Family - October 2007

My son-in-law acts just like a spoiled kid when he's losing in any game. No matter what we're playing! Aren't "GAMES" suppose to be fun!? How would you deal with this situation?

2007-10-25 13:49:27 · 7 answers · asked by tictak kat 7

my sis is so mean. Because im alot thinner and healthier than her she always seems to put me down. I have to earn all the things i get like chanel, hollister, dior, abercrombie all that stuff. She always borrows my stuff and gives it back a month later and then when i ask her for something she always says noe shes 27 honstly i think she has enough money to buy her own stuff. Shes like a little chubby and i do alot of sports and im thinner than her and she always stretches out my shirts and shorts it sucks.
I love her to death shes really mean to me sometimes.
She even was like enturrupting me and my boyfriend on a date and shes just horrible

2007-10-25 13:39:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is going to be a father - he is 32 years old but has not grown up!!! I love his girlfriend but I think she is doing this to spite him.. I want to be a good aunt - but I hate budding in.... I want to make sure this child is taken care of... I know he would be a good dad - and she is a queen... How can I get them together???

2007-10-25 13:38:55 · 6 answers · asked by michelleinhamilton 1

Lol...Wow...I sounded bossy didn't I? and juevenile...But...Please ignore that...Well number one, it's not that bad really (the way I want to wear it.) I just like my eyeliner dark and full but she makes me wear it where it isn't even visible...I am just looking for individualitly and thats how I like to express myself...(I guess)...Number two, She won't even let me ask her...She just screams about it...Number three, she is being hypocritical because hers is very dark but of course she "is an adult living under her own roof..." heh heh...Its just these little things that set me off...Sorry, had to get that off my mind...

Well, I guess the question really is, how should I compromise with her...Without her very short temper blowing up.

Yes I'm an idiot.

2007-10-25 13:15:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend Grant and I have been together since June 2006 but my parents still don't accept him because he's in his 40's and I'm just recently 21. I spoke with my mother this morning on the phone about our annual family reunion every Halloween. She told me that she didn't want me to bring Grant because it's "embarrassing that her daughter is dating a man the same age as her father". I broke down and started crying and basically told her that Grant had to come because he's part of the family...she then went on to say that it was horrible that I've moved in with him and she knows we're having sex and that isn't something she had wanted me to do until marriage. I say all of this to ask: What can I do in this situation? Should I still go to the reunion even though I can't take Grant, or should I just show up with him???

2007-10-25 09:22:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mothers. Yes, I know you mean well. Can you please give me some words that I should keep in my heart about this topic?

Earlier this year, my mom and I have had a few words of choice together, but we resolved that. Everything has been just dandy. I know I'm still young, but I'll be 15 in December, and I have no freedom, whatsoever. And it's not because of how we weren't getting along either. Last month, my best friend came over and stayed with me for a day. And the time before that, in June, was the last time I've done anything with my friends this year. Two times this whole year. And it's because my mom won't let me do anything. She's always telling me that I need to "engage" myself in friends and activites, but how can I if she won't let me? I'm on the brink of loosing it. I can take it a little while longer but not much.

I'm running out of words, so I need to add details.

2007-10-25 09:19:22 · 4 answers · asked by Victoria <3! 3

EVERYTIME I WANNA GO SOMEWHERE WITH MY COACH HE THROUGHS A FIT AND A HALF! HE ALSO WON'T LET ME SEE MY BEST FRIEND BECAUSE MY DAD DOESN'T LIKE HIM. BUT I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT'S WRONG! HE WON'T LET ME HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!

2007-10-25 09:13:28 · 3 answers · asked by munchy_101 2

My cousin and I always laugh about all the times we got, well let's be frank, beat. We never got it when we didn't deserve it and it wasn't a problem where we would show up to school with bruises and stuff but they definitely weren't great experiences.

My favorite is when my cousin took a knife to his dads classic car and ripped all the interior. He got his *** beat for that one lol. Horrible time, I remember everyone crying but now we talk about it and it's hilarious. I think these things kept us out of trouble, we were both scared of our dads.

2007-10-25 09:12:22 · 8 answers · asked by Nick S 2

when i was younger i remember my mom used to makeout with my doctor when she brought me. should i ask her about it?

2007-10-25 09:02:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 08:57:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My family thinks I'm depressed. I never smile. I am the happiest person ever. I have nothing to be depressed about. I took 2 online tests and here are the screen captures of them: http://img89.imageshack.us/my.php?image=ghjkup8.png
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I failed these tests. I have no depression according to them. My memere (grandma in French) thinks I should be put in a mental institutional place or so I heard my mom talk about over the phone with my aunt who lives far away. I'M NOT DEPRESSED. They don't believe me and they never have. I've only told what I believe/know is true. How do I change their opinions?

2007-10-25 08:44:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

like she is not leaving any time soon.how could i tell her that she must leave...mind u i have 3 teenagers of my own.

2007-10-25 08:34:16 · 5 answers · asked by pebbles 1

My parents stopped supporting me after 4 years of being in college. They are not helping me with anything. I moved out so I could be close to the university (currently in a University apartment) and have asked them for help for school, but they refuse to give it to me, because they are mad that I moved out even though I am 23. I am a full time student and I have to have a full time job in order to make it on my own. But it is so difficult to keep up my grades and my parents refuse to help me. The said they would rather support my dancing that would cost thousands of dollars even though I cannot make any money doing that than helping me with my future. Do you think this is wrong?

2007-10-25 08:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by brighid 2

She's been like that for more than a year. She messed up, joined bad crowds and we had no choice othe than give her a harsh punishment, she was grounded from almost everything for several months. She changed her behavior and even agred she had messed up, but goty extremely resentful cause she thinks the punishment was too harsh and long and she was sincerely sory and we didnt trust her. She talks to us only when necessarym hates our presence. She doesn't get in troubles, doesn't break rules, is an excellent student, has many activities, even volunteered to help in our church. Everybody likes her, but at home she's always resentful, does her best to avoid us. We tried to talk, said we love her and wanted her best, but she doesn't change. This has been extremely hurtful to us and has disturbed our lives, though she doesn't get in troubles. She says it's her right to be like that, is doing nothing wrong and asked her to respect how she is. I don't what to do, this is a hard situation.

2007-10-25 08:28:43 · 10 answers · asked by Sandra 1

I'm 22 & want to resolve issues w/ my father before I get married next year. My father mentally & emotionally abused me and physically abused my little brother (who is 20 now) for 10 years. He took us from our mom, didn't use the child support on us, didn't feed us adequately, left us at home for weeks alone,etc.
He had my baby brother (12y/o now) w/ another woman. And I thought my father would realize he was a bad parent & do better, but he treats my baby brother badly too. He constantly asks me "Why does daddy treat me like this? Why doesn't he love us?"
I want him realize how he has horribly affected me & my brothers' lives! I want an apology & I want him to change the way he treats us! In the past I've tried to speak to him but he ends the subject by ignoring me or screaming at me to make me cry & scare me away.
Which do you think will get him to listen to me more?
Should I tell him in a letter or try to tell him face to face? Thanks for reading all this.

2007-10-25 07:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-25 07:32:04 · 31 answers · asked by Karen 1

This afternoon during lunch my mom told me I can't call my dad anymore and can't talk to him unless he calls me I felt hurt that this is all b/c of the relationship between my mom and dad and they don't get along my relation ship w/ my dad is fine he helps not alot but it's something i don't know what to do rite now i'm holding it all my anger in but i know that my moms idea of distancing myself from my dad is wrong she says that he needs to realize he's missing something in his life idk it's so confusing doesn't make any sense to me

what to do?

2007-10-25 07:16:59 · 11 answers · asked by Juicy co. 1

I moved out when I was 18, along with every one of my friends that I know of. We're all from a small town.
When I moved to the city, I met a guy who was still living at his parents' house when he was 28, paying nothing... only doing small chores around the house.
We bought a house together, have a baby... and now I'm realizing how irresponsible and immature he is when it comes to bills and living "in the real world."
I'm assuming it has to do with him living at home until such a ridiculous age.

How many of you would allow your child to stay at home, well after the age of 18.... why or why not?

2007-10-25 07:10:02 · 47 answers · asked by echoedmemories 4

So my ex-boyfriend wants to see my baby after it is born but because i live with my parents they don't want him to come over to this house because he and his mom treated us bad when we went over to tell them the good news. Well I don't mind him coming over but what can he do? Can he go to court and force my parents to let him in the house so that he can see the baby? I mean I would say yes but this isn't my house. And me and my ex don't really get along. i don't want the baby moving back and forth every few days and I can't move out at the present time. What are his options? or mine?

2007-10-25 06:56:48 · 15 answers · asked by That Person 3

i really have no idea! men are so hard to buy for, esp. grandad as he doesnt really want or need anything!!

2007-10-25 06:28:28 · 26 answers · asked by Proudnewmummy! 3

I have a strong resentment towards my mom because she was cruel, when I was 14. I made mistakes, was a teen, she gave me a harsh punishment though I sincerely regreted. She said I broke her trust and since I loved her despite my mistakes this let me reslly down and depresed. Though I pleaded for her trust and showed I deserved it she was extremely cruel and it months for her to trust me again. When this happened, our realtionship was destroyed, I've never got over this. Today at 24 I'm gradiated, have a good job, got over that fact but avoid my mom. Now she's a widow, went through hard times and I ended up lending her good money, she should pay me yesterday, upon her word. But she didn't and don't know when she will. I don't need the money, but it was my great chance to throw at her gace she broke my trust and she's not a teen. It was my great chance to make her take her own medicine. But my younger sister begged me not to. All I did was say she doesn't need to pay me. Lost my chance

2007-10-25 04:53:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anabela 1

Of course you don't feel jealous of HIM, but you feel jealous for HER, right??

2007-10-25 04:44:11 · 4 answers · asked by Ash'ari Maturidi 5

how i can told him about this..what to do..he is very rude to people..

2007-10-25 04:44:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister in law sometime's call's our home and when i pick up the phone and say hello ~ she just say's hi is my brother their , Or if they have family thing's they call my husband and ask him to tell me to make thing's . How many of you think this is rude? He is the middle child and has a younger brother but im the only one who is marryed to him, His brother is not marryed or have a girlfriend some how cant keep one down. Please help if you know what i should do ~ Thank's

2007-10-25 04:43:09 · 2 answers · asked by impala2girl 1

We will have one group shot with 7 people. I would like to separate my sister, her husband, and her 12 yr old boy & 8 yr old girl from me, my husband and 6 yr old boy, but still look coordinated. Any ideas? My dad will be hanging it above his mantel all year long, so I'm trying to avoid Christmas themes!!!

2007-10-25 04:15:43 · 3 answers · asked by Marissa J 2

2007-10-25 04:12:18 · 5 answers · asked by Mero 2

I'm desperate.
Seriously desperate.
I'm 20 years old, still live with my parents.
They have so many depts it's unbelievable, even after personal bankrupcy (since about half the debt is to family and friends and we want to repay them).

For last umm 17 years maybe, my dad has been giving math & programming private lessons in our home. He always preferred to work at home. But the thing is, he only has like a lesson or two per day... which is really not enough!!!
He had a couple of odd low-paying jobs from what I remember, each lasting for about a year or two. He never, and I mean never, got a job according to his profession: software programmer and tester. He is very smart. He has three degrees and real potential to make a lot of money. I don't know what is wrong with him. My money from work and credit cards go to the family or my college tuition. My mom is going mad and wants a divorce from my dad because it feels like he will never get a real job even though he always promises to

2007-10-25 04:07:09 · 2 answers · asked by Arielle 1

She's always been this way. It's always me, me, me, me. It's like she sends my brother and I down guilt trips just for her doing things that she is SUPPOSED to do. Like giving us shelter or something. She acts like she should be praised for it, etc. We wants all of our money and expects us to give it to her, etc. But, when she's around other people, she's so CHARMING. Peple always go, "your mother is so cool!". SHE'S NOT. She pretends to be all high and mighty, but she's not. She steals money from me and she is always ranting on and on at me about how the company that she works for would be nothing without her because they are all beneath her and idiots. When she is wrong with anyone, she refuses to admit it. She would rather go away yelling, screaming, flinging around than admit that she was wrong.

I'm bipolar, so I'm supposed to be insane. But I still have empathy, I feel bad for the things that I have done when in my episodes and I always apologize. She doesn't. Mother's nvr wrong.

2007-10-25 04:04:17 · 1 answers · asked by creep show 1

Please read all the way

I have now smelled bad for 4-5 years, before that I did not smell to the point that someone would notice. Please I appreciate your help, but donot tell me to take a shower or wear deodrant, or some other rude comments. I have tried almost everything like changeing my diet (no garlic,cury, chocolate, or milk products) having my liver and kidneys tested, going to a dermatologist, eating cholorophill tablets ...etc..etc...etc

IT MAY SOUND "DUMISH" but I now see no hope in being nomal. I have people at work who sit covering their nose all day, everywhere I go people cover there nose fully...some even walk away. I take a shower twice a day. I wear deodrant. I wear powDer. I even wear colone. & Yes I have tried many and in different combinations...

I DONOT Sweat, but I think my skin pores have to do with the smell..


ANYONE CAN HELP? :-(
If not fixing the problem I am now convinced to just cover it up, Any good deodrants, or colones u recommend?

2007-10-25 03:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My son's father does not help me take care of my son. He does even work. I filed for child support because of this and now there's a warrant out for his arrest. I told him that I would never keep my son away from him no matter what we go through but he doesn't even take care of him. We got into an argument because he want me to take him off child support so the warrant will go away. He says that I'm a only thinking about money and not the fact the spending time with my son. Now he wants me to bring my son to his house so he can spend some time with him. But I told him he has to come here if he wants to see him. I'm uncomfortable with letting him go because of the arguments we have and i don't want him to take him one day. Here are the other reasons, He has no job, he doesn't really want a job cuz he's tryna be a rapper, he has no fixed address, i live in MD and he in VA, he sleeps at different peoples homes. He has no money, and he sometimes com pares himself to jesus! Am I wrong?

2007-10-25 03:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by 15 2