How can I deal with this?

Question

Okay I am like so fed up with this. Okay I have a myspace account rite? And I like to go on my schools homepage sometimes and you know post into the topics from time to time. Well there's this little girl on there I ain't gone say her name but her and her sister is always goin on there startin $#!+ with me. I mean I say nothing to them never even said 2 words to them when we were at the same school she never said half the things she says on there to my face. She's always saying things like I'm a loser and I need to get a life but yet and still she's the one getting on and off the internet starting bullcrap. When I say things back to her her sister get's all up in it. Then she had the audacity to tell me that I was lying about being pregnant both of them. I don't like to lose my temper but I'm like 2 seconds from just cursing them out. Can someone tell me how to deal with these dummies?

Answer 1

They are just trying to start a fight with you-I'll bet they're sitting there laughing while you're getting frusturated. They just think that they're probably never going to see you again so they might as well get you angry at them.
Don't feel obligated to talk to whoever starts talking back. Just exit the conversation every time they start talking to you.
If that doesn't work and they still keep saying rude things to you, just say that you don't want to talk to somebody who's not going to be nice to you and that you'd appreciate it if they stop. Who cares if you hurt their feelings in the making? They're obviously hurting yours.
If they STILL keep being mean, copy and paste your conversation onto Word and print it out. Then bring it to school-unless they don't go to the same school as you-and show it to the principal. They'll stop then-trust me!
Or you could simply block them off myspace. If they can't talk to you, how can they bug you?
Remember, don't sink down to their level. It takes a bigger person not to retaliate, and that's exactly what you should do.
I hope I helped! ;) Good luck with your cyber-bullies!

Answer 2

Every time they do these things, you are giving them a reaction that continues to fuel their behavior. When you give them no reaction whatsoever, then they will get bored. They will try other means to get you riled but if they get absolutely nothing, then they give up because it isn't fun any more. It is like watering a plant, when you feed it, it will grow, but when you do nothing it slowly dies off.

Do not flinch, do not show emotion, when they do things that are hurtful or rude, then realize that they are the ones with the problem. People with any kind of intelligence will see what the girls are up to and will not give it anything more than a shake of the head, and move on. Your real friends will see what the girls are up to, and they don't think any less of you.

The only other option is that you can take it to the school principal. Perhaps he will consider reprimanding them, or prevent their comments from being posted on the site.

Answer 3

These are cyber-bullies... and various officials are beginning to take this stuff seriously.

Start printing out what these girls are writing to you... you need the evidence.
You can report them at school AND you can have them blocked from MySpace, which has a report form to fill out. They can find the ISP they are using and block them from logging on.

You need to stop feeding them, because that is what this is all about. If you don't react to their stuff, they will move on to their next victim. This will take a lot of maturity and control on your part. When they show up to get in your face, you say something like... "You don't rate any attention from me," or "I have nothing to say to that" then turn on your heel and walk away.

Answer 4

I think That If The Girl Is to Scared To Say It To Your Face U should Not Even Worry About them They Are Not Even Worth Your Time

Answer 5

Yes, stop letting other people control your emotions and mood.. you can't stop them from saying or typing things... it's best to IGNORE them.

Besides, they WANT you to get upset.. Why do you think they are doing this? When you react, you are giving them "bait" to continue their bad behavior.

And another thing, maybe the girl is jealous of you for some reason? Sometimes jealous people are mean.

Whatever the case, just don't pay attention to them. They will eventually get bored, and find another victim....

Answer 6

There is this girl who spreads rumors at my school that my father puts video cameras in our bathrooms and tapes my friends. (We were best friends in Elementary school so she's been over to my house a million times, and people know that.)

Anyway, I was going to have a big party and 15 people said they were coming, and she got the word around and only 4 showed up. And the 4 who showed up heard the rumor and didn't believe it.

So basically, you have it good. So shut up and ignore her immature comments.

Answer 7

From the tone of your question you sound extremely level headed and mature. I really don`t think you need any advice. You just need to step back and think a little bit and then do what your better judgment tells you to do.

Answer 8

block them. go to their profiles while your logged in and theres an option to block them. or just ignore them. dont get me wrong sometimes i looooooove a good fight but if you keep your cool and dont say anything it will make them even more mad all they want is a reaction out of you dont give it to them. everyone else will see how immature they are being anyway.

Answer 9

you need to take the high road on this and ignore them. they are obviously trash and you should let it roll off like water off a duck's back. obviously they just want to see if they can make you lower yourself to their level,don't fall for such an obvious dirty trick. good luck

Answer 10

I would either ignore them or tell someone about this. If i was you,I would prolly just be like 'why cant u mind ur own buisness? your so immature' saying that might work.not sure.