i am 27 yr old..married 1 1/2 yr back..going through rough phase with my career..i am getting into 1st yr of my residency next yr...whenever my friends ask me or see them with their kids i just freak out and i feel i will never have a baby...i liked kida b4...my hubby is a pediatrician and he wants kids sometime...ofcourse when i am ready..i am just worried...whats this...
2006-07-19 09:28:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its normal, your stressed. And whether you have six kids (like me) or none, OTHER people's kids irritate you. So if you are thinking, I never want one of THOSE, dont worry you wont. Your kids will be uniquely yours, with you and your husband physical characteristics and their own unique personality.
2006-07-19 18:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by Jessi B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I feel the same way too, there are lots of reasons for that
1. Career wise am still in the budding stages and financially not very sound and theres lot of stress
2. WOmen grow ugly after pregnancy---> lose hair, become fat etc
3. Pregnancy is painful and dangerous
4. I am not disciplined enough to discipline my children
5. My hubby feels the same too and doesnt want to have kids for long time
6. Once you have kids you cannot travel a lot and am a travel freak
Not that we are bad people but just a little stressed and possesed about worldy desires! I guess?
2006-07-19 16:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want kids, great. But there is nothing saying that you have to have them by 30 (or whatever). There are women having them in their 40s! So, if I were you, I would concentrate on your career for now. Take it easy, relax, and you will have the kids when you are ready. If you don't ever have them, then that's ok too. Nothing and no one says you have to have them.
2006-07-19 16:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stressed and concentrating on your career right now. That is OK. When things settle down, you will be able to think about that again.
Also, if you are financially stable, why not just forgo the protection and let God decide when the time is right for you?
2006-07-19 16:40:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jolie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more suit for kids than others. Theres nothing wrong with that but kids are great. You can learn ALOT from them. Better do alot of thinking about this. Having kids changes your life....you better decide early lol :)
2006-07-19 16:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little scared if your going to be a Dr. with the way you spell and write......Not all women want to have kids. It doesn't make you a bad person. Have them when YOU are ready!!!!
2006-07-19 16:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way for years. At thirty three, I began to feel that I was ready for a child. Don't worry, just relax.
2006-07-19 16:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by cautionim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young. Wait, you will know when the time is right.
2006-07-19 20:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋