My mom had a Christmas party and my dad took me and my brothers out to lunch. My mom called and said that my dad didn't have to buy us food because there would be some at the party. But he got mad then she got mad now she is on her way home to firgure this out and I don't want my parents to get into a fight and for them to break up so what do I do? Please help me? Hurry because she is on her way!!
2007-12-15 10:41:49 · 36 answers · asked by blue_atlanta_bird 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I doubt this issue will break them up. If youre really scared go tell your dad right now how you feel and that this scares you.This is a hotline you can call if your real scared
1-800-448-3000
http://www.boystown.org/hotline/index.asp
2007-12-15 10:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are fighting over that little arguement of not needing to feed you guys lunch then that is pathetic. Honestly there is nothing you can do. Fights and arguments are between parents. Just know that it isn't you fault *why they are arguing* and they will work through it. If you are afraid that they will split over this then there must be more to it. If it is just about the food then I wouldn't worry about a thing. In the end your parents will love you just the same and that is all you need to worry about.
2007-12-15 10:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to just stay out of it. It might make matters worse if you get in the way, and it's their problem, not yours. I know you may be scared, but you've got to think positive. My parents fight a lot, so I know what you feel kindof. Just let things pass over and I hope things turn out okay for you.
2007-12-15 10:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyluver5193 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care enough to help them then print this out and make them read it out loud. Stand right there and tell them that you love them both very much and it hurts you when you see them in pain. They are two people who fell in love once and can still know that there is love there if - and only if they know what is at stake if they are not willing to listen to you, someone who loves them as much as they love you. Get to work.
Love never gives up,
Love cares more for others than for self,
Love doesn't want what it doesn't have,
Love doesn't strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God Always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.
2007-12-15 10:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by memex_user 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Parents fighting is normal. There is no perfect family out there.
The best you can do it go give them both a kiss separately (after the fight) and say to your dad "I just wanted to let you know I love and mom" then go to your mother and say, "I just wanted you to knowI love you and dad."
2007-12-15 10:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by wishiwas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents arguing is obviously very hard to deal with because all you want is for them to be happy. The best thing that your parents need to do is first vent things out with one another then TALK. They need to TALK about their problems with one another. Its easy to forget that something like communication is key to every relationship whether its marriage and friendship. Fighting is normal but shouldn't be a habit.
2007-12-15 10:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could let them know that you're worried they might break up (they won't over something silly) - it might wake them up to the fact that they're being very aggressive right now and it's worrying their kids. They'll probably also look at the argument and go "wow, this is silly to argue over, and we're making a bigger deal of it than it is."
2007-12-15 10:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Janelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents argue and fight all the time! That doesn't mean their going to break up! That's just parents for you. Some calm down and let them go through it alone.
2007-12-15 10:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by I can only be me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to take a lot more for your parents to get into a divorce. just let them work it out, sometimes its good for parents to fight. when i was lillt i got into the middle of the fight and said that i didn't like it when they fighted and didn't want then to break up. it worked out just fine, they will be concerned about the effects there fights are having on you
2007-12-15 10:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They arent fighting because of this, they are fighting because of bigger problems. I would sit em down and tell em you love them and that you think it would be good idea to go talk to someone (therapish etc) -Just some third party person who can help em work out some stuff and get em focused and being good and all that
It sucks that they are fighting!!! :(
good luck to ya
2007-12-15 10:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by soren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋