I have caught my bf 4 times chating with other girls. It started on the internet, I took that away. And now I caught him txt.ing on his phone. Why and what should I do?
2006-07-19 09:44:16 · 32 answers · asked by FarmGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave Him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's his loss
2006-07-19 15:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what type of BF you have. What do you want to do? There is nothing you can do to stop his behavior, only how you respond to it (or not). Are you just very jealous or does he have a history of having more than one GF at a time? You know the answer to that one too. If he was with someone else when he started "chatting" with you, what makes you think that it will change just because he is with you? Sorry but that's how it works.
2006-07-19 09:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by MsET 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He keeps doing it because you keep allowing him to. I don't mean to be a jackass here but... get a little self esteem. If he cheats once, he'll cheat again, and again, and again. It's a character flaw. Drop him like a hot rock. No matter how many times he says he won't do it again..... he will. Until HE sees it as a problem, and has enough leverage on himself to change, he'll continue with the same pattern.
I know it won't be easy for you, but you need to do what's best for YOU.
Good luck, I hope this helps.
2006-07-19 10:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this times he is talking having to do with meeting, have sexual content? That's disrespectful of you and your relationship. If they are having a "hello, how are you?" kind of talk, don't worry too much.
But if you are that worried, then I'm sure you have your reasons. Ask him to stop and if he says no, or if you catch him again, show his butt to the curbside and leave him there. There are much better men than that out there who'd love to be in a relationship with you, I"m sure.
Good luck!!
2006-07-19 09:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My now fiance did same to me so I gave him a phone we now share a contract together I am now able to keep tabs on him if ever I get suspicious. We have been together 2.5 years and that problem was stopped 5 mths into relationship.
2006-07-19 09:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Audra V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why are you still with the loser? He evidently doesn't have any respect for you or other women. It isn't worth it to stay with someone who doesn't respect you. You deserve way better than that. Kick him out or you leave, move on, and find someone that deserves you. DON'T put up with this type of crap from anyone.
2006-07-19 09:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get your *** out of there. He does not respect you at all. And he does not deserve you . I know when someone else says for you to leave the person you love, it hurts, but hurt later and get out of there. He keeps doing it because you keep letting him by staying with him and putting up with him. If you stay you are just as much to blame. Have you ever heard the saying," Shame on you if you fooled me once, shame on me if you fooled me twice".........
Think about it:)
2006-07-19 09:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. You shouldn't be asking yourself why he's doing it you should drop the realtionship all together. One reason he might keep doing it is because he doesn't take you serious and knows that you wouldn't leave him. He's taking your love for granted and you shouldn't let him. I am sure there is someone else out there who will now how to trully cherish it.
2006-07-19 09:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to stay with a man who clearly is unable to be faithful in any way? If he can't act like an adult in an adult relationship, MOVE ON, he won't be worth your time or effort. He'll only end up breaking your heart.
2006-07-19 09:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE FIRST TIME IT OS HIS FAULT HE CHEATS AFTER THAT IT IS UR FAULT FOR STAYING LEAVE HIM NOW U DESERVE BETTER AND NEED TO BE HAPPY U DONT NEED HIM AND IF HE IS W OTHERS HONEY HE DOESNT LOVE U I HAVE BEEN THERE N DONE THAT N CRIED N CHASED HIM DOWN HID HIS SHOES THREW AWAY HIS PHONE N U KNWO WHAT I STAYED 5 YEARS FOR WHAT A FRICKEN DEAT BEAT LOOSER FORGET HIM I AM SO MUCH HAPPIUER NOW
2006-07-19 09:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEave his *** Alone. Call him right now curse him out get all that anger of your chest then go out buy a hot new outfit call your girls and hit the club sweat your perm or your weave out.
2006-07-19 10:06:38 · answer #11 · answered by katara F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋