Ok, my niece left something at ours so my sis ran out as they left to give it back but missed them, my niece called and said u shoulda rang me? my sis got mad and said something I cant recall exactly but was rude. So my niece and her mum (my half sis) came back to argue wiv my sis just as we were leaving the house.
My sis (first one) was giving me a lift to my office xmas do and I was already running late which is why no one called my niece to tell her. So they are arguing in the street while im already late and everyone at the office is waiting on me, so i got out of the car and walked away, I ended up back in the car with my sis, I have her moaning about the situation and at the same time I have my niece slaging off my sister and saying it was all her fault blah blah, a lot of preschool crap im pissed off cos it wasn't my arguement yet I paid for it cos I was late and upset all night. I told my sis she was in the wrong but still everyone made it MY problem! Am I wrong to be mad?
2007-12-15 13:20:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have turned off my phone cos I dont want to speak to any of them, but this is not a long term solution, what should I do about it?
2007-12-15 13:31:22 · update #1
Must be annoying and frustrating to put up with, even though they are family and you would love them (I assume?). One thing I have found in life is that you can't make them do what you want (even if it is right and sensible) - your sisters are adults and can act as they choose. Maybe you can make them see sense, but that would rely on them actually accepting that (can lead a horse to water, but can't make it drink.....that sort of thing). Other than that, maybe you can work out practical ways to make things easier eg. if you can foresee likely issues, try to act to avoid them (maybe not possible, but next time check they are not leaving things behind etc). Also, if you can make your own way rather than relying on your sister for transport (or make the drop-off time eg. half an hour earlier than you need so you do get there on time), that could help too and would reduce the impact of it being your problem. Good luck and I hope you have a happy Christmas if your family does Christmas.
2007-12-15 14:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R right 2 B mad
2007-12-15 13:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get it.
but if you are uncomfortable around your sister, lighten up the load, and stop seeing her so often... you have other things to do, i'm sure.
2007-12-15 13:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋