Family - September 2007

ok so i have this boyfriend he is 17 and he asked me to marry him! but im 4 years younger than him. i love him to death and i know he loves me too! hes really kind and sweet to me but the thing that bothers me the most is he cant speak english he can only speak spanish! i can speak spanish but i hate having to talk to him in spanish i wish he could speak english. anyways he asked me to marry him and i dont know what to do i need your help please!!!!!

2007-09-16 13:40:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has 2 older children that proved to be his. She holds the younger child (the 3rd one, not his) over his head as a reward to see her. He wants to adopt her but, she won't let him and still can't find her real dad... She has just said he will never see her again. She also kept they kids in a homeless shelter the other night because her and the boyfriend were fighting. He is trying for full custody but that means he only gets 2 kids not 3... :(

2007-09-16 13:37:13 · 6 answers · asked by brandy 1

My sister & my mum didn't speak as she chose to stay with a man that abused her kids . My mum died and i supported my sister through her guilt. I encouraged the family to bring her back into their lives, i was by her side when she left her man.
I helped my dad get his youngest daughter back.
I then found out that my dad wasn't my biologial father and everything changed.
My sister was on her feet by this time, she became very cocky & self assured. I was now weak with the shock & while i was down my sister hooked up with my kids dad just to top me off!
I split with my childrens dad years before, we had remained very close. I felt proud that we had a good friendship. Even though we both had relationships on and off, we never let it get in the way of our kids.
We always did things as a family.
My daughter was bullied by my sisters daughter at school over her dad and she's now left. Her dad did nothing about it. Why is he letting this happen? Why did my sister ruin what we had?

2007-09-16 13:32:48 · 25 answers · asked by Pink Angel 2

Many children do not know their father's name due to some reason or the other . How will they live in this world. How will they come to know the real father and live the rest of their life happily.

2007-09-16 13:12:01 · 15 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

I've been looking for a my own place for a while now. And I've finally found somewhere with my friend that I can afford!! But my mom has become very over-protective since she found out my ideas to stray away from home and be on my own. When I came across her with the idea, she was very supportive and told me she'll continue to help with my tuition as long as I pay for my living expenses. But last week when I told her I kind of found someone to move in with and can afford....she became negative and trying to make me change my mind on moving out! She's been asking me every day where I'm going and when I'll be back home even though she knows that I'm going to class or to work. I have a job, car, a focused student and I'll 20 years old in about 2 months and I don't feel that I should have a curfew that's at 1am...I'm fully capable of moving out. So how can I break it down to her that I'm moving out in a few weeks, without her holding me back?

2007-09-16 12:58:48 · 29 answers · asked by lilkitt 3

they always know where to hit u where it hurts. =(

they always know what to take away when you get grounded, and its always the worst

its better not to talk to them at all...


what do you think?

2007-09-16 12:39:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well im 14... almost 15. Ive always been boy crazy.But my parents wont let me do ANYTHING!I cant hang out with my friends...wether there boys or girls... i see them at school.Thats it.If i ask my parents say no i dont know them.Thats sooo stupid. And i have alot of guy friends and i cant hang with them either. I mean im 14 and i dont have a life.If it wasnt for my parents i could go to the movies and the mall or just hang out... i could be a teen.I hate them!And its so hard to keep a boyfriend cause of them. I cant go to my bfs house or go anywhere with them.Dont you agree this is so unfair.I have to sit at home allday everyday.I wish i could move out.Im so tired of them.

2007-09-16 12:38:36 · 7 answers · asked by Kandice 2

I am 7 months pregnant and im single. Well, the father of my baby started threatening to take my baby from me. I don't know what to do. I don't want him around Morgan(my daughter to be) because he has a bad temper and the people in his home smoke indoors. I am worried about her safety and want to know if there is anything I can do...

2007-09-16 11:33:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 11:23:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hello. I’m Freddy 21. I find myself hard to sleep. It’s almost 6 am. Suddenly I think bout my mom. I had a terrible past before I moved out from home.
Mom & dad divorced since I was 5. After divorced I must live with both of them because I’m the only child of them. I went to dad’s house after school. In the evening mom picked me up & sleep with her.
Mom is not alcoholic or gambler or else. She was a career woman, expertise in technology. But she has something else, she liked to hurt me.
Ex: Punched my head with keys when I was 5 till its bleeding. Teacher got me medicine. Hit me with belt till my back bleeding, knock my head to wall till my nose bleeding, hit me with hanger, woods till it’s broken, shower me with hot water, did something rough with scissors which-you-don’t-wanna-know. Said rude things like, she is my mom & she is the only one who has right to kill me. She did those horrible things 6 days a week.
She said I must not tell to my dad, or she’ll do worst.

2007-09-16 11:16:02 · 11 answers · asked by Freddy Jr 1

My sister and I were raised together until our parents divorced when I was six. When our parents divorced, I stayed with mom and she got to live with dad. We would see each other frequently, until five or six years ago when my dad and sister moved out of the country. In november my dad died in a car accident and my sister had to move with us again. She is now 17. Recently I have become very attracted to her. I have even seen her naked once when I walked into her bedroom. I don't know how to deal with this because we live in the same house

2007-09-16 10:40:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has two (and more) types of cancer in his body...and i am afraid. He can die any minute, is what doctors say and he is very weak. When he eats, he tastes nothing, when he walks it looks like one of his legs is detached and when he speaks, his tongue and throat gets swelled up. Well, i am Christian and i hope you can pray for my father. May God bless you!

2007-09-16 10:02:05 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5

2007-09-16 09:49:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not working . How can i support my family after i got hurt?
I got hurt outside of work .{close to my house on the curb } i broke my ankle now i cant work for 6 to 8 weeks . my insurance does not pay me for past 90 days . how can i get money to support my family with out empting out my bank account. this is the first time i ran into something like this . have worked for many years, but not ready for this, where can i get $$ to help me pay RENT. BILLS . FOOD . its only for a short time of 6 to 8 weeks . help please

2007-09-16 08:54:35 · 1 answers · asked by GO CHICAGO BEARS 1

i have always been a bit of an outcast but my parents split up about 6 months ago this wasn't a surprise but my mum moved out and i was left the only girl in the house with my dad and brothers and i have lost interest in socializing with my female friends and have become even more outcast and engrossed in gaming and computers. is this normal teenage behavior (i'm 13) or could it be as a result of my parents splitting up?

2007-09-16 08:30:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

it like she has a grudge against me

2007-09-16 08:22:09 · 2 answers · asked by BabyGirl1988 2

Have any of you ever made the tough decision to either have to place your parents in a nursing home or have decided to care for them in your home?

And I am referring to the point where you have to take care of their physical needs too. Diapers..baths..feeding..etc.

After taking care of my father at home for 3 years, I finally placed him in a nursing home and the guilt is killing me. He is 86, and although he has been there 2 years he still wants to come home. I only see him on Sundays, but I do bring him home for dinner, and he sometimes spends the night, but then I avoid him for the rest of the week because of the guilt.

But I still feel selfish. I know someday I will regret this. But I'm not happy with him at home, and I'm not happy with him in a nursing home. I feel so frustrated, but I can't see a good answer to this.

I live alone and have to work, so when the caregivers leave at the end of the day it would only be me.

2007-09-16 08:16:50 · 12 answers · asked by Mystic 2

She gave me pants telling me that " i wore them in highschool, 34in waist should fit "......she was 5'9 tehn and REALY thin, i'm 5'7, and chubby in the waist. Wehn i pointed that out, she said that since my arms and legs are thin(true that) it makes my waist look smaller.

I'm kinda insulted that she gave me pants that will fit BARLY and she said i'd probably need a belt.

Is this a hint that i should drop some weight or just her usualy obliviouls-ness?

2007-09-16 08:14:14 · 5 answers · asked by Crazygirl ♥ aka GT 6

I'm a twenty-two year old male. When I was younger I had a sexual experience with a cousin of mine. I was around twelve and he was around four or five. Basically we had all of our clothes on and he was ontop of me humping me, and i put my hands underneath his pants and proceeded to grab his but. That is all that happened. This memory fadded within time and has recently come back. I know I'm not gay or bi. I'm actually engaged to be married. But with this repressed memory it's like now everytime I see a child I think of this experience. But it dosn't plessure me, it makes me sick to my stomach. I don't want to have these thoughts anymore. I don't want to feel like I'm gay or a child molester when I know for a fact that I would never do anything to a child. I'm just so confused and angry, because I want to get rid of this memory and stop thinking about this experiece whenever I see a child. It is driving me crazy because I want to be happy and enjoy a healthy life.

2007-09-16 08:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

my lil bro lives with my mum and shes an evil *****, anyway my brothers only 12 and he lives 120miles away from me and his dad, we are trying to make him live with his dad, is there any way at all of making my brother come to live with his dad without my mums permission?? coz i ran away when i woz 12, two years ago and i got taken back by the police, a little help here!!?!?!??!

2007-09-16 07:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

For ex., I have a cousin whose wife I don't like, because everytime I see her, she doesn't say hello. She just acts snooty and stuck up.

2007-09-16 06:27:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

they do not have their fathers in their life. live w/ me. they always say im mean, they hate me, don't love them and that i don't love them. i do! i tell and show them how much everyday.they have everything they need. im at my wits end.what do i do

2007-09-16 05:56:53 · 20 answers · asked by whitechick_77 2

Every day its sumtin differant he just wants and a wants and wants Its never nothing,He let his phone service go now he always has my cell phone all the time,He totally eats differant food then the rest of my family, He is always saying"I Want" its never "we" I know it should be about "US"why cant he see it this way. He pays his bills but isnt always helping when it comes to my bills,He lives with me.How do I tell him??Help I am having a hard time being firm with him or any one else in my family.I work F/T and take care of everybody he just drives us around and pays for his truck payment.How do I toughn up??

2007-09-16 05:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

She and Tom have one kid but hes a jerk right now there split but he says he'll steal the baby im 10 and scared!!!!

2007-09-16 05:30:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if you hate your mother because she forced you to have an abortion which ruined your life. My mom told me I "better get rid of it" and "I am not going to help you" when I got pregnant. After that I flunked out of college and became really depressed, now all I do is smoke and drink and whenever I think about my little kid I want to or do cry and become filled with rage toward my mother. How can I ease the pain and began to live a healthier/ happier life?

2007-09-16 04:55:03 · 36 answers · asked by luvme&hearts 2

if you knew you were going to die and you couldnt do anything about it what would you do

i would call bff and tell her that im glad she was always there for me and im sorry for the things i did that you never liked but i never regretted that one thing i did wrong and tell her i love her
i would tell my mom thanks for keeping me and all ways hearing me out and i love her
id tell my dad thanks for fixing my mistakes and all wasys letting my be is baby girl and supportting me no matter waht and i love you
id tell my brother im sorry for when we were littel and thanks for taking me to school even when mom made you and for lissening to me when i really needed it and no one was aroundand i love you
id tell my grama i didnt mean to be so ill around you even you tryed to get me everything i wonted case im a spoiled brat and id tell her id say hello to grampa for you and i love you

2007-09-16 04:48:59 · 15 answers · asked by Mary 3

2007-09-16 04:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by jessica l 1

I come from a large family and when we were young we were all close and now it seems like we are not a family as much. Many siblings live in different states, they call occasionally but dont write or e-mail very frequently and my question is what ever happened to family unity? It is almost like my brothers and sisters (most of them) are more like distant cousins than a true close knit family. Is there any way to bring the closeness back to our families again like when we were young? We do love eachother and maybe piss eachother off once in a while meaning get eachother mad, but I feel family is important and it is only a matter of time before our parents pass on. Friends come and friends go but your family is your family for life What is your take on this?

2007-09-16 04:34:37 · 5 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

i started working for someone recently and about two weeks into the job my little sister got into a bike accident and i had to take her to the hospital. she called me in a panic because no one else was around so i ran to go get her. i called my work to let them know i couldn't go in but they said if i don't come in they will let me go. i explained to them that i had to take care of my sister but they insisted they would have to let me go. i didn't want to lose my job so i tried to see if ANYONE could help me out but i was all alone. i called my work again and they said they would have to let me go, i told them they were being childish and that my family is more important that any job. does anyone have advice for how i should handle this situation?

2007-09-16 04:29:44 · 8 answers · asked by crumpet 3

OK i've been doing chores about the house all day and she's out to a party with the wee one, should i make her dinner for her coming home?

2007-09-16 04:05:17 · 29 answers · asked by alser 2