My twin sister has been PO'd at me for over a year. She hasn't spoken a word to me. After a sincere apology months ago from me, she still holds a grudge. We have always been very close before this. Today was our birthday, and I wanted to be the better person here and send her a card. I included a generous gift card in it. She never called to thank me, nor did she acknowledge our birthday. My other sister told her she needn't be so rude and at least thank me for the gift card. My twin told my sister she never intends to speak to me again. This breaks my heart. But I get madder and madder when I think about her going out and having fun spending my money. In fact I feel like emailing her and telling her to send the gift card back, since she is so obviously full of hatred towards me. What would you do?
2007-12-16 14:00:39 · 6 answers · asked by Angelique 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would let it alone.
Hon, you CHOSE to give her the gift, and it was very thoughtful and kind of you; however your sister is obviously not speaking.. there is nothing you can do about it.
Writing her an email or calling her to express your anger is inappropriate... i UNDERSTAND how you feel, because i am in much the same situation... but i have chosen to let my sister go, and am moving forward with my life.
take care of YOU.. that's the best you can do now...
2007-12-16 14:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This situation is mad acquainted. First of all, if she does owe you that and he or she hasn't paid you again, make certain you simply wholly cross after her ordinarily. Annoy her till she offers it again is customarily the great case. If no longer, considering that she runs to mommy and daddy approximately it simply inform your mother and father the reality-that she would possibly not go back the money you stored and also you lent it to her out of the kindness of your possess middle. If not anything works, then under no circumstances lend her cash ever once more regardless of how a lot she begs and quite simply inform her you can not believe her, she hasn't been riskless.
2016-09-05 13:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by kearney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sad. You didn't say what you did to get her in the mood she is in, but it must have upset her greatly. Ask her if she will have lunch with you at a neutral place to discuss what you can do to make amends with her. Tell her that you miss her, love her and want her back in your life.
I hope it works out for you, because all we really have is our family and a few very good friends to depend on. It is very hard to lose one of them.
2007-12-16 14:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until she knocks that **** off, she would never get a card from me again let alone money.
2007-12-16 14:48:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let the gift card go. If you ask for it back, your stooping to her level. honestly though, try to explain to her how much yonu love her, and how it hurt you that she did not even say thanks.
2007-12-16 14:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by jeromykscott 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its great that you tried to be the better person.
keep doing it and she might change
if not, at least you know you did the right thing, which is priceless :)
2007-12-16 14:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋