she is happily married and i dont hv the courage to look for a girl
I am a Designer, 26 , new delhi, india
Do you think anyone can understand me?
2006-07-19 03:47:42 · 10 answers · asked by CoolestnHotest 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What you are doing is very risky. Even when you find a good lady you may still want her to be exactly like the one who is gone. You can only imagine the recurring loss. Please leave the past and face your future.
You should try to focus your mind and let the past go with the wind. You can not tie your own happiness to some body's sadness. The woman is married happily or not the fact is that she is married. Please don't limit yourself to only her as an option. She was never meant for you and your pair is out there waiting for you. She might even be close by but you have refused to look out.
The woman will never sacrifice her happiness for you why should you. You are still very young and very promising too. You seem to have fallen in to a pot hole - you are forgiven but no one will pardon you if you remain there.
2006-07-19 04:00:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to get this married ex-girlfriend out of your life first. No other woman will want to compete with an old love. You need to move on in your own life. Start going out and practice dating a little before making any strong relationships. I think it will take time; but if you really want a good life for yourself, think of this past relationship as a learning experience and move on with your life. You will make some woman very happy once the "old girlfriend" is gone for good. Good Luck.
2006-07-19 11:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so you want to get married one day? i understand how you feel. you are alone and you are now remembering all the fun times you had with your ex. but she is now happily married. so do not tell her you still love her. do not go to her. or her man will KILL you. also, do not take a vacation becus if your on vacation you are alone and you will think of her even more.
here is what you need to do:
try to stay active. like go to work. go out in town with friends.
you can go on dates. even if you dont like the girls, just go on a date with them. so that you can get your mind off of your ex. it will be hard at first. you might compare everyone with your ex. but over some time you will find someone that is for you. try to date more. stay active.
2006-07-19 11:06:29 · answer #3 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would NOT go through with this marriage.If your true 100% feelings are not with your fiance` it will show up sooner or later I promise.Plus I am a believer in destiny,maybe you abd her are supposed to be together.I know from experience because this happened to me and after 2 years My boyfriend and I got back together are more happy than ever and have been married for 3 years.But this will breed immense resentment,please be SURE.
2006-07-19 11:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once she is married try and forget about her and move on with your Life find a new partner there are a lot of beautiful ladies out there but becareful when making a choice so you can make a good choice. Good Luck!
2006-07-19 11:12:58 · answer #5 · answered by boselydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. Your ex girlfriend obviously has. You need to let her go and search for someone else. You will never be happy until you can let go of the past and look towards your future
2006-07-19 10:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously still love your ex. you wont be able to fully commit to someone new until you are completely over your ex.
2006-07-19 10:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GET MARRIED IF SOMEONE ELSE IS ON YOUR MIND. THAT WOULD BE DOWN RIGHT DIRTY TO DO TO YOUR FIANCE.
2006-07-19 10:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a long vacation to get her off your mind.
she's gone!
not only that, she's married.... get over it and move on
2006-07-19 10:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess it means you still have feeling for her
2006-07-19 10:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by qnzlilmami018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋