History on my dad: He wasn't around for 7+ years- He is a cokehead and he drinks all day everyday. HE NEVER HELPED OR PAID CHILD SUPORT. HE NEVER TOOK ME TOO SCHOOL AS A KID OR BOUGHT ME ANYTHING FOR SCHOOL. HE HAS NEVER DONE ANYTHING FOR ME.
I was laid off from my job a couple of months ago, and my dad told me that I could move in, while I looked for a new job.( Mother said I could not move in) What I didn't expect was a completly whimped dad.
He does everything for his wife. If she asks for aomething, she gets it. No question asked. Dad and I use too go out too baseball games and hang out, but now she has too be invovled in everything he does??? If she doesn't get her way, she complains and runs upstairs like a baby. If my dad is going too the store and I ask too go, so I can buy my own food, he said yes, then she asks, and I have too stay home.( he has a truck- 2seats) Could you do me a great favor and expalin this realtionship too me? thanks.
2007-12-17 11:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is a man who loves his wife. Their relationship is none of your business, be thankful they are allowing you to live in their home. You are a grown up, and you may feel victimized by what you think you didn't get when you were growing up but you can't use that as an excuse forever.
There is a simple solution to your problem. Get a job and move into your own place.
2007-12-17 11:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many things going on here. 1/ you are jealous. Which would probably be normal. 2/ If he is still on drugs, he probably depends on her more then you realize. 3/ She may be just a bit jealous of you, also.4/ It is normal for a man to want to do for his wife. Whatever it takes to keep her happy.I'm sure she makes him happy also. 5/She could have pitched a fit for him not to let you move in so, she can't be all that bad.You have got to realize, he married her, she is his partner in life. He did not do you right in the way he was with you after he and your mother divorced but that is the past.Let it go.You could tell him to pay you back now so you can move out and get your own place.Think it bothers you worse then anything though that your dad married this lady.
2007-12-17 19:31:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ava 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for your dad but he should stand up to her and learn to say no to the woman. No woman needs to be THAT dependent upon a man for anything.
2007-12-17 23:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad is whupped.
2007-12-17 19:18:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she understands his needs and he , hers , and thats it thats all , now he has to suck up
2007-12-17 19:22:59 · answer #5 · answered by jim m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad is whipped.
2007-12-17 19:17:10 · answer #6 · answered by morbidlybeautiful 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋