You are after all paying for the service with no emotion.
2006-07-19 09:38:16 · 40 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Would it be worse if I barrowed the money from her?
2006-07-19 09:51:47 · update #1
It's WAY worse than cheating with the average Jane. Way worse. You stand a huge chance of bringing home disease. Huge. It takes away from the family budget, too. It puts you in illegal and compromising positions. Takes you to the worst parts of town.
No one has the right to take on such a dangerous hobby and put a long time partner in danger. You have every right to kill yourself with AIDS and such, but you have no right to hurt your unknowing partner.
Really, really bad idea. And if you end up in front of a judge after your wife files for divorce(say after you get solicited by one of those undercover cop prostitute stings), you will be in complete financial ruin. Not to mention your reputation when your picture shows up in the paper or on television like my neighbors did when he got caught in one of the stings a few weeks ago.
Good thought in theory with the "no emotions" stuff, but nothing good will come of it in reality.
2006-07-19 09:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by JustLookinAround 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Having any sexual relations with anyone other than your partner is cheating. You run the risk of getting busted if the hooker turns out to be an undercover cop and getting an STD.
Also, how would you feel if the tables were turned and your wife was paying a man to have sex with her...would it be ok because it was a service paid for with no emotion?
2006-07-19 09:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An affair doesn't have to include emotions. It just has to be someone who is in a relationship and having sex, sexual thoughts or talking, emotional involvement with someone ther than their partner they have chosen. If you are wanting to get a hooker or someone else, then leave your partner first. DON'T put your partner thru all the pain and heartache of an affair. Then you can have all the sex, etc, you want with others with no strings attached--as long as they aren't attached to someone else emotionally or otherwise.
2006-07-19 09:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it continues to be dishonest. you're giving element of your self to somebody else. you gained't see the emotional attachment there, and granted there likely isn't one yet that different lady-a hooker would not prefer to work out or have you ever in that experience once you've a female friend. i'm particular in case you probably did sleep with a hooker your female friend would evaluate it dishonest. Why bypass to a hooker? Why no longer bypass on your g/f? And if she isn't waiting for sex with you, then each and each of the added reason to carry close her desires and wait, no longer provide up element of you to somebody else. sex is more desirable than merely sex to alleviate your self. sex is extra intimate then that and it will be. in case you fairly cared on your female friend you'll make sacrifices to stay which include her and experience free.
2016-11-06 20:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is without your significant other's knowledge and approval, then yes, it is cheating. The basis of cheating is deceiving someone else. Whether you are deceiving your SO with a paid hooker or a coworker, it is deception and thus cheating.
2006-07-19 10:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"getting a hooker" as you put it is PERVERSION!!!
You have NO Respect for yourself!! period!! and as for cheating---any time you have a sexual relationship outside of your spouse---that is called ADULTERY!!! and if your question is pertaining to just boyfriend-girlfriend relationship---you are FORNICATING---both are SINS !!!!
but Jesus died on the Cross and bore your sins---Confess unto HIM and HE will forgive you and cleanse you from all unrighteousness!!! And you will be a renewed person with a new beginning ---ask for the Holy Spirit to help you to live righeously! Read the BIBLE and go to a good Bible teaching Church!
2006-07-19 09:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want a hooker to be considered cheating you need to get your wifes approval and do it on her terms. Hell she might want to join in now wouldn't that be fun?
2006-07-19 11:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by Knock Knock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your wife to role play - consider your wife a whore on salary and have sex without emotion. Cheaper and no cheating, but you would still be the "bad boy" for considering her a whore on salary..
2006-07-19 09:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jill M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, I even consider talking with others in a sexual way cheating
2006-07-19 09:48:02 · answer #9 · answered by FarmGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear lord yes * shakes head* If the shoe were on the other foot, would you not be upset! Sex isnt meant to be a game, dont cheapen it. Tsk!
2006-07-19 09:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by The Kings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋