Family - September 2007

Lately he started calling me mean names. He tells me to shutup and basically take all his insults. He knows he hurts me but he does it on purpose. I just dont know why he hates me so much. He called me ugly and stupid. He tells me that I am nothing! and to get a life ... I got to work crying and at the same time i was emabrassed because everybody at the office saw my eyes full of tears.Naw I've been ignoring and avoiding seeing my brother for 2 days. We live in the same apartament. What should I do ? move out? kill myself ?
I know I shouldnt feen this way , but if somebody from your own family would make fun of you and try to bring you down.. how would you feel?

2007-09-15 15:12:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Both my parents (even though they are divorced) are Protestant and I am converting to Catholicism. PLEASE! When replying to this, don't rag on Catholicism or Christianity...

Anyways, my mom and I recently had a big arguement, and she has decided she is coming out to my place (she is flying out here next weekend) to discuss it with me and meet my boyfriend who is Catholic. She believes I am converting because of him. (which I am NOT)

I know I can't convince her that Catholicism is a good thing, but how can I manage being around her, and letting her meet my boyfriend, when she is so bitter and nasty about it? Any tips on dealing with it?

2007-09-15 15:01:58 · 5 answers · asked by Treasa 5

im 14 and by state of law i can work with a work permit.my mom won't let me have one.what should i do.

should i ignore her and hate her till she gives me one?

2007-09-15 15:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is going out with a real scumbag felon. I lent her money several months ago and she has yet to pay me back. What I am pissed off about is she drove, because this piece of .... doesn't have a license, to NJ to gamble and lost $4000. I have a family and was under the impression that I was to be paid back. I think this person broke parole. I want to contact the PA parole department. What do you think?

Also, if she admits that she is doing wrong by seeing this person and she moved out THREE times, how long do you all think this BS will last. It is upsetting me, MY father, and our entire family despises this person and her for degrading our name.

2007-09-15 14:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by cappatown23 3

My sis ndI got into a huge fight last nite.Shes the type of person that will come forward and say sorry first, but ive found that her apologies mean nothing. she says a lot of hurtful things repeatedly and she never learns anything from her mistakes(she'll never admit that she's wrong)Anyways a lot of the things she was sayin to me was about guys/relationships and how i am completely selfish/don't listen to her problems, and i always talk abotu myself. i know i dont', becuz i try to lisen to a lot of what she says..and all i do is giv her advice nd try to relate, isn't that was most normal people do? i giv her real advice, but i know she just wants me to act a punchin bag she can vent to but that gets overwhelming and annoying sometimes cuz i have my own problems to deal with if she can't take critism, y does she ask? now, i don't noe wut 2 do because i don't want her to depreciate me lik that if she at least cant apreciate me. i dont want her 2vent on me anymore, but sheIS my sis.

2007-09-15 14:57:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 14:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were without a car for years, catching bus and bumming ride for years, even walking home in the dark sometimes, and mum wasn't even trying to help you get a car, then later on, you are finally in a position where you can get your OWN car and don't worry about nobody, but mum is completely against you getting your car for stupid reasons, while your dad was actually taking you to car lots to look around, would you disobey your mother and get a car anyway? I'm a 22 year old man and I think I should do what I want with my own hard earned money. I NEED a car. I should be able to make my own decisions. What would you do though? Make her stop you from getting your car, or get the car anyway?

2007-09-15 14:23:21 · 7 answers · asked by Ryder 1

Like I will talk to anyone who needs someone to talk to or let someone use my cell phone. My mom says I should not trust peole so easy she thinks am going to b raped or hurt really bad, Cuz I hate being mean. I told her that is not going to happen she just keeps saying that she wants me to b mean sometimes cuz she said I might have to be mean to be safe what goes she mean?

2007-09-15 14:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i get 40$ every 2 weeks.

should i get magazines, clothes, ect ect or what?????

2007-09-15 13:34:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

All of this night time activity is getting to be way too much.

2007-09-15 13:32:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 13:06:12 · 13 answers · asked by tigerashes 2

It doesn't make sense to me, b/c he's a total sexist perv at the same time. He has no respect for women at all, he even said that all my stepmom should do is cook & clean. And lose weight. Anyways, he would spy on me when I'm talking to people or on the phone and he just woudn't leave me alone.When we watched a movie, my dad would send me out of the room even if it's just a kissing scene, and I wasnt that young. My brother couldve seen it at a younger age. I had to put up with all of this my whole life, and he would treat my brother so much better. When my brother got me mad, my dad yelled at me or told my brother "dont worry, she'll get over it, shes just a girl." He would also treat me as if I'm an idiot and make fun of me and laughed when my brother did too. But now, I have to hide myself from him, because of the frustruation this has caused me. I dress like a boy around him and act as if I'm gay/transgendered. I don't think I could ever have a good relationship with him now.

2007-09-15 13:02:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-15 12:38:02 · 18 answers · asked by emseearefan 2

that i need glasses... but we cant afford to get them, i even plan on buying them myself but im trying to save my money for my family, just in case my mom needs to borrow my money.
i just want glasses that will help me see far.
im scared to tell my mom i need glasses because i dont want her to worry about something else she has to pay for.
but i feel my eyes are starting to hurt my grades because they have been getting worse.
what should i do?
i have the money for the glasses but i want to save my money for food, clothes anything else.
my family is broke.
should i tell my mom i need glasses and tell her ill pay for them?

2007-09-15 12:36:56 · 15 answers · asked by ??? 2

ok here's what is going on, this may sound stupid to you but it's really aggrivating for me:
i might go to the The Academy Is... concert with my friends, and i think i must have said it in front of my brothers and sister or something and they are always callling me "emo" because they think The Academy Is... is an emo band, and it's not! i hate labeling, and my family keeps labeling me JUST because of the music i like! and they think fall out boy is emo, seriously, they have labeling issues. and on top of all this, the biggest stress of them all which i am constantly worrying about and it's more important than everything else, my grandma is sick of cancer in the hospital practically dieing! i really cant' take this anymore, my family just doesn't think about how i feel about my grandma, and they just keep annoying me like it's their hobby! i do visit my grandma very often, and i always tell her that i love her and i do everything i can for her, but i feel like i'm not doing enough...

2007-09-15 12:27:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sister is 15 and im 17, were always fighting, sometimes it can get physical. I just want us to get along, and be best freinds. Im afraid that were going to grow up, and not ever talk, and i don't want that. I really hate fighting with her and it makes my mom upset. And i try to talk to her but she wont and if we do it always ends up in the end with us fighting. Help!!!

2007-09-15 12:23:54 · 7 answers · asked by Mama_Lime 1

I don't know if I'm going to work out in my first foster home becuase I thnk they are looking for someone who is perfect and I am not like that and I am tired of being undercover. This foster home doesn't know the real me at all and they seen me smoking and I think they hate me now. But thats one of my problems. I try to tell people about me and smoking but I just can't its to hard. Around these people I feel all waird now. Please someone help me out somehow

2007-09-15 11:36:02 · 5 answers · asked by bloodyrose91 1

This is for emotional abuse. Ok. well it used to be physical abuse until my mom and i left my step-dad. but then she let him move back. now he emotionally abuses me. My mom and i don't know where to move because we don't have a lot of money. We cant move back with my aunt because we already lived there the first time we left my step-dad. What are we to do?

2007-09-15 11:31:45 · 20 answers · asked by Bowchickawowwoww 3

I'm 21 and I'm finally able to move out of my mother's house. From that moment on, she became increasingly irritated with me. She says mean things, barges in on me and torments me with a smile. I know I'm not perfect but she's acting like I'm nothing more than an annoying servant to her. It's gotten to the point where she drills on me until I burst into tears and then yells at me for crying. I even asked her for a hug and she said no because she's irritated and it's not going to change. I don't know what to do, I'm feeling suicidal...does my mom hate me?

2007-09-15 11:03:23 · 25 answers · asked by tea_green22 2

my dads away with work and my mums out until 2mora night. i've got 2 look after my lil sister. she's 14. shes not allowed 2 leave the house now because shes on tag and has got a police curfew. i wanna go and see a few mates. do u think it would ok for me 2 leave her in the house on her own 4 an hour? or would that be irresponsible and not very nice? i think it would be ok. she's not exactly a lil kid so nothing could happen 2 her and shes alright about it but i'm still not sure. i feel like i shouldnt f u c k off out and leave her. i dno why.

2007-09-15 11:00:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well my mom asked me to find some clothes of mine to let my sister wear. the reason is because my sister has gained a lot of weight from drinking and her breast implants. and she smokes terribly and i really would not want all that smoke smell on my clothes. i said no and that none of my stuff would fit. but then again don't forget that she is 21 and i am 12! its not my job to deal with this. am i right?

2007-09-15 10:43:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How often do you take your family out to eat?

Do you eat at fast food or a nice place?

Do you spend alot on going out to eat?

Do you go to the movies alot?

Or are you stuck at home all the time because it's expensive to go out? What do you do at home?

2007-09-15 10:30:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you actually put it on the holder properly and not just rest the roll on top of the holder, and then put the empty tube in the bin and not leave it on the toilet cystern behind?

2007-09-15 10:17:50 · 25 answers · asked by Lisa T 6

You say i am miserable to be around,
that i act like a total clown.
you always end up putting me down.
But maybe i just want to be found.

I want to pursue my dream...
for when i get to be fourty-three,
I won't be like you, way extreme,
I will just be...well just Me.

You tell me I am a bad kid.
And everything i do, you forbid,
For all of the times i hid,
and all of the things you did

Everything you say ends up in a scream.
You say, "it's a done deal, a guarantee",
Then it comes back to haunt me in my dream.
You are interfearing with who i want to be, just me.

2007-09-15 09:01:47 · 2 answers · asked by Oh yes...It is Macie!! 1

I HATE it. I just had this happen to me and it totaly put me in a HORRIBLE mood. I had just got my 2 year old daughter to take a nap cause she was SO grouchy. then my sister in law and nephew came over. I told them to be quite that it was difficult to get her in bed and what does my nephew who is 9 do... he goes in my sons room and starts pulling toys out of his toy box and throwing them on the floor. So my daughter wakes up. My husband had just gotten home from work 10min before they arrived on top of it all so i hadn't even been able to see him. I was so pissed now my husband is mad cause i was pissed and yelled at him cause he went to take a nap. Kinda uncalled for i shouldn't have yelled at him but god i just got her to bed and now had to deal with her when she was cranky BY myself AGAIN cause HIS nephew decided to be disrespectfull and wake her up. This is just this time but other times i still HATE when people just show up.

2007-09-15 08:58:10 · 13 answers · asked by Kacey D 3

Ok I tured 14 on september 11, and my sister is turning 17 in October. So theres three year deffrence, She is a totall b**** to me and my parents. It makes me sad, like she just said god I hate that you were ever my sister, and shes saying f*** u to me, and go to hell,and I make her life suck. She is really mean to my mom also. Like we just went to a coffee shop to get a drink. And when we got back she started screaming at my mom for not geting her a tea. And she was in the shower and didn't even ask. My moms was like sorry I didn't know, do you want to drive down there? And shes like yea right I can't go like this I hate you! She is also mean to my dad. I wish I could take a vaction with just them and not her just to get away, but then she would start b*******, What should I do? I'm kind of deppresed.

2007-09-15 08:50:41 · 3 answers · asked by ? 5

Since there are millions of unmarried teen-age prenancies and so many children that are abused and abandoned, don't you think it would be smarter to have birth control at or near the time of birth and then have it removed when they are adult enough to prove they could be loving, capable parents?

2007-09-15 08:47:55 · 7 answers · asked by LAL 5

Ok so I am kind heavy...but I am like not really really fat...I have meat on me. And my uncle constantly watches whatever I eat when I am around him and he is fatter than me. My aunt calls me a lardass all the time. And like whenever I wear something that looks nice on me...like its not tight my grandmother says something like I have a big butt...So it gets on my nerves and I am losing weight but it takes time and also they just don't look in the mirror at all...I get stressed when around them...what do i do?

2007-09-15 08:42:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum is always on my sister's side even when she's wrong. I hate my sister, and i always have. She's 12 and i'm 14. She thinks she's older, but she acts in a really childish way that i cant stand!! Seriously, she thinks she's like 15, but acts as if she was 9. I'm 14, and always annoyed by her, she loves annoying me, even though sometimes she can be a little nice. My mum thinks she's an angel, and no matter what she does to me (many times she punched me, stole my stuff, etc) she's always on her side. Like today for example, she was blaming me of stealing 'something', and i was supposed to know what this 'something was! Of course i didn't touch her stuff, i dont even dare to go to her room. I then answered: no i didn't stop blaming me for everything! and my mum was mad at me for being rude!!! It doesn't make sense and it's unfair. I hate them both and i hate my family. All my mum worrys about is being perfect, she wants us to be 'the perfect family with no problems at all' which is

2007-09-15 08:37:45 · 10 answers · asked by . 3

2007-09-15 08:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by nicky j 1