Family - December 2007

she doesnt have any income other than my ssi i have spina bifad and wheelchair bound she quit her job due to back and knee problems and has a sudden death disease she has 2 girls and just to over the care of her nephew even though she has no money because he was being abused she doesnt have anything for her kids fro christmas thanks chuck

2007-12-15 19:00:04 · 4 answers · asked by chuck e 1

hi all,
my ex and i broke up because he was always working and he never had time for me. we broke up about 2 years ago. after we broke up he would always keep in touch till this day. he calls me like every 3-4 weeks to see how i am doing? also, when he calls he wants to hang out and everytime i hang out with him we end up kissing (no sex) just kissing,,,so its not a booty call...im trying to figure him out..what does he want from?? does this make any sense at all?? cause im so confused as to why he hooks up with me when we hang out but we r not together...ive been dating other guys after him and i know that hes been dating other girls after me...i need help trying to figure this out??? im gonna ask him whats on his mind, but before i do this i just want everyones opinion...im curious

2007-12-15 18:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my parents are married. ( in their 40's)
my dad has always been the forceful type, and she's a pushover and does WHATEVER he says. She knows me and my sister hate it, and we tell her to stand up for herself, but she never does. i was recently on my mom's labtop and i found a file of my dad's full of different picture files. of course i looked at them and i found some really disturbing pictures and i wish i wouldn't have looked.... keep in mind my dad WAS present for all of this.
-- there were numerous albums of my mom and two other older men fooling around and she even had sex with one of them. i naturally freaked out after i saw this but i can NEVER confront her about it... i guess im just wondering if this is normal and how i can handle this. i'm scared my dad forced her to do it and i guess thats what really bugs me, but any comforting or informative advice would be great! this is serious so please answer accordingly. THANKS!

2007-12-15 18:36:56 · 17 answers · asked by hill <3 2

Well I am in a loving relationship. We have a son together, I have an older son, he has 2 girls. How do we combine these families together? I try very hard to be loving with his girls, but if I'm not a hard-butt, they don't respect me. He wants to be a hardbutt with my eldest son that tends to act spoiled (gets mouthy, unappreciative of what we do) while his real father is exempt from his life. His eldest daughter wants to live with us and I'm excited, but she's been (lieing?) to her mom a lot. With her just turning into a teen and my 5 yo that adores her and a 1 yo, what do I do? Did I mention he has a 5 yo too? I don't want to be thier mom, but I do want to be respected without being mean or yelling all the time (to all of them!). How can we set boundaries and show love at the same time and try to agree on parenting while we both work full time and have limited hours with them anyway??!!

2007-12-15 18:04:15 · 5 answers · asked by Lacey 1

okkkk the last time i had a bday partyy w/ ppl was like when i was 1 now imma turn 13 and all the bdays b4 that were like only w/ family or eating out w/out friends now imma turn 13 and i wanna rent like a hall and get a dj but he said no and he always says y spend ur $$ entertaining ur friends while u could get anyting u want w/ ur $$ plzz help me and tell me what to do!?!?!?!??!?! :(

2007-12-15 17:55:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help me.. i really need your help...

2007-12-15 17:54:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought an appartment during the civil war for $150,000. At that time, people were selling their property for dirt cheap. The war ended in 1993, and the economy has been increasing since then. A boom in the economy happened in 2003 where someone offered me $750,000 for the appartment, and if i pushed it, i probably could have gotten $780,000. The boom (obviously) wore down with time, and so did the prices. I sold the appartment in 2005 for $500,000.
The reason I did not sell the appartment is because my wife wanted us to move back to our country, and live in that appartment... so i fixed it up so we can live there, and then things changed, and we didnt move. So not only did I fix up the appartment for $20,000, we never moved, and thanks to me listening to my wife, I made one of the worst business decisions in my life.
Do you agree with me?

2007-12-15 17:44:23 · 2 answers · asked by something crazy 4

she moved out at 18 and relished in her freedom. she's 19 now and has moved back home. her brothers (same dad) have gotten close with her. they didn't have a relationship with her at all growing up. they are avid pot smokers and drinkers. dad's a heavy user (in prison right now), grandma, aunts uncle etc. it's a family affair. her brother just called (10:pm) and woke her to go out and party. there's a street race and seedy folks hang out, show off their cars get high and race. illegally, of course. i do not approve at all. she is 19 and i feel dumb forbidding her. she will probably just leave again and i wouldn't have to know about it. i feel stupid watching her and waiting for "the call". she often stays out all night and calls if she wont be coming home. she's so happy to finally have her brothers. i'm sure she's using and i can't blame them totally. and this is only the stuff i know about. i can't imagine what she's not telling me. any advice?

2007-12-15 17:19:40 · 9 answers · asked by slkrchck 6

im living at home with my parents and my brother (for college reasons), and my fiance often comes over. he does not get along with my brother for a few reasons, and always has something negative to say about him, and i really get tired of hearing about it, ya know, cuz he's my brother. he knows that too, but im the only one he can vent to.

my parents love my fiance, except that he has this really cocky side. i notice it too. i really want him to realize that he is too cocky sometimes and he needs to watch it (especially since he's becoming a police officer). but i dont know how to tell him without him getting mad and we get into a fight. i just have a feeling that if he doesn't watch how he is around my parents or whoever then something bad will happen and the relationship will end. i can't explain that 2 him because he'll just make up an excuse and he'll turn the tables & make me sound like im wrong. he's very stubborn, but i love this man very much. HELP! WHAT SHOULD I SAY OR DO?

2007-12-15 17:03:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm using a friend's acc, and I'm a sister.
So I'm the older kid. My little brother is a complete asshole. I get the 4.0s. He gets the 2.0s. I can't relate with my parents. They're always telling me I don't have a ******* future if I don't get 4.0s like all asian parents. They absolutely adore him cuz he's a motherfuckin guy. I'm a rower, tall, etc. so nobody really messes with me. He's always getting beat up at school and nobody likes him. Know why? Everybody says he's an asshole. I don't get why the hell my parents even like him. They always get him what he wants. The **** is wrong with this picture?

2007-12-15 16:54:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother in law has 2 boys including my husband and adopted my sister law when she was a baby she was adopted ....for some reason i feel like shes either jealous of me or just plain hates me or both the thing is she said something very insulting and rude which i told my husband and he spoke to his mom about it and my mother in law said she would talk to her this is not the first time but this time i put my foot down my mother in law loves her like if she was really hers and defends her like if shes so innocent . now christmas is coming soon and i am sure my mother in law is going to say something like very hypocrite about it or mention something about it like trying to hurt my feelings and i know my husband is gonna be like she (my mother in law ) didnt mean it like that...someone plz help ..what do i do what do i say

2007-12-15 16:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by Georgina 1

2007-12-15 16:40:05 · 34 answers · asked by LlamaLlama Rama 1

he is sooooooooooooo gay!!!! he lies and he expects me not to tell on him when he ALWAYS tells on me!!! but i dont cause i'm to mature! like i was gonna go see "i am legend" with my friends and he was like "NO! dad dont let her go see that!" just cause he wanted to!! and im 14 and its rated PG-13!! like i heard it was scary and all but i had to go see "golden compass" for the 2nd time!!!! ARRRRGGGG!!!! I HATE HIM!! what can i do??? im soooo stumped!! plz help me!!!!

2007-12-15 16:30:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

everything(car,snowboard, anything i like to do)
should i just go to church?
or live without anything

2007-12-15 16:28:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf's bro blocked me from aim and removed me from facebook. I haven't talked to him in forever...except recently i imed him bcuz my bf wanted me 2 tell him his secret santa... he said he was trading w/his dad cause his moms a biyatch..i said dont say that bout ur mom..& he got mad.i talked 2 him (my bf's bro) &he said he doesn't dislike me..he just doesn't like the things i say sometimes & that im 2 much sumtimes...& he thinks we shouldnt talk anyway cuz he doesnt think my bf would like it..i said why? &he said he didnt know but he didnt think hed like it...im confused..he says he has no problem with me but he has me blocked?ive been so nice to him its not fair!(no he doesn't like me cause i hooked him up w. a friend of mine in the past!)whats going on? btw we used to get along. saw him 3 wk ago & he was nice. im 22 my bf 23 and he's 25. p.s. please don't tell me 2 talk 2 him...i already did. as u can c. plus those who tell me not 2 care I do care cuz im gonna marry my bf

2007-12-15 16:28:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother a few weeks ago was diagnosed with osteoporosis cancer, which is a very late in development and she was given a couple of weeks to live. the doctors told me that she can survive at the most a few weeks if i put her on a machine that pumps her blood for her but it will be very painful for her while she is awake and she wont even be able to move or talk. he also said that i could just pull the plug on her and let her go peacefully even though i would technically be killing her. i don't want to kill my mom and i don't want her to die slowly and painfully but her husband is dead and i have to make the choice soon. what should i do, I know I shouldn’t make my mom die slowly and painfully but I can’t let her go.

2007-12-15 16:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by ▫□ █ ▄ ▀Square▀ ▄ █ □▫ 6

Well,I feel lkie I'm on a different planet with my family,i kinda never get along with my siblings or parents,it's so confusing and emotional what should i do?!

2007-12-15 16:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla L 2

I never expected that from HER.
Now,whenever i see her i'll KNOW she's pulling a fake smile and passing judgment.
How long--i ask myself?
How long has she been pulling this "nice" act.
I am realizing that i cant trust NO ONE.
not even those you love.
isnt it funny how those u love--hurt you the most?
well, in my situation,its the sad TRUTH!
but you know what?
i dont care anymore.
I JUST DONT CARE =[[[[[


sry if this isnt a question.

2007-12-15 16:18:05 · 11 answers · asked by [[♥]]Just Curious[[♥]] 2

This is relaly important to us - they do so much for us, and we owe them big time. Anythinglike a play....but something where they can sit back and relax...yet have a good time??? Serious help needed here - and thanks. Merry Christmas, everyone.

2007-12-15 16:12:53 · 6 answers · asked by CrazyCatLady 2

What should i do?
Please dont think im wierd

I have a twin sister. I know what shes thinkin, if shes hurting physically/emotionally whatever and vice versa, its all very mumbo jumbo sounding i kno. A while ago i got nothing but coldness, loneliness, anxiety, hurt, confusion & fear from her. It made me sick to my stomach and id throw up often. it puzzled me cos she seemed fine, happy even. My instincts had never let me down before. Something was up

Months passed, & i slowley forgot about it until my sister reccently confided that around that time she had got pregnant & had an abortion.

I think i had been feeling what her unborn child was feeling, not what she was feeling which explains alot. I have never felt something like that before.. I feel so sad, while she indifferent

Shes pleaded with me to let her in but it would burden her. It would break her. Should i tell my sister?

2007-12-15 16:09:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 15 years old and I want to find my bilogical father. He is around the age of 34 and my mom will not help me one bit. I only know his first and last name. I have tried different sites but I can not seem to find anything that I am looking for. I used netsluth,legalfiles,backroundrecords,yoname,yahoopeoplesearch,zabasearch,and ussearch. I have 9 addresses but I have no idea if any are him. Can anyone help,please?

2007-12-15 16:06:59 · 4 answers · asked by Princess 1

He is constantly annoying me, and it is very frustrating. He continuously verbally harasses me and whenever I am doing my school work he is banging on my door and takes stuff from my room. I would just ignore it (as my parents have suggested) but his antics severely distract me from what I am doing/what he takes away from me is either valuable/necessary for the task I am doing at the time. I would really appreciate any suggestions.

2007-12-15 16:04:09 · 3 answers · asked by mannzaformulaone 3

last october, my cousin called me and started complaining i stopped calling and suggested i call once in a while to catch up..well, today i called my aunt in india..when i asked my mom to call her brother in delhi, she said no because they never call us..does my mom have a point in why she doesnt want to call..i was told that just because someone doesnt cal us, doesnt mean they dont care about us..in my counseling class, my teacher told me that if i have family living in a foreign country and they dont always call us, and we do all the writing and calling, that is oaky because we need to realize that sometimes people cant afford to call foreign countries..what should i do..i want to prevent complaints from my cousin that i stopped calling and writing..how do i do that,,my aunt always calls us..is there a way i can make my mom realize that she should call her brother in delhi

2007-12-15 15:53:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because my boyfriend has been her father for the past 3 years the police fill that they have liabilities issues and are telling me that I need a writ of asistance to get her back and if I call the police any more they will put me in jail. When we went to court the judge did not even ask my any questions only the boyfriend.

2007-12-15 15:34:18 · 2 answers · asked by Susan F 1

My boyfriend filed for emergency custody of my child and the judge denied his request because I showed a birth certificate without a fathers name. however he has her physically and the police will not get her because they say as far as he knows he is the father. What do I need to do to get her back.

2007-12-15 15:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by Susan F 1

tell me what to say to her! she got hurt a lot!!!!!!!! what should she do????? i'm very worried about her!!!! :(

2007-12-15 15:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 15:08:02 · 4 answers · asked by jane nicole t 1

Hi. I'm 14 and i have big problems with my dad.i remember a long time ago my family used to be happy and my mom and dad got along and he wasn't alcoholic, it really makes me mad that they didn't just split because i have thease horrible memories now in life on how my dad was like. My dad is NEVER supportive. He never came to my school concerts nor my sisters, he never congradulates me or my sister when something great happens at school AND at my sister's graduation, he cried and told my sister he was crying because he was disapointed in her, HOW ****** UP WAS THAT??? He drinks every night and gets drunk. My mom is always gone out of state to help her sick parents and i miss her and my sister a lot. My dad and i always fight and yell at each other and he is swears and talks to his own child like a stranger. I'm really down and sad, i miss my mom and sister and i always want to break down and scream. My friend's parents are soo nice and i wish i had a dad like that:( what should i do??

2007-12-15 14:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a pathetic loser!
I have no friends, no sisters no brothers!
My parents are ashamed of me!
I Don't have a wife or kids, haven't had a date in years!
I depend on my 4 guinea pigs, and degus for company!
WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME!
i NEED A SPEECH!

2007-12-15 14:53:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think step parents should disipline step kids, or should they step parent take the problem to the primary parent and let them handle it

2007-12-15 14:53:01 · 16 answers · asked by cashmere_mist 3