Family - September 2007

well liek read my frist story thing well anywasy we were ltaking about it and like then she gave me trey;s # and i caleld it and hsi sis asnwered and htey have caller id and she said she will get trey to call me whn he gets home! ehmagawd help me do i kill myself or something?

2007-09-03 09:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by nastia 2

Ok so i went to my parents room to use they're computer, and (me being curious) i looked at the history and there's porn sites!! I also sort of caught my dad looking at porn once, luckily he doesn't know that i caught him...but i'm pretty sure my mom knows about it...but it's making me want to gag and......uhh....it's sooo gross!!! how should i cope with it?

2007-09-03 09:15:28 · 13 answers · asked by The Dreamer 5

My grandma (moms side)
Treated my mom bad when she was growing up.
I live in TX she live in Nevada.
I see her like 1 week each year
I saw her a month ago.
When we got there the first day she was sooo nice,
The 2nd day i had to take my meds for add
And i said 1 minute cuz i needed to get dressed...
She got really mad came in threw me on the floor and pulled me into the kitchen by the good of my jacket.

That day myom & her got in a huge fight!
Cuz my gma yelled at my little sister for opening a popsicle a ay that wasn't my grandmas way.
So my mom came in and yelled at her & they got in a big fight.

So we went to a hotel to try & get away from her
But if course she came with us!
I had to take a shower but i was trying to find my towel.
So my gma got mad threw me against the wall
Pulled me by the neck all the way to the shower she ushed me in with all my clothes on. Turned on the water. Took out the lightblb so i took my shower in the dark.
When i got out she threw

2007-09-03 08:57:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boy friend of 18 months is not really fond of children, he has two adult children, whom he rarely has any contact with, my grandaughter starts school tomorrow and today we spent a few hours with her,however my boyfriend has virtually ignored her, this has hurt me a great deal, i am spending tonight in my own home alone. i am beginning to wonder if he has just tolerated her to please me ? i am beginning to wonder if the relation ship has any future?

2007-09-03 08:29:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband was 16 he got his first love pregnant. it was his first time having adult relations. She got pregnant his daughter was born when he was just 2 weeks into his 17th birthday. his ex was 19. her own family said htat she just wanted to have a baby. then a year later she broke it off with him. He had to visit his daughter at the mothers house who lived with her parents. he asked to take his daughter but his ex refused. so he just continued to visit at the mothers untill his daughter was 5 then we were finally able to bring her to our house. every thing was good for a while untill I had a baby we have been married for 4 years and together about 7 his daughter is now 8. Now she doesnt even call him dad she calls her step dad dad and is afraid to make him mad. they dont want her coming to our house but we think that it is important to be consistant this past summer we took her to court and have all the state guided visitation. her mom doesnt want him to be in the picture. help

2007-09-03 08:26:41 · 5 answers · asked by Amie 2

My brother and i are constantly fighting. He is younger than i am, will it get better when we are older??

2007-09-03 08:19:28 · 16 answers · asked by qteepatutee08 3

like she goes on for hours if one thing is on the floor--not even a mess--and she does it constantly and its getting on my nerves, like she yells at my dad for everything that goes wrong like everything is his fault.

2007-09-03 08:09:49 · 14 answers · asked by me,myselfand,i 1

sign of low selfestem ? And how do I get myself to feel comfortable around people who make me feel like that?. I use to not show up for family events. but now I do because I feel everyones getting up there in age. but not the whole family is like that. Sometimes I wonder if its all in my head or not? its just so hard to explain I need advice if anybody could figure this out.lol

2007-09-03 06:51:46 · 10 answers · asked by jennifer 1

my stepdaughter calls me dad. she wants to come live with me she is 10yrs old. i lost her in a lds controled court room thats utah right. now she been calling wanting me to help her get away from her grampa. this time she said he has been touching her down there. before she call would tell me the things that dex did to her. like making her loose wait. when she was already skiny, taking her out of the school she was in and moving her to the school were he works in a nether city to keep a better eye on her.take pics of her in her room when he was gone. that and much more the price name has power in the lds church so i guess that makes him untouchable. i call the police dfs and nuthing happens she dont want to live with them. his own daughter wont let him closes to her kids. what can i do or if you know someone that can help send them this Question.

stepdad that cant do anything to make his little girls life better.

2007-09-03 06:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by thewiseman 2

When you have a parent type that just happens to have the personality of those that like to make everything about them. How it affects THEM, makes THEM feel.....
Essentially just making it worse because when you get into an argument with your sibling you already feel a little bad wether you were right or wrong, and then your parent, because they HAVE TO get involved, basically puts salt on the wound. Your not children anymore, your parents don't need to intervene. Plus on top of it all THEY can't even drop it, the parent has to call "just to talk" about what happend. And then call again the next day for same thing. I mean seriously what happend happend. It was just an argument not anthing terrribly serious like a damn fistfight or anything like that. THEY just want to continue talking about it so they can be involved because they are THAT co-dependent. Can anybody else relate? I mean, what can you tell them to back off without hurting THEIR feelings?

2007-09-03 06:03:36 · 4 answers · asked by adriennemulnix 1

my mom ran away from me becuz i threw at glass at her =(
my dad has also gone ran away from my mom
i hate my life is it worth livin

2007-09-03 05:40:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently graduated from college, and now my stepmom is graduating, too, in a couple of months.
She and my dad never even sent a card for my graduation, yet they expect me to fly across the country for her commencement ceremony.
I told him that it hurt me, and he still expects me to go.
I don't want to be spiteful, but I cannot justify spending money that I don't have, and taking unpaid time off work, to celebrate her special time, when my special time wasn't even acknowledged by them.
Am I being witchy?

2007-09-03 05:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK Im from the north and my bf is from the south and his sister tells him to break up with me becuz she says all northerners are contaminated with STDS.. wtf.. she keeps going on calling me a yankee... wtf im from the WEST not Newyork.. Why is she doing this..?

2007-09-03 04:48:41 · 18 answers · asked by omg rain is wet 2

isnt secondary uniform expensive its cost me 200ish pounds !

2007-09-03 04:41:59 · 29 answers · asked by suzie 3

i love my brother but he just had a son that in my opinion does not remotely look like him or any of us......his girlfriend is a druguser and so is he.....i want to confront them but ifeel it is not right to ask......but the thought keeps eating at me..what should i do ?

2007-09-03 04:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Ray 2

Also, we have already had the electricity cut off once and it is due to be cut off again if the bill is not paid. Yet they blow and go like there is no tomorrow! I don't think my daughter knows the seriousness of the situation, but I don't know if I should tell her or mind my own business.

2007-09-03 03:02:52 · 12 answers · asked by Gasbag 6

I own a house in my name only. My wife and I own our own house outright. In the house that I own lives my step-daughter, her husband and 2 kids. My step daughter wants to buy the house. The house is valued between £105-115k. My asking price was £95k because they have lived in the house, paying a rent that covered the mortgage, for 7 years. I bought the house for £37k. They can only afford a mortgage of £75k, which is 3.5xhis salary.should I tell them they can have the house for £75k or should I stick to my £95k? There are other children and step children in the family. Should they be consulted as to the decision to sell or not to sell? HELP!

2007-09-03 02:27:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Someone told me if I drink (I'm 16) and pretend someone else gave it to me. . .that someone else will get in trouble and not me?? The beer belongs to this annoying guy I live with and he's an alcoholic who leaves the booze accessible to me. . .

2007-09-02 21:37:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u trust step mom ? how do she behave , , because i dont know about the really moms love from my birth still my death

2007-09-02 21:35:41 · 5 answers · asked by sami w 1

my daughter has ADD and will not take any type of responsibility at all. it as if things said go in one ear and out the other. @ one time she was supposed to be on meds, but that couldn't even be gotten down her throat! she'd hide it or cheek it. any suggestions? i'm about at the end of my rope

2007-09-02 20:59:43 · 7 answers · asked by vicki m 2

my idiot sister just told her guy friend that her my brother and me r alone she's and idiot who nose what could hapen he might bring some of his friends over and rob us or something.god is she and idiot.what should i do now?????????/how do i tell her that she has endangered me and my brother1!!!!!!

2007-09-02 18:45:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am still not at peace with not going back to my ex-husband despite the fact that he was controlling and verbally mean. He also micromanaged all issues in the house.

I feel sad when I see other intact families or couples and wonder where I went wrong.

I feel that I am ruining my 15 year old daughter's life since she is used to her father and grandmother and their way of life. She lived with them from the age of 10 to 15.

He moved to another state and wanted us to start over together in a new town.

I wish for her sake that I could have adjusted to his ways and made things work.

I feel sad that my daughter has to now adjust to a new school and living environment.

If she would have been with her Dad, she would have had at least one familiar person in her life.

I see my brother and feel that he does set limits and controls his wife in some ways. Maybe all men are controlling in some ways or another and the problems was me?

2007-09-02 17:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

Every since I had my son, everyone has been coming out of their mouth telling me what I should do and how I should do things. But what really pisses me off is these were the exact people who were telling me not to have my son, but now they think they know everything. They go out and blow money on him, but as soon as I get ready to buy him something in their words, "That's a waste don't buy that." And then everyone feels like they can take care of him better than me, when I take care of him, as soon as anyone comes around (especially MIL and Dad) they want him ASAP and if he cries they feel they can remedy it better than me. So I had enough and I went off on my dad today b/c as soon as my son started crying, he came running to take him from me saying, I've raised more kids than you. I repeatedly told him I could handle it, but he wouldn't back off, so I just straight out said NO and he went away saying well I was just trying to help.Was I too harsh?
More info below......

2007-09-02 17:01:19 · 18 answers · asked by jzmom327 2

have you ever roared with laughter at some of the totally innocent things kids come out with?

2007-09-02 15:48:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

The link to my last question is here (other account) http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArJUZlvZmhfzHIzLj2Ggji_sy6IX?qid=20070816222826AABBrCV
Honestly, I really do need help and I'm kind of afraid to talk to a councilor about my situation because I might end up somewhere that I don't want to , I might lose everything, etc. Anyways, I would greatly appreciate an answer to this, because it will basically lead into a result that can change my life. So here's the situation:

Ever since I was two, my mom has wanted to move out with me so we could escape from my dad. Not only does he verbally abuse us and is he an alcoholic, but he also most likely has brain issues....like today he admitted to me out of the blue that he enjoys be antisocial...I was asking him why he refuses to take me to the mall and barely takes me shopping; not only because he's self-centered and usually drunk, but also because he hates being around people. The way he talks, it sounds like he hates EVERYONE....

2007-09-02 15:23:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's one year older than me, but everyone calls me by her name. I got my hair highlighted, but it feels like people mistake me for her even MORE.

2007-09-02 15:16:48 · 7 answers · asked by Kim D 2

Have a son who just turned 12. His Dad just bought him a cell phone for his birthday (we are currently going thru a divorce). They (our son and his dad) have been playing Final Fantasy XI
his dad gave these people who they have been playing with (it's supposedly a married couple) our son's cell phone number and I'm kinda pissed about it. Should I be?

2007-09-02 15:07:21 · 9 answers · asked by rhonda c 2

She is nine years old, and i hate her. What can i do to get her to stop acting like a brat?

2007-09-02 14:52:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

out of town and my husband told him where he was going and his brother ask who was going with him and he told him i was. if the brother didn't care to go then why does it matter who he was going with.

2007-09-02 14:49:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is serious, it is a long story. About 2 and half weeks ago there was a bad car accedent just up the highway from my home. Some drunken driver crashed his car at an intersection, killing his 13 year old daughter and 17 year old nephew. He survived, but committed suicide a week later in prison (for vehicular homicide). Now she ( the daughter) was a good friend of my 15 year old niece. And now just 5 days ago my nieces boyfriends sister (whom was also her good friend) was also killed when she crashed her car into a tree. She (my niece) was so upset she's been crying ever since and hasn't gone to school. AND NOW just 2 days ago a 12 year old boy she knew was killed when he accendently shot himself trying to unload a riffle. My niece is a total wreck now because "All her friends are dying!". I'm scared for her because about a month ago I had a dream that SHE died, and I don't know if it could be an omen or something.

2007-09-02 14:33:22 · 9 answers · asked by Riley 3