important cause she may not be feeling that way in her new office. Its hard being the new girl at work. Trust me. Other woman are harsh and everyone is always threatened by someone smart as well.
2006-07-20 00:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Glittergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are kids, then she has two FULL time jobs. Do you? I doubt it. So she would like you to OPEN your eyes and do what you see needs doing - take out the trash, wash the dishes, do the laundry, pick up after yourself - she is NOT your mother for crying out loud. And if your mother raised u to be that way, then your wife should quit her job and be your full-time MOMMY. You could also get a second job and work 16 hours a day like working women do. HAHAHAH I would LOVE to hear from guys who do THAT!!!! Where are all the real men now?
2006-07-20 00:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by ravin_lunatic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be supportive of her. It takes lots to work and maintain a home. Perhaps you could sit down and discuss how you both can do work around the house to keep the upkeep on it. This would be a everyday thing to do, so nothing piles up. Have a crock pot. In the mornings put food in it, allow it to cook on slow..by the time you both get home..dinner is done. If you can afford it meet at a nice
restaurant for dinner. All this will spice up things and should make her feel better.
2006-07-20 00:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would almost bet money that she is in healthcare in some way? Well even if not, we women are very emotional about our jobs...I have not met a man yet that understands why, Im not sure I do. I often bring things home and take things out on my man, and I don't mean to. I think she needs a new job.
2006-07-20 00:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Casey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rub her back take care of her when she gets off. She may just could be very stressed. Give her a gift certificate to a spa or something. Try to do Yoga with her something to make her feel good about herself. When anyone gets off work they want to come home to a stress free environment. Make it as relaxing for her as you can.
2006-07-20 00:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by littlepussycat_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is seriously stressed out over this new job..
Stay out of her way, pick-up after yourself, and do as you are told!!! lol...
Seriously, it's not you it is just easier to take her frustration out on you.. Once she is settled and comfortable with her new job everything will go back to normal... Just be patient and understanding, which seems that you are since you cared enough to post this question!!!
2006-07-20 00:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by DeeDee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you can look for a higher paying job so she doesn't have to work.... you can make sure the house is clean when she gets home.... you can ask her what would make her day easier... and you MUST tell her how much you appreciate her hard work EVERYDAY. Best wishes
2006-07-20 00:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by colorist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is prolly stressed at the moment, trying to adjust to her new job. You sound like a caring, considerate spouse. Just continue to be understanding and patient with her for a while. Hope it gets better soon...Good luck!
2006-07-20 00:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got a lot of stress right now. Help out with all household chores. Sit & listen to her. Be supportive, but don't give suggestions unless asked for.
2006-07-20 00:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Diane D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋