I am affraid if he thinks that I always look for a chance to make out!!! How can I control it? Advice please
2006-07-19 09:20:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way it's not bad....don't control it, go with it!!!
2006-07-19 09:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by dzHorwath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having vastly differing sex drives can cause a problem, yes. Perhaps you should talk to a professional (or both of you) about finding a happy medium...
As for how to control it, I've never had an uncontrollable urge...just a strong desire, but self control always has done the trick...perhaps if you try thinking of things that really turn you off, it'd be at least a temporary solution...
2006-07-19 16:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that problem and what i done was let it be known that i was horny but if he wasnt in the mood i took care of it myself (to keep the earge to cheat out) and try again tomorrow.
its ok to be horny you just have to (1) be able to control yourself,(2) communicate with your hubby,(3) have respect your hubby and your relationship.
everyone go thru the cant get enough stage,just talk openly to hubby and if he wont give it up either make him just hold you for a little while or KNOCK him down and take it
2006-07-19 16:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by oldschool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someones got to be...and its usually not both...our hormone timers are very seldom set the same...so enjoy it while it last because sooner or later , these roles may change and he will be out of control then...yee haw!
2006-07-19 16:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I play with myself when he dodges the ball. My first choice him ofcourse, but if he's not in the mood, take a "shower", and let the fun begin. Dont control it, enjoy it !
2006-07-19 16:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by spoiled_angel80 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have the opposite problem as my husband and myself...his drinking makes him horny...maybe you need to go on the wagon for a while maybe this will help. or get your tubes tied that worked for me i have practally no sex drive.
2006-07-19 16:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by sjgfan24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is too horney for me and I want to be able to satisfy him but I don't know whow.What do you think of all the time?
2006-07-19 16:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad. Don't try to change for anyone your libdo will wind down soon enough enjoy it while you can.
2006-07-19 16:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why control it. There are lot's of men out there. Do em all.
2006-07-19 16:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes working too much ,and does not know how to make time for little quickies to keep you from getting so worked up .if not do it your self.
2006-07-19 16:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by earl r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a toy. Enjoy.
2006-07-19 16:28:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋