Men, help me with your moral and genuine advice?

Question

My affair with this man was beautiful. Not just the sex but him. He's young at heart, a gentleman, sweet, responsible, and sensitive.
I want to know if he truly likes me, help.
Besides calls and greets from him daily, he said he's willing to be patient with my current situation and regardless of what I choose, he will always be there for me when I need him (moral support not sexually). he said he enjoys every moment spent with me, not just the affair we had. I know its not sweet talk b/c he's been genuine evn before the affair.
In fact, he encourages the best for me, regardless if its with him or not. Of course, he wishes for it to be with him.
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Answer 1

Don't understand - what's the question?

Answer 2

If you're immoral enough to have an affair, I'm not sure how 'moral' advice is going to help the situation any. If you're married to someone else, get off the computer right now, get them face to face, and tell them that it is over. You don't need to carry on another second without them knowing. Be truthful to your spouse, come clean and let the cards fall the way they fall.

Trust me, you'll end up happier in the end and so will your spouse.

Answer 3

You want advice that says you are morally correct in cheating?

lol

Sorry - not possible.

We don't know your details, so we don't know if you're just bored, or honestly found a soulmate. Cheaters are cheaters are cheaters. You think being with a cheater is the right thing....until they cheat on you.

Cheating makes for passion...with all the excitement. It's not the other person, it's the situation.

How about you grow a spine and tell your husband what you're doing, and then get a divorce. That's the morally correct thing to do if you don't have it in you to work things out.

Answer 4

Here's something to remember. Your relationship started with cheating. You cheated with him on your husband. This is not a judgement, it's a fact, right?

So even though he may love you, even though he supports you, even though he says he'll be patient with your situation, he knows in the back of his mind you're a cheater. And at some point he'll wonder if you'll cheat on him. No matter what you may say to him, he will ALWAYS wonder, somewhere in his private thoughts.

I know this isn't the answer you were hoping for, but I hope you take the advice for what it's worth.

Good luck, I hope this helps.

Answer 5

Which one of you is married? Hard to tell from your question, but calling it an affair leads me to believe someone was cheating on someone. You also say nothing about "your current situation", don't you think that might be an important fact to help us answer you? More info gets better answers.

Answer 6

I do not know why this question should be restricted to men.

Sweety, it sounds to me like this man not only "likes" you, but truly loves you.

I agree with him, though. Depending on your current situation, being with him my not be the best thing for you. It may be if you are both available or would be available to make yourselves happy without hurting too many others in the process.

May God bless you and may you rely on His guidance for this difficult decision.

Answer 7

Its an affair...your breaking your vows and betraying your husband and family...If all women had friends like yours do you think they would cheat on their husbands, No...they have devotion and honor for their family and themself...If you want someone else divorce your husband and see how long Mr. Charming stays charming..I can guarantee not as long as you've been married.

Answer 8

I hope he gets you pregant, then decides he doesn't want another kid ruining his life after you said that you would not have an abortion, and so he steals his grandfather's sawed-off shotgun and he blows you away, and makes it look like a robbery for money, and he is never caught, and you go to hell, but your baby gets to go back to heaven.

Answer 9

If this guy knows you are married and he still sees you, he is a piece of S H I T! Just as much as you are.