I got arrested a couple weeks ago for DUI and I'm 18... I was drinking mouth rinse (no joke) by myself b/c I was angry and depressed. Somehow I got in my car and drove, I don't remember how/when, but I blew a .173 3 1/2 hours after my last drink.
My parents told me that alcoholism runs in the family and they hope I never drink again.... I truly believe I can responsibly drink beer with other people(when I'm 21) though... I just made a huge mistake drinking being depressed+angry.
Should I be given a chance to drink responsibly with others when I'm old enough?
2007-12-17 09:54:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I got a DUI at the age of 18 but instead of mouth rinse I was drinking Capt. Morgan and Coke. Now I am 25 and scared to death to drink and drive. You dont know it now but your life will change alot for 18 to 21 and then 21 to 25 years old. You hang in there and keep your head up. If you think that you might have a drinking problem go to a AA class. Go to one out of your town and no one will know or even care how you are and you will get alot of answers. Good luck.
2007-12-17 10:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because alcoholism runs in your family does not mean you will be an alcoholic. I have many recovering alcoholics in my family, including my brother, and personally I can enjoy a drink without going overboard. I’m nearly 30 years old and have only been drunk twice in my life – both times I just drank too much when I was 21 and new to drinking. The important thing is to drink because you enjoy a glass of wine or a cocktail, not to drink to get an effect – don’t drink because you are trying to get drunk or trying to forget your problems.
Alcohol is a depressant. If you drink because you are depressed (like you did with the mouthwash), you’ll only become more depressed. If you have a drink at a party with friends, just because you are feeling good, there should be a problem.
HOWEVER, I want to warn you that because of your family’s history, you may be more susceptible to alcoholism, and should be extremely careful. I don’t condone drinking before the age of 21, but once you hit 21, have a drink, maybe two, just don’t overdo it – be careful, alcohol is still a drug and should not be abused.
2007-12-17 10:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by emilyhbl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 21:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by edmondson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the Alcohol. Especially if you have a family history of alcoholism. This is a bad thing for you to be indulging in. FYI: No Alcoholic thinks he has a problem.
2007-12-17 10:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that's up to you and you will do what you want ya know. if you have good friends then they will tell you when it's time to stop drinking or to slow down.
i don't drink but if my bf wants to i make sure i drive him there and back... even if i don't go to the party or whatever i'll drive him there and tell him to call me when he wants me to pick him up... sometimes i've gone all night until 6 in the morning waiting for him to be ready but text him every couple of hours to make sure he's okay... ya have to find the right people to drink with ya know.
2007-12-17 10:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tano A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please always follow the rule to never drink when you are depressed. Seek professional advice regarding whether you can drink ever again. Until you do that, follow your parents' advice. They love you and care for you and are looking out for your best interests.
2007-12-17 10:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by robotech021 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be given the chance, especially with your family being predispose to alcoholism, but unfortunately, when you turn 21, you will be given that opportunity. Please use it wisely and do not drink and drive.
2007-12-17 10:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chances are you will never be able to drink responsibly, you might ought to visit you local alcoholic anonymous, some of the people there can give you better insight into what alcoholism can do.
2007-12-17 10:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by benthr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when a person is angry and depressed they should not drink ........ if you can control the depression or even get over that then yes you should be ok to drink responsibly
2007-12-17 10:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by jess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are genetically predisposed to drink and be an alcoholic. I would consider lifestyle changes NOW to save yourself and your loved ones (including future relationships) a LOT of pain. Please get counseling!
2007-12-17 09:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anna P 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋