Family - December 2007

I need to find my bother that lives in Plano , Texas. Our step mom buried our father this summer and we were not told about it. If someone knows anyway for me to find him gfor free I would very much apperciate it.

2007-12-03 05:07:42 · 2 answers · asked by freakybitch1976 1

My husbands mom is nice to me and I get along with her and my husband and I have been married for 12 yrs now so I have never had no problems with her but I know she likes to be in charge of eveyone in the family in some way You don't really like to get her mad. But any way My question is that Now that we have a Baby well she is 19 mos old when my daughter is acting up or gets undone she takes her from me like I can't do anything and puts her in the playpen to cry it out in there and tells me not to go in there she will keep it up. She will quit sometimes but not all the time, and to me it feels like I don't have alot of control of her when I'm there. She don't do that to my sister-in-laws kids when they are there and thats her other daughter-in-law too. and they have 5 kids and I have one how can I tell her nicely that I can take care of the problem with out hurting her feelings. My husband is her first child too so I don't know if thats any reason why she does things. Thanks

2007-12-03 04:10:31 · 14 answers · asked by marshmellow 2

19 and live at home with my mom and lil bro. I have a bf of 3 and a half years and he wants to move out. He has a steady job astill takes some college courses working towards a raise. I have a steady job and go to school. Should i go or stay?? Is it time for me to move or need to wait it out?

2007-12-03 04:07:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a young stay at home mom. my boyfriend is gone all day at work... leaves at 5 am gets home around 6 30 pm then when he gets home he is to tired to do anything.... i just get bored.... dont want to spend a bunch of money doing something... our daughter is only 4 months old... im just bored and lonely and have nothing to do.... suggestions please?

2007-12-03 04:05:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uncle just died and the funeral is going to be held on Wed.
I was a victim of incest and the person who committed it will be there. I haven't seen this person since it happened and I am terrified. I was thinking about not going but my uncle meant alot to me and I want to go. I was very young when it happened and my mom decided not to pursue justice. I don't know what to do? I want to honor my uncle by going to his funeral but I am scared of what will happen when I see my relative?? Anyone had problems like this before? Thanks in advance.

2007-12-03 03:55:10 · 6 answers · asked by poptart_babe06 2

2007-12-03 03:47:05 · 7 answers · asked by muffie 2

I am married with two kids and still getting in trouble by my parents. In there defense I was a horrible teenager. I was mean and got into a lot of trouble. This didn't end until the day I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. After that my whole life changed. But somehow our relationship didn't. I used to think that I couldn't make them happy because I was doing everything wrong but now ....I have two babies, one with Autism, I run a home daycare and a household....and now they are so quick to judge everything I do and if it is not the way they wanted me to do it , they let me know. They do help me out a lot with the kids ( helping me transport my daughter to and from calsses and babysitting when we need it) but I feel like I have to sit back and take it cause I can't afford to make them mad and not help me anymore. I am sensative by nature but this is really starting to stress me and my husband out. We are grown adults and shouldn't have to worry about making......

2007-12-03 03:44:05 · 10 answers · asked by mykidsrcuter 3

I would like to get social security benefits for my 14 yr. old son. His father died at age 18 when my son was 3 months old. We were not married at the time, but he is on the birth certificate. Can my son get benefits?

2007-12-03 03:33:34 · 8 answers · asked by jfkmorrell 1

It's really safe where I live, and I want to stay out later. My parents wait up for me to get home. How do I just let them have more trust in me and let me stay out longer?

2007-12-03 03:15:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got married. My husbands parents are strict Catholic and my parents are strict Non-denominational....yes so our wedding was interesting. It’s been two months since we were married. My parents have done a great job at letting us be our own couple and mind their business...his parents not so much.
We decided as a couple that we would try different churches to find what WE like...not just what our parents like. So we have visited Catholic churches as well as non.

I was cleaning my house the other day and found a note from his mom that was complaining about how we never go to mass as she layered the guilt on by saying how she paid for 12 years of Catholic school and how disappointed they were in him. This of course made my furious. I know that we will have ongoing battles for when our first child is born and if we do or don’t get him christened/confirmed/catholic schools ect. What is the nicest way for us to tell her that whatever we deicide is our business?
I AM NOT looking for people to argue with me about Catholic vs. Non and so on. All I want to know is the best way to tell them to mind their own business so we don’t have future arguments about things?

2007-12-03 03:06:57 · 9 answers · asked by MadKat 4

My Father in law is pertty much Mr. Grinch, hates everything, is negative about eveything. He is retired, He gets up Watches tv in the same spot all day long, then goes to bed....Every day! What do I get him for christmas, My husband ( grinch's son) dosnt know either. The man dosnt do nothing but watch TV. We got him a weather center and Western movies last year. We are at a lost this year. We got him two shirts so far..but still those are hard to come by cuase he's 3x. Any suggestions on what to buy the grinch?

2007-12-03 02:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's frustrated and depressed and I can't stand it now. His wife and kid try to be good support but she's also admitted to having been beaten by him (he has sudden fits of rage). His daughter (My niece) is very close to me and I want to do something for them.

The main reason for his present mindset is a failure to become something in his life. All my life I saw him live his dreams everyday and even supported his ambitions. He was a very talented guitar-player, writer as well as vocalist and aspired to become a successful person in the music industry. He gets extremely sensitive when you downplay his achievements and this might be one of the main reasons for conflict with his wife.

Since I grew with him, I probably understand his "psychological" needs better than anyone else, including his wife. I'm thinking of taking him and his family in my house. Although my girlfriend does not oppose this, she's also quarrelsome and it can lead to ugly situations

But I also love him a lot

2007-12-03 00:29:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

(with purple outlining!) and my parents dont even care! he is taikng my other brothers too! we are both anoyed! what should we do?!!My parents dont even care! I want to get him back so badly he will never mess with me again!

2007-12-03 00:29:22 · 22 answers · asked by Leo 2

My brother is always leaving the computer on for hours and hours after using them,and he never helps to pay the electricity bills,my dad pays alone,the thing is,i'm always stuck in 2 options,to either turn off the computer which will help my dad but have my bro to hate me for doing that(which i think he already did,i can't stand him),he's selfish and ignorant,and because of that the bills are always over the limit,i pity my dad,always having to pay the bills alone,i can't help him..but my brother is so selfish,he's always doing that...this can't go on!comments?

2007-12-03 00:03:25 · 6 answers · asked by rose etoiles 3

so, I live with my dad. it's at least a 20 minute drive to the closest store. I don't have a job. I have a 2 year old son. I don't get child support BUT his father buys his diapers, food, etc. I don't have ANY money, any credit cards, and no one in my family is willing to buy me a car... or give me ANY help whatsoever. The father of my child doesn't want to sign to get me a loan for a car. I understand that my family/boyfriend is trying to protect their credit but I'm constantly getting pelted and nagged about not having a job. How am I supposed to get a job, a car, and/OR childcare if I have nothing to start from? Also, I don't really have any close friends... so I can't ask anyone for a ride. I'm always stuck in the woods with my son. Everyone treats me like I'm a bum, but it's not that I don't WANT a job... I just don't know what to do. How am I supposed to even look for a job if I don't have a ride? And then, I'd have to pay for a baby-sitter... it's frustrating. Any suggestions?

2007-12-02 23:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by Me 2

ok, my great gram died friday morning about the time i was getting ready for school. can anybody give me any ideas to do so i can get my mind off of her?

2007-12-02 23:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-02 23:16:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have only been married 3 years now. I do love her in a real way but not the most passionate mix between us. I am looking at other girls at work but i have always done that. I dont touch I just flirt a little.

The real problem has baecome her family. There are 9 females in her close family. They make a fuss over me alot. One of her Aunts is a very big woman. Huge breasts that i cant help stare at. When she hugs me when I am sitting down she squishes me with them. The last 2 visits for dinner have left the tip of my willie a little wet with that pre come. I cant tell my wife this as she will most likely over react. I just want her aunt to strip down and feed me and stroke me to sleep. I dont think i want to screw her.

I like sex with my wife but her aunt makes me wet and want to succle a while too. I am not sure this means that I have or even want to cheat.

Can you help me kick out these wonderous thoughts that i have?

Thanks

2007-12-02 23:13:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you think something is amiss?

2007-12-02 18:20:20 · 9 answers · asked by crankydad_9999 3

I work with a lady who also works at a HOSS's in central PA. She told me that even though her foster parents are her legal parents she was told they could not use her employee family discount since they were not blood related. Does this not seem really wrong to anyone else??? That is like saying your adoptive parents arent your parents.

2007-12-02 18:12:57 · 8 answers · asked by colebomb23 3

im moving back to CA to go to school in a month to live on campus i live in TX now and ive never been been out on my own, i have family/friends in CA but this will be the 1st time away from my mom and home. my big bro has left to college, iraq etc.so in that time ive established a very close relationship with my 11yr old brother. every friday him and i go out to see a movie and do something else, i cherish these times with him. i feel that is going to be the hardest part of leaving home...im gonna miss my mom too, the semester is from jan-may and ill def be back home for the summer, the 1st semester is a test to see how i like it. if i do ill stay if not ill come home after the first semester and stay for good, ill be back home for spring break too.but the 5 months im gonna be gone im gonna miss those times with my lil bro..n sure to be homesick in the beginning.im really excited about going away to school and the experience but at the same time im afraid of the hurt of being away

2007-12-02 18:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by It's My Turn 4

I would really like some help with a family problem my husband and I are having. We have hosted all of the holiday events at our house since my parents passed away 6 years ago. Mainly because we have the biggest house.
We have never had a problem with doing it we have actually always enjoyed it and felt blessed to have so much family and friend. But this year we want to take our 3 children and spend Christmas in Aspen Colorado, with a couple of friends of ours and their kids. We live in Palm Springs California so our kids have never had a white Christmas. We told every one about our plans at Thanksgiving and the way every one acted you would have thought we are commiting a crime. We have offered to still let every one use our house already decorated. All they have to do is get together and plan the dinner and such. But they are still being real pains in the butts about it. Especially my sister, she says we can not abandon our family at Christmas. Any suggestions on how to handle this?

2007-12-02 18:02:22 · 15 answers · asked by Kali_girl825 6

I am a senior in high school and I plan to go out of state for college. Mother is nearly devistated. Every day she cries and carries on about everything she is going to miss about me. I am and only child and we (Mother and I) are very close. She also has MS and feels that she cannot be a part of my plans because she is basically un able to travel. She has lost so many things as it is and fears loosing me. She makes me feel so guilty. I don't know what to do to ease her troubles when I'm gone. I'm looking for ideas to make her life easier and to ease/lessen her empty nest syndrome. Please help.

2007-12-02 17:48:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister in law thinks that her little (24 year old) brother still needs her to buy his clothes. How do I politely tell her that we dont want her to buy him clothes anymore. They never look good and she thinks her style choices are better than his own. He is actually quite stylish. He knows what he likes to wear and what he doesnt but she thinks that the clothes she picks out are better for him. We dont want to hurt her feelings but it has to stop.

2007-12-02 17:40:59 · 20 answers · asked by mandible62604 2

iv been a bit bad latly , thinking a bout spankings and i havnt been doing home wokr and im at 38% in s.s
i think i may diserv a spanking

do you think i do??
please coment backk

2007-12-02 17:28:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

older. She refuses to sell her house and move in with me or my sister. But she is always needing money to pay her bills and we cannot afford to give her the amount of $$ she wants us to give her all the time. She refuses to get a different job or do anything different. When she has money she never saves any and even goes on vacation sometimes when she is almost broke again. We are at our witts end with her. Any advise? Or anyone out there who has gone through this kind of situation b4?

2007-12-02 17:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by GabbyGal 4

2007-12-02 17:13:47 · 8 answers · asked by smrhere 1

Hello! In brief.... I'm a proud mother of 4 beautiful, teenagers. 3 girls, and 1 boy. Girl-18, she's my pride. Girl-15(will b 16 in january) she is my "favorite",(she helps me the most). Then there is my youngest Girl, she is 14(turning 15 in February), what can I say "she's "MY BABY GIRL(and she looks just like me). Then theres "MY SON", he 's 12, What can I say, except "THAT's MY BOY"! I am very blessed and fortunate I 've got the children I do. Dont mis understand me, we have our moments, but i have some "good kids", Unfortunatley, I cannot afford to give them a CHRISTMAS and they do deserve it. I am 200.00 short on our rent (which is split between my oldest daughter and myself) but do to downsizing at her employment, they cut hours and we are short on rent and cannot make our electricity payment. My daughter is stressed and worried, and she is only 18, I hurt seeing her like this, Please help me make it a good christmas, please help us pay these to bills?

2007-12-02 17:11:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 5 yr old daughter who shares a room with her 10 yr old half sister... the 10 yr old is my step daughter. We get her every other weekend. Before I had my daughter, my step daughter had her own bed, own room.. When I had my daughter, she slept in her crib, then toddler bed.. Last year, I got bunk beds for them...which did not work out. I don't care for them and they don't really work well with the ceilings in my home and the way the room is situated (windows & heat air vent).

Right now, I have 1 twin bed (the last of the original bunk beds) in their room. The 10 y/o sleeps in there when she is here and my daughter has a "slumber party".

My question is - would it be wrong of me to get a double/full bed for them to share when the 10 y/o is here? Or would a day bed with a trundle work better, then they have their "own space". I could try 2 twin beds, but I really think that would take up most of the room and wouldn't leave a lot of play room.
I'm at a loss...THX!

2007-12-02 17:09:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My question is,should I write my mother a letter or should I not. It has been quite a few years since I have spoken to her. Im 21 years old and im happily married. Im now a grown woman. My whole life I pretty much grew up without my mom. When I turned 15 years old my father and I were having problems... always arguing.. so i decided i wanted to get to know my mom. I moved from FL to NY. When I moved in with my mom things were going great. She just had remarried this guy that she known for a while. After 2 months after i was living with them things became very sour between her husand and I. He was pretty much a dick. He also made me feel uncomftable in ways he would look at me and touch me like rubbing my butt (very weird) I know! He basically reuined my relationship with my mom. I moved out a lil over a year i was living with them. Ever since I have not spoken to my mom. She pretty much cut my brothers and I out of her life. I found out her address... do you think i should write her?

2007-12-02 17:02:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous