Family - September 2007

So I was at a resturant and these siblings were just joking around and they seem too close. Too happy and snuggly. To me i find it disgusting.

this was a brother and sister they are in their teens.

2007-09-14 18:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by 2nd Commander 1

i hate my family....all they do is talk about ppl behind their backs and i just think that they are negative people who are very judgemental! i was wondering when i have children should i let my family be a part of their lives? i have no brothers or sisters so im mainly talking about my mother and father. my mother is EXTREMELY emotionally abusive and my father just goes along with it. i'm concerned. i really want my future babies to have a positive life and i dont want them to be around my family. any advice?

2007-09-14 18:29:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

sister was murdered and he showed up at the funeral, i was in total shock he had the insensitivity to do that, and he did it again at my brother's funeral. what can i do to make this snake understand , it is totally indecent for him to do this to me, am i wrong to feel this way after so many years. i called the rape crisis center and they told me "im stewing in it, and i need to let it go!" i swear, that was her exact words!

2007-09-14 18:26:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-14 18:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by MBA-MsBadAss 3

My girlfriend and I was doing homework yesterday and watching my baby brother also at the same time. All thru the time were watching him I was constanty asking him to let me know if he has to go potty he said no. Well he had an accident I kind of lost my cool I had my girlfriend put a diaper on him like a punishment it didn't go over to well with my mother when she walked in the door. Do you think I was justified doing that or I overreacted a little bit?
He is 3 and half years old.

2007-09-14 18:05:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

13 years ago, my life was changed forever.
I remember the day you were born like it was yesterday.
Every day since, my heart has been filled with so much love for you, that sometimes I think it will explode.
I’ve watched you mature into an independent, creative, and amazing person, and for that, I am proud and happy.
For all of your life, you and I have had an amazing relationship that has given me more joy and happiness than I could ever deserve.
But recently, you and I seem to have drifted apart.
You’ve made it abundantly clear to me, in many ways, that you don’t like me very much.
Whatever the reasons, be it my quick temper, my desire to teach you responsibility, or our need to save money wherever possible, I want you to know that you can get mad at me, you can hate me, but I will always try to do what I think is the right thing for you.
I know that you have reached an age where being cool in the eyes of your friends seems to be the most important thing. I was a 13 year old boy once, and I felt the exact same way. However, looking back on it, I can tell you truthfully, that it’s actually the least important.
One of my greatest fears is that you will make some of the same mistakes that I did. I was lucky to have survived them. But I don’t want you to ever depend on luck. I want you to always depend on your intellect, your heart, and your faith in yourself. I KNOW that you have a good head on your shoulders, and that if you are ever in a situation that requires you to choose right from wrong that you’ll make the right choice.
Son, I miss laughing with you.
I miss your ideas, and your jokes.
I miss the feeling of knowing that you’re excited to see me.
And I can’t even begin to describe how much I miss your love.
I want you to know that you can always talk to me.
I want you to know that I love you more than life, or anything in it.
And no matter what,
I always will.


Dad

2007-09-14 17:41:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My little brother, age 3, left his grandfather's house on Martha's Vineyard, crossed a busy street, and walked about .5 miles down the sidewalk until stopped by somebody who called the police. Is this normal for a child? He is adopted from Guatemala, but that was when he was a tiny baby. We live in Vermont. We found him after searching the entire house, yard, neighbors yard, asked the neighbors, checked our beach, went down the driveway, saw the PD and went to find him talking to a cop.

2007-09-14 16:00:58 · 12 answers · asked by imavter 2

My father is a military man and he's a bit overprotective. I cannot seem to enjoy my single life. I know he's just trying to protect me but I'm too old for that. To be honest, I've never been into a bar or partying with my friends at night. He's strict when it comes to time. I love my father so much but I'm afraid to tell him that I have my own life.

2007-09-14 15:56:37 · 8 answers · asked by psyche leah 2

the other day i was at my momals house my cousin Dustin AND my cousin's brother Junior both when they eat the smack their mouth it's like a pig a eating, he drinks his water like a cat or a dog, he eats his lolly pops like a horse eating corn on a cob, i mean he wont shut his mouth and eat he spins gravels on our new 2004 ford mustang red, that we just bought he spins the gravels on our mustang with his 1998 honda 4-Wheeler but go to this web site to see the car we just bought it new 9/10/07 now it has a big dent on one side of the car it looks awful. I smacked my cousin twice in i guess in a couple hours please view the picture of the mustang

I'll apreeciate it. -> http://www.sspmustang.org/images/Silver_Springs_FL_2004_12.JPG

2007-09-14 15:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hes usually really nice but today he was psycho, like I've seen him mad before but he has never called me names or hit me, and today he beat the hell out of me and called me fag and gay so much. He said he had neough of my sh*t and it was time to die. I barely escaped. anyways what is the best way to fight him out?

2007-09-14 15:46:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

can someone out there give me some pointers on to how to work the system.
I am a disabled American, currently living in south east Asia, have a wife and two minor children, every time I approach soc sec to get benefits for my children and survivor benefits for my wife, I am being told, I need to bring my family to america first.
so I am bringing my family to america, problem is my soc sec income is only $1300 per month, and I need to apply for public assistance right away, can anyone give me some pointers as to what to expect, what my rights are, I am relocating to Stockton Cal.

2007-09-14 15:40:31 · 2 answers · asked by nebula 6

i have ocd and it is more mentally than physically and i cant control it. i have this problem where i cant let things go and the smallest things bother me so i told my family and they say oh you dont have it even though i have the physical signs too so today my sister was sitting on the table and she gave me this rude comment and i told her that you know that bothers me can you stop and she just kept arguing and arguing and my mom and dad started yelling at me and they dont even acknoledge why

2007-09-14 15:35:41 · 5 answers · asked by go_pali 2

My mother constantly worries and gets sad that her 4 children do not get married (we are in our beginning 40s.) All of her friends' children have gotten married or divorced and she feels sad when she goes to weddings or will NOT hear of weddings or talk of engagements unless it's her own. Do all mothers worry like this?

2007-09-14 15:22:51 · 3 answers · asked by DREENA 2

i dont want my cousins and aunt to move in because we would have to get rid of my cats? i feel awful not wanting them to live with me, but i cant imagine not having my cats. but they wouldnt move in until next summer, so i have time with my cats if they do.

2007-09-14 15:12:03 · 15 answers · asked by Q 2

I sent an email with pictures and info to an agency I researched in a nearby city (I live in Wisconsin). They told me to call and they would give me an appointment. I told my mom about it and at first she sounded excited but then all of a sudden she said it was a 'waste of time' and that unless 'I'm america's next top model its useless, and if you are, you should try out for that!" She started rambling about applying to Elite in NY (I have no experience or even a portfolio and she expects me to go from that to some supermodel in NY???). I don't understand! She'd rather have me been in Robert Powers Modeling School spending thousands of dollars for uselessness. I really want to go see this agency but no way can I do it without her support.

2007-09-14 15:00:18 · 2 answers · asked by SweetNsour 1

My cusins are twin girls a year older then me soon to be 15. They are a little deffrent so they don't acrt like most teenagers, They had some hard homelifes somtimes. They are in modling classes wich I think is cool but I'm not jelous but I don't like how they brag to me about it. They said somone told them they are going to be famous famous modles one day. And Tomorrow they are going 3 hours away from here becuase the siad they are getting a job interveiw thing to be in targert, fred myer, magizines for halloween and Chirstmas. They said that she liked our pictures, and I think we will get the job, Then one said I can't wait tell we are world wide. This makes me feel like I'm nothing abd It kind of herts my feelings some times. But are all twins cut out for hollywood to be like te olsens, Dylan and Cole sprose, and Tia and Tamara Mallorey (sp?) Is it really that easy to be come a child famous model just like that? I think they do it on pourpse you can tell my the way they say it.

2007-09-14 14:58:50 · 1 answers · asked by ? 5

My brother plays Conquer, Maplestory, and Dragonfable. When we've asked him to get off, we've had to yell at him to get off. When he finally got off, he literally cried with tears streaming down his face because he couldn't finish a quest. We did not hit him. He slams the door and acts all sulky and sometimes he locks himself up in his room. As soon as he gets up in the morning, he goes on the computer. As soon as he gets back from school, its back on the computer. I don't get much time, and he spends about 5 hours everyday. When it's just me, and Itell him to get off, he screams and hits me. And somehow he has more strength than I do. When he eats his snack, he eats it while playing. I've given up on fighting with him, but I don't just want to let this go on. He's spoiled, and he whines a lot, whines way too much, and complains about just about anything I'm wondering if this is normal for a 12 year old boy?
Mind you, we still do love each other.
Sorry for the long question, folks

2007-09-14 14:56:23 · 4 answers · asked by ? 4

I am 15. I was in a play lasted about 4.5 months I made a close friend at the play She is 33 She invited me to go on a week-long trip with her back to her hometown which is 340 miles away because for her bday she got tickets to see a big musical there We were also going to go to theme parks, etc and were going to stay at her parent's house She said my parents could talk to her or her parents as much as they'd need to, they could have as much information as they needed I asked my parents, telling them all this About 3 days they told me no but their reason was that they wouldn't be being responsible parents if something happened to me and that they didn't know her well enough but she said she'd do whatever they needed her to do to get to know her and I told them that. I have good judgment, I'm a smart kid, shouldn't that count for anything? Was I totally out-of-line asking? Is there any way I could get them to change their minds? They are so convinced something is going to happen to me.

2007-09-14 14:10:30 · 3 answers · asked by person 1

What do you do when its the point that you want to do something stupid? My parents are real bad. I'm 15 turning 16. And im still not allowed to go out w/ friends by myself. Date, go to games, be with my friends or sometimes cousins. I mostly spend my time at home since thats the only place. I can never do anything that i ever want to do. It's so hard for me to get my way. Sometimes i even stay home alone while they go out. I try talking to them but it never works. I really need someones help. If someone has it worse out there, sorry. =(

2007-09-14 14:03:09 · 7 answers · asked by bANAnaboooty 1

this is serious.

2007-09-14 13:56:57 · 8 answers · asked by hello darlings 1

i hate it!! i cant go out to the football game today and i have to babysit because my mom wants to go out. thats soo not fair shes too old to go out. and i cant stay home everybody drives me crazy! =/

2007-09-14 13:52:01 · 3 answers · asked by awesome_ohh 1

I'm living in California with my boyfriend and his family. We have a 9 month old son. The conditions here are pretty bad. His nephew lives here and destroys all of my stuff. For example, he ****** up my cords to my DVD player doing a wrestling move. His dog shits all over the living room, so I can't let the baby play out there. Our room is extremely small, so the baby doesn't have much room in there. I don't have a babysitter, so I can't work. If I move to Oregon with my parents, I can get on section 8 and have my family babysit while I'm at work. I could go back to school, too. The only problem is that my boyfriend, the baby's father refuses to move there. He also says that if I go, and I'm there too long that he will lose interest. I’ve explained to him that Oregon isn't where I want to live forever, and that I only want to go there for two or three years to get on my feet, and then we can move back to Cali. I don't care about staying with him, but I don't want my son to grow up without a dad. He has assured me that will happen if I leave.

2007-09-14 13:49:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

k so im sneaking out to a guys friends house tonight what are some tips so i dont get caught

2007-09-14 13:29:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is stressed out and it's partially my fault. Im always arguing with my brother. Im not anymore but I was. my little brother gives my mom an attitude almost every day and my dad is REALLY stressing my mom out. Please help me. I don't want my family to split up. I want them to stay together. I am only 15 how can i help

2007-09-14 12:45:34 · 34 answers · asked by candyheart_4_ever 2

mymoms being a ***** and wont let me do anything

2007-09-14 12:36:27 · 35 answers · asked by Lover Girl 1

I am 14..my mom and i have just moved........we moved to be with my dad and the rest of our family..me and her are still not living with my dad.but we will in the next month or so? But the only way for my mom to cope is with alcohol...and its horrible...she drinks a whole bottle of vodka everyday.....(i know this because i know where she hides it and I look) apparently she stays in bad all day....when i get home from school thats where she is....about 30 minutes ago I went and told her about how i know...and she just went crazy..she gave me the phone told me to call my dad..that she does not want me anymore...what do i do???

2007-09-14 12:14:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mother called a family meeting today and told me and my 3 other brothers that my little sister, was pregnant, and she's only 14, her boyfriend and her have been going out for 2 or 3 years but I really didnt think it was that serious, I'm 15 and never had a b/f b4 and she's gonna have a baby, she's a sl*t I think and I just think thats what she is, my mom told us to be nice and not to judge her that sometimes stuff like that happens but I'm angry thats disgusting and disturbing. I'm not ready to be an aunt and right now I hate my sister she's an idiot, I cant even look at her the same way everytime I do I feel disgusting just looking at her what do I do

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14 minutes ago
I used to care about her we used to be best friends but by her doing this it just ruined it, shes a child and needs to be kept in a childs place I am definitley not jelous that she has a boyfriend, because she also is going to have a baby and the reason I dont is b/c i choose not too I have been asked out if u must know, but i said no Im focusing on my school work and Im going to get good grades and u know what Im not going to make excuses for her Im not going to feel bad what if she hadnt ended up being prg and we just found out u guys wld be singing a different tune so please dont tell me Im jelous

6 minutes ago
I actually plan to go to college and have a life of my own, I dont even want to talk to her which I havent and I never do I know I'll get over it but its just the thought of it (I will love th child an I will never let anyhting bad happpen to it I know its not his/her fault its my idiotic sisters

2007-09-14 10:18:08 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my partner for 3yrs & now due our 2nd baby.
we argue alot as his ex causes us alot of stress, they have a 4 yr old daughter together. He tells me i cant go out,& gets funny with me should i confront him or say the wrong thing or say something he doesnt like. Its like i have to stay quiet & not have an opinion.
He lives of my daughters maintenence, hes lost his job & doesnt support us.
To make things worse our baby is due anyday, and despite my pains and pre-labour symptoms he has still left me to go on a mates stag do 50 miles away. hes there for 2 nights.he lost his phone and his mates phone is dead and he left me with no contact should the baby come. when we did speak he swore and shouted at me cos i questioned him about where his phone was.
Hes made sure i have no friends or family.
Hes making me feel so alone & isolated, and im scared of him.
I know no different, is this normal, if not what should it be like? what do i do, please help x

2007-09-14 10:09:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 25, and have been in a few relationships. A few months ago, I slept with my brother's wife. He found out and gave me a black eye, which I reported to the police. My mom isn't speaking to him because she knows about the black eye, but not the affair. What should I do?

2007-09-14 09:30:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

He treats me like sh!t. He's always trying to hurt me someway. Like today i got locked out of the house so i rang the doorbell, he opened the door a little and said "F*ck you fat piece of sh*t" and hit me with the door. I didn't get in till like ten minutes ago. Hes been a prick from as long as i can remember, he's 17, only one year older than me. My mom doesn't care, shes to afraid of him to do anything. He's a big pot head, everyone knows and my mom just feeds him money for his habbit. He's stole money out my purse numorous times. I know for a fact he's in a gang, because i went snooping in his room a while back and he had a gun in his boxer droor, and a knife in his bathroom. Im to scared to do anything because wth, i might get killed. He has a really bad temper and no one will get close enough to talk to him. He got arrested last year for trying to go after my dad, and we still dont know why. What do i do? Im kinda scared being in my own house.

2007-09-14 09:16:28 · 3 answers · asked by xorenée 7