My wife always give me 'head' whenever she like to do it. How do I tell her I'm not in that mood?

Question

I've tried talk to her nicely. But it seem she been so addicted to that. She'll do it when I'm reading or watching TV or playing video game etc. Are every woman like to BJ their hubby?

Answer 1

Okay... the only reason why men usually say no to head is because she's not any good at it. Have you tried telling her that it hurts? There are some really great books out there on how to give really good head. OR.... sometimes it's because that is the only type of sex she is willing to give u and doesn't want anything else to do with you. So which is it? If she doesn't want to give u anything else then you need to speak with her. If she doesn't do it the way you want to then try buying some books together or buy them yourself and leave them in the bathroom where she can read it privately! Hint, hint. Maybe she'll open it up and get some pointers. Good luck!

Answer 2

Damn thats a first a man not in the mood for a BJ.. will wonders ever cease lol.. but seriously as long as its not an all the time situation that your not in the mood.. (because if it is, shes going to become insecure) but if every now and then.. just tell her, ur just not feeling up to it at that moment.. and kiss her and reassure that you love her but your just not feeling it at that moment..

Answer 3

okay, this area is very very difficult. My girlfriend has tried and sucked at it, not in a good way. I tried telling her what I like her to d, but it didn't fair well. So, finnally I gave up and just say i'm not in the mood.....BAD! She felt pathetic and undesired...her words. The only thing I can say is act as you really really want it, but can't have it..as if you got to do something. but becareful, that is a slippy road to. in the end, you can hurt her feelings and try to build them back up, or you can lie lie and lie. your choice, but realize you are a very lucky man, I really wish i could help.

Answer 4

My hubby would love her lol well just tell her that you really are not in the mood and ask for a raincheck but be reasurring you do not want her to feel rejected tell her how great she is at doing it and how much you love it just you are to tired.

Answer 5

I wish I had the same problem! I must say you are lucky, though you don't think so. Give her time, and she won't do it at all. In the meantime, tell her you're just not comfortable with that in certain situations. Honesty is always the best policy.

Answer 6

If you love your wife, then be gentle with her, and bring her lips to your mouth. Kiss her, caress her all over, and tell her how much she means to you. She will get the message easily. Believe me, this will work! The worst thing you can do is to shove her away.... you will regret the day you ever did that!

Answer 7

Ok dude no disrespect but do you know how many guys would kill for that! But on the real if you dont like then be honest. The real question is are you getting it from somewhere else and is she doing it better than your wife or is it a he???????

Answer 8

Hmmmmm, what most guys wouldn't give to be in your situation.

But if you need help, just tell her that you feel just like she does sometimes. You are tired, angry, what ever your mood is. Guys, just like girls can be not in the mood for what ever reason.
But make sure its not a cover for withdrawing. For that you need a conversation.

Answer 9

No offense, but I thought every man was always in the mood for that. Just tell her about it. I'm sure it'll be fine.

Answer 10

That show she is very attach 2u. U hav 2do it very tactfully so it will not hurt her. explain 2 her that at times u ar tired. If u notice her sudden change of behavior, after u telling her, u better quickly do something about it like your turn 2do 'head'.