Family - December 2007

I was out and my mum said she had a headache and had blood on her shirt. and shes crying

MY BROTHER HIT HER IN THE HEAD!
AND HE'S ONLY 15!
My grandma was gonna call the cops but she didnt

What should I do?

2007-12-15 14:44:46 · 19 answers · asked by ☮ 2

I'm in my late twenties and I work fulltime plus a mother of one and a student.. My parents are extremely controling even to the point they don't want me dating anyone, so I basically lie about where I am going when they watch my child. How do I address this

2007-12-15 14:41:00 · 5 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

Ok so her and her husband, not even like a step father, are absoulutly driving me crazy I was walking home with 2 of my friends we are 14 but I told her husband to pick us up at 8:30 but I forgot the clock was a hour longer then what i thought to me and my friends were left alone at 8:00 at a highschool dark in the freezing cold Iv been ofcourse begging my mom to get me a cell phone bcuz every one has one ya know! And so my friend got hers tooken away and my other friend ran out of minutes SO I decided lets start walking Its maybe 1 mile long to get home maybe a lil bit more hardly, I had a bad feeling about it but it was so much fun we got freaked out and we started running having a blast then it was 8:30 and we werent halfway home The the dude sees us walking but doesnt stop so on HIS cell he calls my mom and gets her upset then magically he sees us walking by and then i get home my mom has a cow my mom said i shouldv used the cel phones they had to call them they dont belive me sos!

2007-12-15 14:23:34 · 4 answers · asked by Savanna S 1

Hi,

As you already know, I'm 20 year's old. I am a junior in college, and I can't seem to get my mom to understand that I'm old enough to live my own life.

I have always been the kid in the family that did everything right and always followed the rules when everyone else was rebelling. I always thought that being so responsible and respectful would pay-off for me once I was old enough to start dating and i know I'm more than old enough, but now it's seems like it has backfired on me. See i've finally met a great guy,he is my first boyfriend, and we have been dating for 5 months... well because my mother is so overprotective she needs to know where we are and what we are doing always. And now its causing problems with my boyfriend, he is starting to get tired of her constantly monitoring me. He's 25 and he cannot believe how obsessive she is. I have a tight knit family and my younger cousins all have more freedom than me.. its driving me crazy.... any advice??

2007-12-15 14:17:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He calls me stupid, even if I get all A's and says cuss words at me. Is the child abuse?

2007-12-15 14:10:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay...well lets start with..alcoholics run in my family. my grandma was and she was depressed because she drank and drank because she was depressed. my dad cant go to sleep without having at least 12 beer. i love drinking a little too much...im 17 and im in grade 12. i go out every weekend to partys and get drunker then all my friends. for example..if they get drunk on friday they wont drink on saturday but im always up for it. i drink before i go out (when im alone) i drink whatever i have kicking around the house before my friends pick me up..so i can be drunk before. i just love everything about it....and i cant just slow down..ill make my drinks really strong and ill drink them really fast. when im sad the only thing i feel like doing is drinking...(i also drink on school nights when the oppertunity comes up)...do i have a problem?

2007-12-15 14:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents weren't all that fantastic - they were abusive and generally unpleasant. I left home abruptly (technically I ran away) several years ago because I could no longer survive mentally or physically in that environment anymore.

I am very angry with my mother for the things she did and said and how she made me feel. I'm furious at her. But for some reason, I don't have anywhere near the same level of anger toward my father.

I have far more reason to be angry with him - my mother made my childhood lonely and extremely miserable...he made it hell. But for some reason, I feel nothing toward him - just emptiness with the occasional exception of a little pity, fear or irritation. It's as if he no longer matters to me. I just don't care about him anymore.

Now that feels far more comfortable than the anger I have for my mother. But I don't understand the difference in the way I feel toward them. Why am I able to feel like this about my father but not my mother?

2007-12-15 13:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by . 6

im 12 years old and my mom owns a shop in my town. but she makes me work and i HATE it
help

2007-12-15 13:37:26 · 8 answers · asked by beckyw2013 1

2007-12-15 13:27:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother died of cancer when i was 7. my mam & dad separated when i was about 3. when my mam died my dad bought a new house with his new partner so i could live with them but she told me that the house was not mine and i was just living in it! she also told me that my dad had told her that if anything ever happed to her he would kill himself as he would have nothing else to live for as she was the most important thing in his life. To this day i have never confronted her about this but I so want to. i want to tell my dad what a witch he married but i dont want to hurt him as he had a heart attack a short while back. i don't think i can move on though, until i hear from him that she was full of ****! should i tell her how miserable she made me??? I have no "get up and go" now she sucked that out from me. please help.

2007-12-15 13:21:58 · 21 answers · asked by sad 1

Ok, my niece left something at ours so my sis ran out as they left to give it back but missed them, my niece called and said u shoulda rang me? my sis got mad and said something I cant recall exactly but was rude. So my niece and her mum (my half sis) came back to argue wiv my sis just as we were leaving the house.

My sis (first one) was giving me a lift to my office xmas do and I was already running late which is why no one called my niece to tell her. So they are arguing in the street while im already late and everyone at the office is waiting on me, so i got out of the car and walked away, I ended up back in the car with my sis, I have her moaning about the situation and at the same time I have my niece slaging off my sister and saying it was all her fault blah blah, a lot of preschool crap im pissed off cos it wasn't my arguement yet I paid for it cos I was late and upset all night. I told my sis she was in the wrong but still everyone made it MY problem! Am I wrong to be mad?

2007-12-15 13:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't like shopping with him. I can stay in a store for hours, and look all day. He wonts to rush me. I feel like i can't get anything done with him there couse i can't take my time and look, and just enjoy myself.

2007-12-15 13:12:56 · 9 answers · asked by ladonna 1

For over 30 years now my mother has been a really difficult person to deal with. Our communication is awful. All she ever do is display and say negative statements. She gets upsets when I gave a photo to my aunt. She gets upset when I visit my mother in law. To sum it up she gets upset at alot of little things. I don't know how to please her and truefully I am tired of trying to live up to her expectations. I think she has either bipolar or some sort of depression disorder where she takes out her moodiness on her kids. Its been so long now I am wondering if she will ever be a loving, kind mother thats consistant. I avoid talking or visiting her months at a time. I live about 20 minutes away and have only seen her about a handful of times a year. This cant be healthy for either one of us but I dont want to see her only to hear negative comments.
Is she going to change or is it terrible I dont care anymore?

2007-12-15 13:05:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin and me where always number 1 on top friends on myspace. But not anymore. Now I'm not even on her first page of myspace. I searched but couldn't find me on my friends list. Even a bunch of celebrities are in front of me. So as revenge I put her on the very bottom of my top friends. What do you think? Do you agree that I'm justified in this?

2007-12-15 12:55:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-15 12:54:15 · 8 answers · asked by ASTODAK 2

I saw my cousin pull up in a car at a store, i was pulling down my window to say hi but i saw she was holding a lit cigarette. I pulled my window back up. My sister came and noticed she was smoking too, she told me not to tell because it's none of my business but i care about my cousin. she's already been caught once in the past and obviously been smoking since. should i keep it to myself or tell?

2007-12-15 12:41:51 · 9 answers · asked by beholder of answers 2

There is not a day that goes by that my phone isn't ringing off the hook. She is always asking me to look things up on the internet and she is always gripping about something. Everything has to be drama. She loves to boss me around. I am 30 years old. I don't want to be rude to her. How can I nicely tell her to back off?

2007-12-15 12:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad cought me and talkto me abought porn and said he did the same thing and said i was cureous... but my mom said i cant go on my labtop no more what should i tell her?

2007-12-15 12:40:05 · 3 answers · asked by joe 1

Then we got pregnant and they were so excited until they found out I was going to see a family member that they felt we'd all get a germ from.They refused contact with us and their first Grandchild, unless we didn't see this relative.The baby was born and I was inviting them to visit sending pics and everything trying to make peace but we never heard back.The baby turned two and I ran into them and so they said they wanted to see us.My hubby wants nothing to do with them (which I feel is his choice) I just don't want my child to grow up without her grandparents.My child and I have visited numerous times but I feel things will always be so different.They don't say they love me anymore, they just treat me indifferent,like I'm still to blame for it all?!I just need to know a third party feeling on how to handle it all .They haven't seen our daughter in almost 2 months and it's like they don't even care!Thanks for any advice:)

2007-12-15 12:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by superstar 6

This morning, my dad creates a scandal that I am not doing enough chores and not helping out (even thought I think I do). One of my chores is getting mail up on the street. I was sick in bed but still changed and went for the mail, where I find an empty box. He took the mail two hours earlier for some reason! So I say, "why didnt you tell me? Be a good person!" And he flips out again! Who is right?

2007-12-15 12:00:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

so last week i went with my parents to the anual christmas party. it's at my dad's friends house and all his old buddies from his old company go there including their kids. i've been going to this since i was 7. every year i always see this crazy girl whose 6 years older than me. anyway i saw her last weekend and she was crazy as usual but a little bit mmoody.
so i just found out that she commited suicide last night,
her boyfriend stopped by her house this morning he found her hanging by a rope in the garage. I honestly don't know how to deal with this. all i feel is horror for her boyfriend having to find the one he loves most hung and dead in her parents garge.and right around the holidays too. no one had any idea that she was depressed and my parents know her quite wll and aren;t handling this too well. i don't even know what to do.

2007-12-15 11:57:19 · 13 answers · asked by :| 1

my dad slaps me and i my friends ask me why im sad and i cant tell them or my dad would beat me harder.help me?? pleazz........................... i need it badly.

2007-12-15 11:54:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents think its a bad site because of girls getting kidnap. And there so overe protective. But i just talk to my friends its like a email but you can decorate your page.How can I break it down to them?

2007-12-15 11:39:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom and I have been living together with out my dad for allmost 6 years . He lives in Florida I have not seen him for almost like 2 years . When I say seen I mean no contact at all! I am beggining to miss him what should I do ?

2007-12-15 11:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by elexus101 1

My mom had a Christmas party and my dad took me and my brothers out to lunch. My mom called and said that my dad didn't have to buy us food because there would be some at the party. But he got mad then she got mad now she is on her way home to firgure this out and I don't want my parents to get into a fight and for them to break up so what do I do? Please help me? Hurry because she is on her way!!

2007-12-15 10:41:49 · 36 answers · asked by blue_atlanta_bird 1

My dad just blew up at me for failing two classes. He is saying i wont get into college or succed and is very very angry. He is saying alot of hurtful things and i dont know how to calm him down. Please what should i do??

2007-12-15 10:09:43 · 8 answers · asked by Jota 1

My parents got in a HUGE fight last night. My mom has always vented to me. Since I was little. I fel right smack in the middle of things, I don't want to be involved anymore but I can't seem to not be tramatize by the fights and the abuse my father puts on my mom. He doesn't hit, but does MEAN things. He has her trapped in this relationship and I can't help but hate my dad for what hes done to my mom. I know that isnt fair but he is in the wrong, and i love my mother so much. How can I be ok in this screwed up situation? If you need more info please feel free to ask.

2007-12-15 09:55:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

hello everyone. I was clicking around on the family computer and couple hours ago (I'm 17) and I found some naked pictures of my 19 year old sister. I had never considered myself attracted to her until i saw her gorgeous body. Now I just can't stop thinking about her, What do I do?

2007-12-15 09:29:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Three years ago, my grandmother passed away. I was very close to her, and she left me a pair of beautiful diamond earrings. This is the one thing of hers I have left. Unfortunately, the posts were to big to fit through the tiny holes in my ear.

I broke my ankle about a month ago, so I'm on crutches. Plus my dad was yelling at me today, so I went upstairs to talk to my mom (we have a good relationship). I walked into her room, and saw a pretty chinese print pouch on her dresser. Thinking it was a Christmas gift from one of her students (she is a teacher), I opened it.

Inside were the earrings. I thought she had been using them for herself, so I started screaming at her for stealing them. After I was done, she told me she had gotten the posts fixed and was going to give them to me as a Christmas present to wear to my winter formal, my first high school dance (my ankle will have healed by then). Then, out of anger from the rest of todays events, I told her it was

2007-12-15 09:28:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm pretty sure my 19 year old son has got involved with dealing drugs. I dont really know what to do.
Me and my husband have become suspicious over the last 2/3 weeks, he has a photo on his phone of what looks like 5 bags of white powder or tablets, the photo was taken on his computer desk, also i found a little bag (like the corner of a food bag, triangle cut off the corner). Then last night he came home a bit worse for the drink, and I heard him on the phone to his mate saying he had been working for someone they had met 2/3 weeks ago.

I know whatever I say to him he'll deny and lie through his teeth. What would you do?

2007-12-15 09:17:15 · 2 answers · asked by aqua 1