Family - December 2007

What do women that age want?? something thats between $10 n $20

2007-12-17 15:07:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I usually head back home to Cali for Xmas but this year my sis could not travel back because she just started a new job. I didn't want to leave her here in PA by herself for Xmas so I decided to stay back so she wouldn't have to spend the holidays alone. My mom and brother decided that they would fly over to spend Xmas and New years with us since my sis could not make it which is very sweet. Well i just found out that my sis is making plans to go party with her friends in Miami new years eve and she hasn't told me or my mom anything about it. I am upset bcuz we all made the sacrifice to stay here and b with her and now shes planning her own thing behind our backs. I am upset bcuz i wanted to travel to the caribbean for new years eve too but i decided since my mom is flying all the way here for my sis i will spend the time with her instead. Do u think she is being selfish and should I have every reason to be upset. Its not the 1st time she made other plans behind my back.

2007-12-17 14:45:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's allways been there 4 me
everywhere she goes she gets me something
she even plays 4 me sometimes
she is my god mother
and i started working like a month ago and i really want to buy her something but i DONT KNOW WHAT
SHE ALMOST HAS EVERYTHING
HELP PLS

2007-12-17 14:21:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife's whole family is here and has been here from Samoa for the last six months. Now they want to move here and stay with us until they find a house for themselves. They don't pay for anything or help out with the bills they run up. On top of that, they all speak english but they won't because it's their native tongue even though it's my house. I am trapped in my bedroom all day and night because of them and my wife being on their side. Any suggestions will be appreciated.

2007-12-17 14:08:51 · 7 answers · asked by mikeld2002 2

I have two older sisters, one 31 and one 28. I live with my mother and younger sister, my mom is a single parent who has been single for 7 years and hasn't dated anyone since my stepfather left us and she is on a fixed income.My sisters are better off then us, one married a man whose family owns a company that she works for and one lives with her boyfriend and give him all her money.The problem is every time they get something new they have to call and brag about it,I'm not jealous just upset that they know we are having a hard time and they continue to do this to us.When my mom had her own house(we live in an apartment now)they would come over for dinner and do their lanudry now they never come over and we are not welcomed there unless they have something new to show us.I try to tell them how I feel but it always ends in a fight because they don't want to hear it.My mom feels hurt because she thinks she is no good to them now that she can't always do stuff for them.What should I do?

2007-12-17 14:03:37 · 4 answers · asked by ♥BichonFrise♥ 3

My husband's mother has had a long history of blaming his friend for taking him away from his home city. That was more than 15 years ago. I now hold the blame card because he is staying here and not moving back. He flew out there a few times. And since I have known him (2002) he visited twice. We flew out there after Christmas 2003 so she could meet her granddaughter. A very strange visit to say the least. It was almost as if she didn't want us there. She refused to come to our wedding. Making excuse after excuse: Her job (she has weekends off), where would she stay (we would pay for her hotel), she can't afford a ticket (we'd buy her one.) She refused everything. My husband, since, refuses to talk to her. Not that she has tried to contact us. But, she doesn't even acknowledge our daughter. I continue to send pictures and cards at holidays. Although he doesn't want me to. Do you think I should keep sending them? Or just not bother. (By the way, its the same situation with his sister.)

2007-12-17 13:54:19 · 8 answers · asked by sarlha 3

i'm having problems with my boyfriends overbearing grmotherto the point that she invites his ex over almost daily he's addressed this with her but she continues to do it, now i dont visit or call at all. his mother is deceased and i'm tired of this meddling old woman in our life she tells him not to stay overnight at my place and always is telling him negative things this is sickening to the point that he hardly visists her i only want us all to try and get along but it is becoming unbearable to deal with it this lady is 81 yrs old and should be knitting somewhere instead of gambling at the casino every weekend. i love this man very much but some things will try even the most strong any suggestions out there.......

2007-12-17 13:49:47 · 2 answers · asked by m32 1

2007-12-17 13:43:00 · 6 answers · asked by Dathletez 2

ok I feel like I am not doing a very good job listening to my mom. Me and my mom always get into fights and I feel guilty when she is making a "speech"about how I am not good to her. My brother, ok, he bothers me and i yell at him. then i get into trouble and my mom says i annoy her to and that she doesnt yell at me. I need advice on how to change. I have tried many times but i think im just not getting it. I tried once then my brother got on my nerves like seriously!! then i get in trouble. Im moving and i will try to change my life. But i need advice right now... Could u help me????

2007-12-17 13:33:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, my parents are divorced and both of them are dating other people. anyway, my dad was coming for Xmas dinner, and he just canceled and said he was coming for desert. my mom is so freaking upset, she was yelling and crying in the phone. she's really mad that he's not coming for Xmas and she called his gf "skanky". she's going all out like "oh i'm so sorry your fathers leaving you..bla bla i know how it feels my dad left me when i was young..." she's really annoying. anyway i'm not that sad but i am kinda upset. what should i do about my mom and about my dad not coming... :*(
zoe

2007-12-17 13:13:56 · 4 answers · asked by Zoe Z 1

ok so i cant get a job till im 16.. im 15 now and i turn 16 in september but i want money!! what are some good ways i can make money?? and chores is not an option cuz my parents refuse to pay me.. but yea is there anything i can sell??
how much money can i get if i sell a gameboy advance sp??
like whats something good that i can sell to make good prophet??

2007-12-17 13:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 6 months ago, my Mom moved in with her boyfriend. They bought a brand new house together(about an hour away without traffic), and everything. The only time I see my Mom now is whenever she 'feels like it.' I'm only 14, and this is my first year of high school, so I really do need her during these times.

She refuses to see me at all this week, and her boyfriend is always telling, and bossing her around of what to do. She's never around when I need her, and she's cut off the cell phones so I can't talk to her anymore. Since I'm sick, she yelled at me that it was my fault that I didn't have a jacket, but neither my Grandma (we don't get along very well), nor my Uncle have enough money to buy things for ourselfs. I've gone 8 weeks without clean clothes because of a broken washer, and she told me that I'm too sick to see her over the Christmas holidays, and if I do see her, I'd only be for a few hours because she 'can't deal with me' anymore.

I never thought my Mom would do this

2007-12-17 12:49:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 21 and i moved back home over the summer to continue college here and save money. I pay $250/month. I have no clue what to do, my parents still treat me like a child. Everyday i come home from work or school and there's a note "clean your room" waiting for me; they should not be snooping through my things. I don't mind them wanting me to call them when i go out or go to school, but calling me every 20mins is just rediculous. I came home to save money and focus on school; i did not come home and pay rent to be treated like a child. My brother messed up alot when i was his age and i feel like i;m getting the reprecussions. I know they love and care about me and dont want me to make the same mistakes he did but they're suffocating me to the point where im gonna just move out. I've talked to them so many times but it just ends in an arguement. How do i get them to listen and compromise with me. or should i just move out?

2007-12-17 12:19:08 · 4 answers · asked by flo 2

I know of a 16 year old boy who is friends with my son. He lives with 2 sisters and a mother. The father passed way years ago and mother is bed ridden and stays in bed all the time. She is a private person and would get very upset if I called her or showed up at her house. Her son says that his mother stays in bed and passes out and messes her bed but he is worried about her. Last time he called the hospital they came and took her and brought her back 3 days later. I know the boy has some concerns that the house they live in is not willed and that the mother refuses to write a will. I have offered him a place to stay after the mother dies but what can I do meantime to make sure that she is ok. I don't want to interfere but is there an agency that takes over and keeps the children's bwst interest?

2007-12-17 12:09:40 · 5 answers · asked by aim w 3

is something worth saying even if it might damage your relationship permanantly.

my sister is really selfish, i had a miscarriage early this year and have been pretty sick ever since with ulcers and one thing and another. she sees me as an in-house babysitter and while i love spending time with my nephew i want to go get on with my life. she doesn't arrange any childcare for him just me but some days i'm not up to it, like being sick alot. she has my parents pay for the baby and she spends so much money. i dont wanna bring her down really but it's getting a bit too much. i dont really have time for myself because she organises my time for me. if i'm not babysitting then i'm shopping for her or cooking. my point is if i'm well enough to do that i should be working but she hasn't planned for me to go back to work. there's more but thats a hint at what's up.

If i tell her i'm worried about losing her, but she's taking advantage of me i feel.

2007-12-17 12:05:43 · 5 answers · asked by sleepyme 1

i am 15 yrs old and my dad has a friend whom the family has known for yrs. 3 yrs ago, we went to see him (my dad + i) and he made comments about my weight. sure there was room for improvement but he asked me how much i weighed. when i told him he told me i must be lying because i looked much heavier. he hurt my feelings, i now have no respect for him or his opinions. i thought you know he was a friend and i didnt realize he was the enemy. it hurt my self-esteem. i became anorexic for a month. im healthy now and happy but i still fault him for that. i was almost 13 then, i didnt know how to handle being called fat. what was worse was my dad took his side and agreed that i was fat. well i havent seen him for 3 yrs and he and his family are coming for x-mas dinner. how can i hold my peace with him when i dont think i have fully forgiven him? i still have so much anger towards him and its making me sick just thinking he'll be at my house on x-mas. how should i handle myself and actions?

2007-12-17 11:50:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

is getting in my nerves he lives with me and my husband and when he comes home from work all he does is go and lays down on the sofa with a blanket and waches tv all day and it bothers me because i can never just sit down on my living room and relax how can i get him to stop going this or how should i tell him??

2007-12-17 11:42:15 · 5 answers · asked by cristina p 2

anything will help i have like three days to write 1,500 words

2007-12-17 11:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to find my half brother. Every site I go to, I have to pay some kind of money. Now is there ANY site that is really truely for free???

2007-12-17 11:37:14 · 2 answers · asked by packersgirl8306 1

She, my dad and three siblings did something really bad to me a few months ago. I can't bring myself to forgive them and I even think that this is happening to her because of karma. I disowned them when they betrayed me and I vowed not to have any kind of relationship with them ever again. They have been trying to get in touch with me because my mother is now in the hospital apparently she had an anneurism. I don't care to go see her and I don't care to know what is happening to any of them. I want them to just leave me alone and to stop pretending like nothing happened between us. What they did was really really bad it involved my son and I can't forgive them for it. I just want to pretend like they are already dead. Can anyone on here understand how I feel.

2007-12-17 11:26:08 · 13 answers · asked by I'm Ecstatic!! 2

2007-12-17 11:25:32 · 2 answers · asked by bixi_atrk 1

My parents invite me and my son over for an early christmas along with my brother and his girlfriend and her 3 teenage kids and my Aunt and Uncle. They all were at the house at around 4:30, 5:00 o'clock. I didn't get off work until 5, and was there around 6. When I got there, they had already eaten dinner and were waiting for me so we could open presents. I was deeply hurt because this was suppose to be a "family night celebration" and felt that they should have waited for me before having dinner. I didn't mind if they snacked or ate h'dorvs, but felt that even the simpliest dinner should have waited until I got there. It made me feel left out, like my presence was not that important to them. Someone even suggested opening presents before I got there, but gee, they did wait on that. Am I wrong to feel this way?

2007-12-17 11:21:52 · 8 answers · asked by legalgirl1 2

Would you say the main point of the story, or these is

"power is demonstrated through wealth and status, but in the end we see that true love and high values is where real power lies."

If not... what would you say it is? i am having a hard time deciding!! Thanks!

2007-12-17 11:15:17 · 2 answers · asked by Seriously though... 1

History on my dad: He wasn't around for 7+ years- He is a cokehead and he drinks all day everyday. HE NEVER HELPED OR PAID CHILD SUPORT. HE NEVER TOOK ME TOO SCHOOL AS A KID OR BOUGHT ME ANYTHING FOR SCHOOL. HE HAS NEVER DONE ANYTHING FOR ME.

I was laid off from my job a couple of months ago, and my dad told me that I could move in, while I looked for a new job.( Mother said I could not move in) What I didn't expect was a completly whimped dad.

He does everything for his wife. If she asks for aomething, she gets it. No question asked. Dad and I use too go out too baseball games and hang out, but now she has too be invovled in everything he does??? If she doesn't get her way, she complains and runs upstairs like a baby. If my dad is going too the store and I ask too go, so I can buy my own food, he said yes, then she asks, and I have too stay home.( he has a truck- 2seats) Could you do me a great favor and expalin this realtionship too me? thanks.

2007-12-17 11:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well It first it was me and my sister. Im 15 and my sister is 9. But then we adopted two boys into out family. 15 (Olliver) and A 16 (Cameron) . I love them there great.
My mom and dad.. then had the big D
Later on my mom fell in love with a guy and they got married. and Joy he had 5 boys!. 9 (Justin) , 14(JJ), 15(Travis), 16(Harry), and 18(Steve).
We live with each other and there is enough room for everyone, but we just cant seem to keep te peace.
-Cameron threw a chair at Justin.
-I got detention at school for shoving JJ into a locker..
-Travis and Olvier keep beating each other up.
-My sister Cursed at Justin
-JJ Threw a pineapple at my head!
-Travis keeps playing pranks on my brothers and Me!
Its a disatser. None stop fightthingg.. Help!.
We all love each other, its not all blood and battle all the time but.. i just want to find away for me to get everyone chill before big blow outs haha.

2007-12-17 11:11:31 · 2 answers · asked by WestLand 5

I've neen living with mom for 3 years now. She a recoving addict. She drug abuse but does'nt do anymore for about 7 months now. But it seem like she not being a parents to me, and is giving me the silent treatment and with all honestly i can't take her bull s*hit anyymore. Am 15. i need someone who is goignt o supplies my needs materialisty and emotionally. I need some one who is goignt o finsh rasing me and am no getting that from her. I know that if i wanted to leave, i would go to foster care, but i dont want ot drag my other silbings into this, I was wondering if i could go to restrocare. Because i dont have any family who cares...

Theis is affecting me my life. From school, to my mental health, and recenlty physically. In school, am constantly sad, people make fun of me, and i get all step on, and at home, i have an older sister who only care about her own skin, and a younger brother and sister who does'nt know any better.

2007-12-17 10:49:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's called an amazon kindle, and i'm only allowed to
get it if it's sold in a store somewhere!
duz any1 kno where i can get it????
here's a pic:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000FI73MA/sr=53-1/qid=1197934762/ref=tr_359341

2007-12-17 10:48:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

God I feel soo bloody stupid but Can I rebuild what has been lost?

2007-12-17 10:36:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a aunt i wase one on my b-day

2007-12-17 10:26:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got arrested a couple weeks ago for DUI and I'm 18... I was drinking mouth rinse (no joke) by myself b/c I was angry and depressed. Somehow I got in my car and drove, I don't remember how/when, but I blew a .173 3 1/2 hours after my last drink.

My parents told me that alcoholism runs in the family and they hope I never drink again.... I truly believe I can responsibly drink beer with other people(when I'm 21) though... I just made a huge mistake drinking being depressed+angry.

Should I be given a chance to drink responsibly with others when I'm old enough?

2007-12-17 09:54:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous