Family - December 2007

ok i had worked 24 hours and i was very tierd so i took a nap for about 2 hours when i woke up i went to go take a shower when i was done i forgot to get some clouths so i walk to my room naked i was passing the front door then my 12 year old son came in the door he said wow its huge and i ran to my room and shut the door what should i do when i see my son again

2007-12-16 14:52:58 · 4 answers · asked by Joey N 1

OK. So my sister is in high school, and I guess now a days for girls to fit in they seem to want to degrade themselves by acting like a total skanks. I dont know, i guess its just the cool thing to do. So she acts really skankish around the house and with her friends. I really dont like it, and Im not sure I know how to deal with something like this. I was her age before, and I know what guys wanted when they were in high school. LOL, they all want the same thing at my age too (20), but when that thing is your baby sister, then it becomes an issue. I could go beat the crap out of her little "boy friends" but that just looks bad on my part. So what should I do??

2007-12-16 14:36:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Her dad is not gay or anything, just single and self sufient.

2007-12-16 14:32:56 · 13 answers · asked by . 3

We are having Christmas dinner at our home. It's going to be a small get-together. I don't know if I'm going to cook or just order a complete meal from the local grocery store. I have a relative that never compliments my cooking and I think that's rude. I mean how can you just sit there and eat without saying anything? I always tell her that her food tastes good. I know this sounds petty but this is just one thing out of many that drives me nuts about this woman. Anyway, would you cook for her or just order food? It's only her, her hubby, and their child who are coming to dinner. What would you do?

2007-12-16 14:21:20 · 7 answers · asked by Carrie 4

My boyfriend and I having been dating for around 3 years now. Both of us see our relationship ending in marriage if all goes well. The only major concern I have is not in him, it is his family. First off my family loves my boyfriend. Everyone is very kind and inviting to him.Then comes the problem..his family is does not include me in hardly anything. They barely talk to me when I go to their house. I do not feel welcome. He has talked with them about it and feels bad. His mother is very protective and I think this is the cause. She is always fighting with him to come home and not stay at college (it is his first year). She is completely against premarital relations and is worried about us. I think it is none of her business. The way she treats me really hurts. I'd like to be accepted. What should I do..continue being friendly and try to make a good relationship with them even though it doesnt seem to work? Should I try to give a little distance and accept that we wont be close.

2007-12-16 14:17:49 · 3 answers · asked by sjtwae 2

MY DAUGHTERS AGES 12 AND 14 ARE NOT GONNA BE ABLE TO COME HOME FOR THE HOLIDAYS BECAUSE OF FINANCIAL REASONS, THEY WAS REALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO BEING HERE BUT I NOR THEIR MOTHER CAN AFFORD IT. THEY LIVE IN A SCHOOL CALLED MOOSEHEART IN IL. IT IS A GREAT PLACE BUT WE REALLY MISS THEM DEARLY, THEIR MOTHER HAS NOT SEEN THEM IN 2 YEARS I SAW THEM IN JULY OF THIS YEAR, WHAT CAN I DO OR SAY TO HELP THEM BETTER UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION?

2007-12-16 14:17:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

I've been in a relationship with the father of my children for a few yrs. we waited to get married because we wanted to make sure we were both mature enough to handle it (i'm 19 and he is 20- and that was my suggestion not his.) we have had a rough patch this summer, but i never pictured myself with anyone else....he said he didnt either. we were working things out and i was planning to move back with him after this baby was born (im due February 3, and i'm staying with my mother about an hour and a half away from him.) We had made all these plans and today he told me (i had to MAKE him say it cause he was too chicken) ...he told me that he didnt want to be with me, but he didnt want me to push him away. It came out of nowhere....we had all these plans....and we have kids!....how do i deal with this? what do i do now? I put everything on hold and now i'm not going to have any help! (my daughter is 14 months old and im 33 weeks with this one) how do i get over this pain? it hurts so bad

2007-12-16 14:09:51 · 7 answers · asked by Jada and Ty's mommy 3

My twin sister has been PO'd at me for over a year. She hasn't spoken a word to me. After a sincere apology months ago from me, she still holds a grudge. We have always been very close before this. Today was our birthday, and I wanted to be the better person here and send her a card. I included a generous gift card in it. She never called to thank me, nor did she acknowledge our birthday. My other sister told her she needn't be so rude and at least thank me for the gift card. My twin told my sister she never intends to speak to me again. This breaks my heart. But I get madder and madder when I think about her going out and having fun spending my money. In fact I feel like emailing her and telling her to send the gift card back, since she is so obviously full of hatred towards me. What would you do?

2007-12-16 14:00:39 · 6 answers · asked by Angelique 4

2007-12-16 13:50:52 · 12 answers · asked by ~Katie~ 2

At the moment I am living with my family until my husband returns from sea. There are 6 people living in the house. My two brothers my parents and my brother in law. With all that being said there is always drama and a lot going on. I get mad because my parents expect me to deal with things that I feel is none of my business and I should not have to take care of. For instance like taking care of enrolling my brother in law in school. My parents suggested he move in with us due to the fact that his adopted parents were kicking him out. They thought they got all the proper paperwork but do not have a court signed document stating that someone has custody. Now they expect me to call all these people to figure out how to get him in school. I have nothing against my brother in law but I do not feel it is my business to do so one and two I have no idea what I need to do.

That is just some of the things. To me it may be selfish but I do not see where it is my business.

2007-12-16 13:50:50 · 15 answers · asked by Showers 2

Ok soooooo christmas is coming up and i need to get my mom a really great gift. She is an alcoholic and she has gone to rehab for a month and she is having a rough time. I need some really good quotes or sayings to put on a bracelet for christmas. I want to think of something really good to put on it to help her. Like i dont know something to support her and stuff. I am only 13 so it cant be to oldish

2007-12-16 13:45:36 · 5 answers · asked by Wonde1 3

i have 3 kids,their father and i broke up awhile ago and he has only seen them 1 time in the last 6 months, he lives in town but doesn't call them or make any attempt to contact them. When i've emailed asking for financial help or asking when he is going to see his kids next my emails go unanswered. We don't know where he lives or a phone number for him. what should i do with the holidays so close?

2007-12-16 13:44:57 · 8 answers · asked by ????? 1

My son is 8 years old. In 2001, my sons mother decided to up and leave without any notice to me. She didnt leave a # or address to be reached just tried to borrow money from my mother for supposably clothes. There was a visitation order set november of 2001 before she left. That stated I was to see my son every tue. thur & sun. With everyother weekend. We were to meet here in town at the Police Department for exchange. Needless to say she didnt follow through, and I havent seen my son since then until a year ago when she decided to raise childsupport. She did then give me the # and address, but due to paying 600$ a month for him in CS and having 2 other kids, I could not afford to see him because she wanted me to drive there, they live 8 hours away but in the same state. I just recently took her to court to get CS lowered and get visitation and she agreed to everything because she had no choice due to her lawyer not appearing. Now she is taking me bk to court to get it highered

2007-12-16 13:41:07 · 2 answers · asked by Bruce & Kelly 2

I am in need to find a place where I can get someone to donate some beds for my Three grandsons .They are 13 and 10 .They are sleeping on floor at the other grandparents home due to their mother getting hurt with a bad leg many operations and lots of bills. They lost their home that is why they are with their other granparents I live here in MN.I just found this out over the weekend I am on diabilty myself so I have no extra money to help get them a bed if someones knows if there is a place in Northern Kentucky please let me know. Help me have a Merry Christmas and my Grandsons too

2007-12-16 13:41:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i visit my mom, alot of the time she will talk about the past with family...growing up her family had alcohalism, abuse, and she's not with my dad anymore but he was also controlling so when little things that i don't need to hear for any reason come up and i always leave stressed and just with a negative energy. Life is good now so why discuss a bad past? But even telling me about her friends ill have to hear they're bad news or stories. I dont want to offend her and dont know if its right to tell someone not to speak their mind or thoughts or about their life, but i cant take it ...its definetly not uplifiting! And i knwo she wont see a pychiattrist as shes well adjusted around great people and at a great point in life and wouldnt see the reason.

2007-12-16 13:38:45 · 9 answers · asked by AARON C 1

I need to quickly make a christmas gift for my mom. What do you suggest? Answer quickly! I am in a deffinate hurry!

2007-12-16 13:32:07 · 27 answers · asked by just_pondering 2

2007-12-16 13:15:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

For example: Having your mom make you feel guilty for your decission and because of such decission she will not come to your wedding. Nor will any of your family, because your mom feels you need to appologize for your actions.

2007-12-16 13:14:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I LIVE IN NEW JERSEY

2007-12-16 13:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going with my boyfriend of three years to his house for christmas. This will be my second year going and I am very familiar with his family but they are not the most welcoming people. I dont feel as though they have taken the chance to get to know me or make me feel special at all. Nevertheless I would like to/ feel obligated to get them a gift. I would just like to give them a gift card to a nice restaurant. I would like to tell them how I feel...that I love their son but wish our (the parents and I) relationship was better. Would it be wierd to include a message that includes something like : "I am very thankful to have your son in my life. I hope that we can get to know each other better". Do you have any other statements that are appropriate when giving a gift that would show that I am very interested in being with their son and being a part of their family hopefully. I think mine might sound kind of tacky. What is your opinion/suggestion of alternate methods of stating this?

2007-12-16 12:56:48 · 5 answers · asked by sjtwae 2

Ok well I was talking to this guy and we liked each other alot. We met at the gym cuz we both play racquetball. We talked for about 2 weeks but it seems we were real compatible but I decided to stop talking with him because I have a b/f. My b/f and I went and played racquetball today and the other guy was there also. My b/f laughed at him one time when he messed up when he was playing his friends in a match, and it made him mad. ( we were watching them ) Later on, he watched me and my b/f play and I would look at him and he would look at me like he wanted me and one time when I looked at him, he smiled and clapped when I was playing. We don't really talk at all but we are still attracted to each other and there is something there. Does it sound like he still likes me? He kept on giving my b/f dirty looks for what he did, which I dont blame him because it was rude. What do you think?

2007-12-16 12:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by greenturtle 1

Im 15 and my friend's friend is having a party but my mom wont let me go. There is not going to be any drinking, drugs, or smoking and the parents are going to be there. She said if i go that she would have to drive me there and talk to the parents and i said i dont want to do that because i was going to carpool with my friend and if she talks to the parents, im gonna be the only one there with a parent and it would be imbarassing. gah i dont know what to do.

2007-12-16 12:51:43 · 33 answers · asked by Sandra P 1

i will be sat downstairs with mum and we wont be doin anything apart from watchin tv and then as soon as i jump on the playstation 2 she has a ton of jobs for me to do

2007-12-16 12:49:16 · 4 answers · asked by '' The Second Coming '' 4

hey im in foster care and i really miss my family and i get out in 1 year im 17 now and my bday is in dec but it is really hard what can i do to calm me down?

2007-12-16 12:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica M 1

she marries your friend...then he beats you and throws you out and your mom takes her husbands side. wtf ? i'm the stepmom here and my stepdaughter is crushed her mom did this...the mom is 40 something the husband is 25 and the daughter is 17. i just don't know but i'm ready to go kick her moms azz. any thoughts ?

2007-12-16 12:44:00 · 8 answers · asked by dawn666annapolis 6

i'm 16 and have 18 and 22 yo sibs. my dad's sister has 3 boys ages 16, 14, and 10. her husband wants to have the "married" title, but doesn't want to act like it and take care of her and the boys (not to mention the verbal and physical abuse he put those kids through). tonight she told us that she will never be seen with him again. i'm scared. i had a distant friend who's parents were divorced, but never had i known someone personally, much less related to me, who had one. i'm scared for my cousins, because they look up to their dad so much. and they want to be just like him. the oldest wants to be a mechanic and is going to a tech school for it, the middle one wants to be a chef, and the youngest can sing, act, and dance. he has his eyes set on Broadway. if the boys had a choice, they would choose their dad, but he justs brings them down, i've heard him tell them they'll never accomplish anything.

2007-12-16 12:38:23 · 9 answers · asked by :) 3

My parents arent together anymore and i always spend christmas with my dad then i come up the day after. I always end up feeling guilty because im not with my mom, my step dad, and my two siblings who are little. I dont know what to do this year, because i dont want my dad getting upset and since my brother is home for the holidays from college. Any ideas, im starting to hate the holidays because i always get put in this situation

2007-12-16 12:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by Rose 3

He's very critical and a dictator. If something goes wrong, its always everyone elses fault never his. For instance today in the car the windshield wippers got stuck and he started yelling at my mom saying if she didn't talk so much this wouldn't have happened. He makes a big fuss over nothing. He keeps calling me chunky and makes me feel like I'm obese which I don't think I am !(5'7 and 140 lbs). He is driving me to some very emotional problems, and even making me hate men. What should I do? I can't move out because I'm too young, have no money, and no where to go.

2007-12-16 12:23:32 · 10 answers · asked by Billa Bong 3

Okay I am like so fed up with this. Okay I have a myspace account rite? And I like to go on my schools homepage sometimes and you know post into the topics from time to time. Well there's this little girl on there I ain't gone say her name but her and her sister is always goin on there startin $#!+ with me. I mean I say nothing to them never even said 2 words to them when we were at the same school she never said half the things she says on there to my face. She's always saying things like I'm a loser and I need to get a life but yet and still she's the one getting on and off the internet starting bullcrap. When I say things back to her her sister get's all up in it. Then she had the audacity to tell me that I was lying about being pregnant both of them. I don't like to lose my temper but I'm like 2 seconds from just cursing them out. Can someone tell me how to deal with these dummies?

2007-12-16 12:23:17 · 11 answers · asked by Choclate Delight 2

ok im 13 and me and my parents are always arguing.
and im tired of it
so how would i say or ask if i can move out?

2007-12-16 12:20:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous