2006-07-19 09:34:28 · 9 answers · asked by Shadow 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't, no one can but her. Don't take responsibility for her actions, you or your wife. It's great that she wants them together but it's not her relationship and they are not her mistakes. Her mother will have to deal with her choices. I would spend more time talking with your wife and getting her to see that she has to accept whatever the outcome is. Her mother will get caught, if she hasn't already then it is no longer anyone's decission wether they will be together but his, and rightfully so.
2006-07-19 09:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 4⤋
You can do nothing unless you want to go against your wife and tell father in law. That could be ugly. One thing that might be possible is find a way for him to discover it for himself. if you know she is going to be somewhere specific at a certain time and with the other person, innocently arrange a situation where dad will end up there during that same time, but do it in a way that leaves you clear of anyone knowing you had anything to do with it.
2006-07-19 16:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's "them"? the MIL and the new guy? her parents??
Fact of the matter is, you can't stop your mother-in-law from doing anything. You have no control over her.
However, you can inform her husband, but be prepared for the repercussions from your wife and your MIL. Your FIL may not be too happy either. And sometimes the messenger gets the blame.
Better to leave clues that your FIL will find, and have him "discover" it on his own. He may already know and be cool about it, and just doesn't want anyone else to know that he knows because of his pride/manhood/whatever.
What concerns me more is the duplicity your wife is displaying. How can you trust her not to cheat on YOU?
2006-07-19 16:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by voxwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well theres nothing you can really do, but tell her husband that shes doing it, but have proof, but that could ruin your marriage, because either one of the parents is going to hate you forever since you would be telling, write a letter and put it in there mailbox, with pictures, and saying whos shes been doing, my friend did that before, and he didnt kick her out, there still married of 31 yrs, so they will work it out or they will split up.
2006-07-19 16:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it and listen to your wife
2006-07-19 16:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your spouse should confront the mother and try to do it that way. You can only support your spouse.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-07-19 16:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own biz maybe? Or If shes hot maybe u can do her and blackmail her lmaoo
2006-07-19 17:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by itsallover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are gonna start cheating on her daughter....if she doesnt stop
2006-07-19 16:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some advice. Mind your own damn business!
Does this affect you personally? Leave it alone!
2006-07-19 16:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋