my lil bro lives with my mum and shes an evil *****, anyway my brothers only 12 and he lives 120miles away from me and his dad, we are trying to make him live with his dad, is there any way at all of making my brother come to live with his dad without my mums permission?? coz i ran away when i woz 12, two years ago and i got taken back by the police, a little help here!!?!?!??!
2007-09-16 07:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i have heard that (if you are in england.) there is a law that states that a child over a certain age can chose to live with which parent he/she wants. he has to get a solicitor and go to court. look into it
2007-09-16 08:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by heavymetalbitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what the issue is with your mom, but family is important and I think that it is important to love beyond measure. Be obediant, and dont hate your mom. Obviously your mom and dad are seperated, and I know that you miss your brother, but know that family is important. On that same note. If your dad really wants to get your brother, and your brother wants to live with you guys, then you guys could go to court and try to get custody of him. (but running away is not the answer. It is dangerous and can cause others a great deal of pain.(trust me I know- I've been there.) But I realized that it was a mistake and that I only hurt myself and I also hurt others, whether you kow it or not, unless you went to your dads house it hurt him too. Running away only incurrs that you are running away from your problems,if you really wanna do what works. Face your problems and deal with them, because when you come back the problem is going to still be there. If you wanna know how to deal with your problems at home. You are gonna have to do something that you may not want to do. You are gonna have to stop making excuses for what you do, look inside yourself and see what it is that you can change about yourself for the better, so that maybe one day, you and your mom and your dad and your little brother can get along. No family is perfect. But it's family and family is important. Good Luck with everything
2007-09-16 08:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by cha-cha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem to me that as your brother is now 12 years old he can choose for himself where he wants to be, if he wants to be with his dad then it might just be as simple as going to a solicitor to take the case up in court, your mum may have gotten full custody before but that can change now he is older, if there is no custody order at all your brother could simply move in with his dad but get advice first.
Good luck.
2007-09-17 02:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has to be done through official channels.
At age 12, your brother is old enough to choose which parent he wants to live with. Have your dad offer to take him to court to request this change in custody.
Actually, your brother needs a man's hand in his life because this is when he is most likely to start getting into trouble.
2007-09-16 08:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all learn to write,you're not texting now,then when you've mastered spelling,then you can write letters to whoever you are on about who lives with someone 120 miles away.
That's all I got ,so I hope everything works out OK in the end,whatever it is.
2007-09-17 03:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the courts have given your mom full custody then no because it is up to your mom but then if not then it all up to your brother i would of thought if he sees how evil your mom is and how better off he would be with his dad then he will make his own decision but you can not make him do anything that he does not want to do.
if he does not see it now and your mom is really that bad then he will see it in the future just let him make his own mind up like you did everyone has to live their our life they want to not how other people want them to.
if your mom is truly that bad then no-one would of let her see any of you maybe she is okay with your little brother
but honestly talk to him and explain that you think it would be better if he was to live at your dads and see his mom at weekeends it is not like he would never see his mom again
2007-09-16 10:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and talk to any childline or companies like that and explain about your mum dont lie ... maybe tell them the nasty things she did and they might have to remove him to your father.
What type of things does she do?
WIll it affect him?
If so, talk to as many people as you know (most likely teachers) and see what happens.
I wouldnt get the police involved they can arrest for false emergancies.
2007-09-16 08:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause u was not happy with your mum dont mean your brother is not happy with his mum if your brother likes being with his mum then leave him alone i belive mothers should have there children and fathers dont have there children
2007-09-16 10:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your brother needs to go to social services if he isn't happy or call childline, you can't decide for him but hope it all works out ok.
2007-09-16 08:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by curlyk8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your mum had custody then no, your dad can always try to get full custody of him
2007-09-16 08:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by lilshortyjess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋