2006-07-19 03:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yup adventure
2006-07-19 03:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by iam good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally serious in my answer so don't think I'm being a smarta$$.If you are in good health you should apply to the "Amazing Race".Have you watched it?It has totally reconnected some couples that have been married for many years.If this is not a reasonable option,try a long trip to a new place.Don't stick to a strict plan of action so there won't be stress of having to "get this done".Be open to new things on both your parts.I really believe in long romantic walks.Talk about what brought you together and how you felt when you did.Remember all the good times and even how you overcame some not good times.Or if you don't dance maybe go get dance lessons together.My parents have been married for 56 years and still going strong.Good luck to you.
2006-07-19 08:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All those things that made him fall in love with you in the first place! After 30 years I'm sure that you have gotten into a routine. Break it!
Think of all those things that you did when you first met and re-live them! Remember the dreams and ideas you shared back then, have you made them come true?
If all else fails, there is always the boob job and face lift (firm breasts always seem to interest men!) JOKING!!!!!
2006-07-19 04:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yourself...after 30 years she is bound to have enough of your own characteristics to have lasted this long...learn to appreciate the similarities for they were not all originally her own...over the years you have grown together...shared ups and down...laughed and cried...had your struggles and triumphs...look into her eyes and see the love that has allowed you to share 30 years of life together...and continue to fall in love all over again...blessings.
2006-07-19 03:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were growing old TOGETHER, you would never have fallen OUT of love with her.
Do not think the love in one's '50's will be the same energetic, frantic love one has in the '20's.
That was a period. Hope you enjoyed it. It's over.
Now you force yourself to think of your wife's good qualities.
How would your life be worse if she went away?
Enjoy her mind if her body is gone.
Quiet moments of appreciation is the stage you're at now.
Its O.K. too
2006-07-19 03:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle Thesis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking a vacation together. Try surprising him with lingerie or a new dish or taking him out on a min road trip to a hotel. Do something new TOGETHER like a long hike, paragliding... just be together and do things. Don't be dull and sit at home.
2006-07-19 03:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, he has the answers
2006-07-19 03:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by dizzys_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing you did to make him fall in love with you is the same thing you do to keep that fire alive.
2006-07-19 03:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A partner, someone to talk with and share all life as to offer and you have to be sexually compatible and be willing to try new things in life and in bed
2006-07-19 03:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adventure
2006-07-19 03:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋