Should i tell my sister?

Question

What should i do?
Please dont think im wierd

I have a twin sister. I know what shes thinkin, if shes hurting physically/emotionally whatever and vice versa, its all very mumbo jumbo sounding i kno. A while ago i got nothing but coldness, loneliness, anxiety, hurt, confusion & fear from her. It made me sick to my stomach and id throw up often. it puzzled me cos she seemed fine, happy even. My instincts had never let me down before. Something was up

Months passed, & i slowley forgot about it until my sister reccently confided that around that time she had got pregnant & had an abortion.

I think i had been feeling what her unborn child was feeling, not what she was feeling which explains alot. I have never felt something like that before.. I feel so sad, while she indifferent

Shes pleaded with me to let her in but it would burden her. It would break her. Should i tell my sister?

Answer 1

You don't have to go into the gorey details with your sister, but you can simply let her know you felt she was going through a bad time, and you were feeling her sadness.

Sometimes we have to make big and difficult decisions such as an abortion. It's not fun and devistating to go through. Perhaps it was the best decision at this time in your sister's life, although emotionally painful.

Just let her know you love her.

Answer 2

Yes, you should tell her. sit her down and have a blunt talk with her. do it somewhere where you know you will not be disturbed. tell her how you feel and why. remember, she probably has the connection to you that you have to her, so she is feeling your sadness. maybe talking to her about it will make it easier for both of you.