DO YOU HURT US ON PURPOSE AND WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE US YOU KEEP UP THE HURT EVEN IF IT IS JUST TO PUT US DOWN EVEN FURTHER THEN WE ALREADY ARE. AND WHEN WE START TO GET BACK UP AND GET HOPE, YOU KNOCK US DOWN AGAIN. IS THIS ON PURPOSE. Answer honestly. if you know you have someone at your feet, do you like to see them that way. And until they get up and wont let you put them down, youll bend
2006-07-19 18:41:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can't answer for all girls; but I have hurt guys several times Unintentionally. Selfish; but I hurt them out of fear by being hurt by them.
2006-07-19 18:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I dont know about everyone else but I dont purposely want to hurt the one i love HOWEVER this is going to happen at some point in time but its not intended... if you have a woman that purposely puts you down or kicks you when you are down so you are down even farther you might want to consider getting OUT of the relationship... People like that usually get joy in other peoples pain and will never change
2006-07-19 19:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comon man :P buck up... Odds are these woman who "hurt you" are just testing you man... and sorry to say it you failed. Especially if your going for the especially attractive or the especially fun girls, they have to test you. They get hit on all the time and have to have some way to weed out the guys that aren't going to attract them. Honestly, first what are they doing to "hurt" you? I mean if they are acting aloof and distant do the same. It's just a test to see if you are willing to be a man who can be there and be strong for them or just a little boy who is going to go cry because he is so needy. Needy isn't an attractive quality. So stick out your chest a little, slap yourself (or get a good friend to do it), and be a confident guy :P . You got all the equipment you need just need to use it right. Be funny, confident, and maybe just the slightest bit arrogant... don't overdue that last part. Now then, welcome to being a guy lol. This ends your informational section.
2006-07-19 18:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by freeze_guy_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends on how ladies hurts men. Some are goldiggers and the love they show is plainly for materials and money. Some,love to play aruond with men's heart. All in all ladies whom hurts men in the end, have their own reasons behind their actions. So as men,they tend to hurt ladies as well. Its all judged by the balance of love. When one show too much of love, the other doesnt seem to show that much of love wither. That's when the particular party may feel that they are being stepped. Love hurts in the end, when you see you are not appreciated and loved for what tyou are. Instead you are just a matter of product to them. So see in which category the ladies treat u as, and not all love hurts. Not only hurts. After all love is a mixture of pain and pleasure.
2006-07-19 18:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys beat on their wives, some women beat on their guys. Doesn't have to be physical to hurt. It's not fair to lump all of us "Ladies" together, though - I have never hurt anyone on purpose and my husband and I are so in love in would never occur to me to hurt him. But I suppose there are some women out there who get off on hurting guys and making them crawl, just as there are some men who like using their partners as punching bags.
Sorry someone hurt you so bad - we're not all like that, you know.
2006-07-19 18:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Samlet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no I'm not atleast...but it's sounds that you've been hurt man by a *****...yes....unfortunantly there are women who for some dumbass reason feel higher powered to have a guy begging for them ...get them...then let them go just for them to feel better about themselves. You just gotta find a girl that doesn't give it right up...yes that might actually mean you might have to wait a few weeks but you'll thank yourself in the long run...good luck & F@CK HER(the bad way):)
2006-07-19 18:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy to *Jordan Ibrahim* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i only have one relationship in my entire life!but honestly some girls do but not all! same as with men!i am married with my husband for 23 yrs now and hes my bf since i was 14 but sadly he keeps hurting me for 20yrs but then that doesn't made me think that all men are the same!each individual i think is unique in its own rights!
2006-07-19 19:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by angelseth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe you are placing ALL women under this category. Not ALL women are like this. It's like asking why ALL men cheat. Personally I wouldn't, but people think differently. You just need to find the one who will treat you right.
2006-07-19 18:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont do that. not all women get pleasure out of hurting men. you just haven't found the right kind of girl. sorry about that. you'll find a good woman who will cherish and respect you.
2006-07-19 18:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hurt my husband on purpose i have wanted a divorce for months now he won't give me one plus he's hurt me but unless its him no i try not to hurt men unless they hurt me then they see what a ***** i am
2006-07-20 01:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by heather f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋