My sister and I were raised together until our parents divorced when I was six. When our parents divorced, I stayed with mom and she got to live with dad. We would see each other frequently, until five or six years ago when my dad and sister moved out of the country. In november my dad died in a car accident and my sister had to move with us again. She is now 17. Recently I have become very attracted to her. I have even seen her naked once when I walked into her bedroom. I don't know how to deal with this because we live in the same house
2007-09-16 10:40:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have narcissism and possibly gender identity disorder. You HAVE to see a counsellor about this, these feelings are NOT normal and SHOULD NOT be acted upon. Go to your school counsellor and explain your feelings, they will get you in touch with a professional that can help you deal with these emotions. This HAS to be diagnosed by a professional!
2007-09-16 10:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Ignore everyone saying it's wrong or wierd...
You can't help or change feelings easily,
You'r probably a bit confused as your at that age.
In time you will move on, and you may realise what you are feeling wasn't actually how you thought it was at the time!
Just try and ignore her for the time being,
You could be confused also because your dad passed away, and your emotions are all over the place! which doesnt help when you have hormones all over the place too!
The feelings you are feeling ccould be so different to what you think they are because your confused, you could be feeling how you are because you missed her and it's nice having her around? or for many similar reasons.
I hope things sort out,and everything goes okay,
Dont worry by thinking it's wrong, etc...it will make things seem worse, just try and move on to someone else, or talk to a close member of family about it,
Do whatever you think seems right. :)
2007-09-17 09:38:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to be honest many a time, and I know you very honest with what you are saying. NOW, let me tell you sonny. Just because there was a short spell of not staying with your sister that does not make you to think she is no longer your sister. She is your blood sister and I mean your sister big time. If you continue doing what you are doing, you will cause your father's bones to turn in their grave. If your mom hears of that, it will kill her. Let me put it this way, if you were a parent and had your son and daughter and found making it, how would you react? Answer this question as honest as you possibly can. I am sure there are other girls around your neighbourhood that you can find attractive. Moreover, you a human being, you are not an animal or something of the sot. Boy! you are human. STOP!!!!!!!
2007-09-16 23:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I honestly don't believe that you are attracted to your sister.
My belief is that you haven't seen many women naked if any at all, so it was bound to make a huge impact on you, since she would be well developped at her age.
It'd be the same if a parent were to walk on their teenage boy or daughter specially if the last time they ever gave them a shower was at the age of 6.
It's like you see a stranger, which was even worse in your case since you hadn't seen her for years!
What you need is to go out more with people your age and you will meet a girl for you who is not your sister, and I bet you'll be totally disgusted at even have thought about your sister like that.
Do respect her privacy in the meantime and do remember that she IS your sister. It'll help.
Good luck.
2007-09-16 10:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
You re grieving and maybe seeking comfort from the only person that's closest to you. I dont think you truly like her in that way. Your feelings for her are love, you need to seek counselling for your fathers death and for the issues you are having.
2007-09-17 07:05:44 · answer #5 · answered by Swan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve had a tough life and at your age will still be very confused about it all.
Do not spoil what you have with your sister by taking this any further.
I suggest you go see your Doctor for him to get you some help, as I feel that your sister is not the only issue in your life.
2007-09-16 10:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by wantila 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is perfectly normal to feel attracted to your sister at your age (although it wouldn't be normal to act on it!) - loads of boys go through the same thing. It'll wear off soon, don't worry.
In the meantime give her a bit of privacy and try knocking at her door before going into her bedroom! Tell her you were really embarrassed seeing her like that and you're sorry.
2007-09-16 11:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by EJ 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
there is documented proof that some siblings even seperated at birth have become attracted to each other when they met unknowingly later. Your story is different but similar. Talk to your guidance counselor. They can help.
2007-09-16 10:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
KM you must read the bloody question ffs.
It is quite common to have these feelings at your age you may also feel attraction to boys too, you are just developing and will soon mature and realise that really you don't want her, but someone totally different!
2007-09-16 10:47:28 · answer #9 · answered by My name's MUD 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Find a girl as close looking and acting as your sister. I'm sure there are several where you live. It's an understandable situation, she is like a new person to you, but you must remember she is very close blood kin, Perish that thought of her and go get a girl to match her.
2007-09-16 10:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋