I posted the details about my cheating wife earlier (just emigrated to NZ etc) she went off with a bloke at work (a bloke is a male human for those of you that live in North America). She is seeing this guy in her office but I know that they are trying to keep it quiet. All our friends and family are on my side; I want to keep it that way. Is it a good idea to try and get some form of revenge, or shall I just let it go, ignore her, get my life back on track and walk away smelling of roses?? I could make their life very awkward, but then again how many office rebound affairs turn into good solid relationships - she has lost all her friends, if it goes wrong with this new chap she has nothing left at all. Revenge or walk away??? Thoughts??
2006-07-19 18:05:28 · 20 answers · asked by will_ashcr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The best way to get back at a cheating wife is to show her that you can live without her. Be the bigger man and walk away. If you use revenge to get back at her you'll only strive to her level and you dont want that. Forget about her, keep your head held high and move on. I hope that helps you out.
2006-07-19 19:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by deais74 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by Leroy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-23 02:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-06-27 15:00:36 · answer #4 · answered by Carmel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made several statements here.. If you are thinking of staying then get some counseling. Don't do the Revenge thing. It only damages you in the long run.
Walk away.. Best Revenge is Living a good life.
2006-07-19 18:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by Celtic Tejas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater,Always a cheater.She will probably self-destruct.Tough if she looses everyone.She chose that path.You need to choose your OWN path.Stop letting her walk all over you.You are the blunt of all her jokes.You deserve to be respected.Don't give her a chance to push you away.Run,run like the wind while you still have your b***s in tact.She obviously does not care one bit about anyone but herself.You surely do not wanna stay.You may contract a horrid STD...just for pitying her dumb*** when she gets kicked to the curb,again, & comes running back to you.
2006-07-19 18:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-02-04 13:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the best ways to get back at her it to be real nice and sweet. Make her feel guilty for not being there for you. Women are strange that way. They always use the sensitivity card on men. When it is reversed they can't handle it. After making her feel good and guilty go do your thing anyway!!
2006-07-19 18:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by fx366 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away! Don't stoop to that level. You can walk away and years from now look back knowing you done nothing wrong. You will sleep allot better at night. Revenge is mine says the Lord, leave it to him. I am a firm believer in what goes around, comes around. She will get hers don't worry!
2006-07-19 18:37:33 · answer #9 · answered by TLM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my case.... I (34 years old) Now ex wife (33) I went out and found a beautiful 22 year old! She was pissed! Funny thing is I'm still dating her! The ex wife, single, sad, and paying me child support! karma is a great thing!
2006-07-19 18:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋