my bf's bro blocked me from aim and removed me from facebook. I haven't talked to him in forever...except recently i imed him bcuz my bf wanted me 2 tell him his secret santa... he said he was trading w/his dad cause his moms a biyatch..i said dont say that bout ur mom..& he got mad.i talked 2 him (my bf's bro) &he said he doesn't dislike me..he just doesn't like the things i say sometimes & that im 2 much sumtimes...& he thinks we shouldnt talk anyway cuz he doesnt think my bf would like it..i said why? &he said he didnt know but he didnt think hed like it...im confused..he says he has no problem with me but he has me blocked?ive been so nice to him its not fair!(no he doesn't like me cause i hooked him up w. a friend of mine in the past!)whats going on? btw we used to get along. saw him 3 wk ago & he was nice. im 22 my bf 23 and he's 25. p.s. please don't tell me 2 talk 2 him...i already did. as u can c. plus those who tell me not 2 care I do care cuz im gonna marry my bf
2007-12-15 16:28:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you have every right to be concerned but I believe you should let it go. Perhaps you just said something he didn't like and he over dramatized the situation and decided to be a complete prick. I think it's wrong of him to be that way with you esp for his brother's sake, but the best thing would be to maintain distance...perhaps your bf told him not to talk to you.perhaps he thinks your friendliness was flirtiness. Perhaps he realized he was also getting too close with you. Either way, it's obvious you guys should keep your distance. Good luck! Just be nice to him if u see him.
2007-12-15 16:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you concentrate on your relationship with the boyfriend instead of his brother? Hon, you are stressing yourself out worrying over this... and it doesn't make any sense.
We all want to be liked and accepted, and yes, sometimes we feel we are not.... We aren't here to win a popularity contest, thank god! If so, we'd all have lost a long time ago.
You can be pleasant toward your bf's brother, say hello, how are you and leave it at that... if he wants to strike up a conversation, he will.
You are worrying over something which isn't cause for concern. Your bf's brother's feelings about you should not be a life-altering experience... or cause for drama and stress..
take care.
2007-12-15 16:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be because of the way you type. But really, you shouldn't care. Move on and enjoy the good things in your life!
(Unless you don't want to because you have a secret crush on your boyfriend's brother. Oh, raised eyebrows!)
2007-12-15 16:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by designated_dave_the_punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im pretty sure hes not too fond of you
2007-12-15 16:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by Matthew F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋