2006-07-19 08:54:31 · 32 answers · asked by Christine Y 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. Most men do it and most of the men that say they don't are lying. You should be happy you didn't catch him nailing your neighbor.
2006-07-19 09:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by jdscorrupted 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just for masterbating? No. Did he have pictures of the neighbor lady spread out in front of him? Then, yes. My thought is you might be a bit sexually repressed, and it would do you good to realize that 99% of men masterbate, and the other 1% lie about it. Try to figure out why this made you so uneasy, and that might give you insight into what the problem is.
2006-07-19 09:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Whattodo? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are getting enough why get upset over nothing?? Looking into why he feels the need to get off alone may tell you much more than gettin on his case. I'm sure You have had urges that are better kept private. Men naturally get the need to drain the snake now and then. Perhaps the fantasies they use may give ideas to use with you. Work with him and speak freely about sex. If you are one of those in the dark dames then be sure and show him everything and do not hold back on things to do.
2006-07-19 09:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by old codger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your initial reaction is probably correct. Personally, I would probably be more hurt than mad..."If he was horny, why didn't he just come and get me?" Men will be men and some of them can never get enough, if it's supplied by us or supplied by themselves. Maybe he is just more sexual than you are. I'm not sure whether or not my hubby is as sexual as me, but we compromise. We try to make dates to just go at each other and that's always nice. Maybe you could flirt with him and offer some "assistance". That might be a major turn-on for him and he wouldn't have to slip away and take care of things himself.
Maybe you should talk to him about it. Communication is the best thing. Go to him and tell him how you feel.
Take Care,
Joyce
2006-07-19 09:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by joycestew2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men masterbate all the time. It has nothing to do with you, or his sex drive or cheating or anything. Now, if he is doing this 10 times a day to kiddie porn or he does not want sex from you ever, then you might have some issues. Otherwise, give him some privacy already.
2006-07-19 08:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why be mad. Was he cheating on you? Was he using masterbation to keep from having sex with you? If not then what is he doing wrong?
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-07-19 09:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't.
All men masturbate. The only exceptions to this being the men who aren't physically able to reach their penis with another of their body parts. And those men just think about it a lot.
Yes, even the married ones who get it 3 times a day from the wife masturbate on a regular basis.
Look at it this way, it's better than him cheating on you. And you could always masturbate with him. Or you could masturbate each other...but then it wouldn't be masturbation would it?...hmmmm.....
2006-07-19 09:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by genetic_traitor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married my wife caught me doing the same thing. Instead of getting mad at me we ended up with a new dimension to our sex lives. It was such a turn on for both of us to watch each other masturbate which led to our masturbating each other. I found it to be a refreshing alterntive to normal realtions as a change of pace. Because we do all have fantasies we would sometimes masturbate to porno as a prelude to the real deed.
2006-07-19 09:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be mad. Why not see if he can bring it in to the bedroom with you? Each of you could watch the other please themselves and help out in the pleasure, you'd probably learn a lot, and you've already experienced the most embarrassing part anyway.
2006-07-19 09:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concerned maybe, but not mad. Just be thankful he's yanking his own chain and not some other woman. Would you prefer he'd do that better? (Just Kidding)
You might want to ask him why he feels he has to do that, something could be missing or lacking in your sexual relationship.
2006-07-19 09:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell No! Dont you ever touch yourself? Are you mad because he was playing with himself or do you think you should be mad because you are feeling inadequate? Men do this, it is natural and his actions do not imply he doesnt like getting it on with you. He was just horny and knows how he likes it!
2006-07-19 09:00:41 · answer #11 · answered by laxseel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋