Family - September 2007

should i be worried because my uncle made me tell him who i like..I feel so weird around him! but he might tell my aunt & dad! HELP!!! WAT SHOULD I DO? SHOULD I SAY I DONT LIKE THE BOY ANYMORE?!?

2007-09-22 02:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by S3XY MiCH0ACANA 2

Because I dont play sports and I am in the band, so he makes fun of me. He says stuff in front of others like " theres my little homooo or there is the little fudgepacker etc...." its getting old, sometimes he calls me Sally. I told him to back off, he just does it more and everyone thinks its funny

2007-09-22 02:32:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I was 20 I finally stood up to my father who had physically and verbally abused me for as long as I can remember. My mother kicked me out onto the streets with no where to go and I did not speak to either of my parents for over 2 years. I am now 28 years old with a child of my own. Although I am now on civil terms with both my parents my mother and I do not speak. No phone calls, no emails. They visit with my son but conversation is next to none. They both refuse to acknowledge the years of abuse I suffered. I am closer with my mother inlaw then my own mother. I have a younger sibling whom my parents are very close with.
How can a mother stopping loving her own children? As a mother myself I cannot understand this.

2007-09-22 02:26:34 · 20 answers · asked by Pam 2

He makes min, wage and wears a blue vest and works with a bunch of morons/retards. M y friends are giving me grief, plus they spill stuff in his area so he has to mop it up. I think I might hide his vest so that they fire the idiot?

2007-09-22 02:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm tired of his abusing my sister, especially after yesterday. My three year old sister had a bad dream or something the last 2 nights, so she started crying in the middle of the night, my mom came over there to try to calm her down, while my father came over there just to get her to cry more, he started beating her, cursing at her, saying how much he hates her, etc all because she was crying. This isn't the first time this happened. So last night, she starts crying, but she is crying because she wanted me, unfortunately, I couldn't go there and be with her because they would go psycho at me. I was listening to everything he was saying to her, and felt really guilty. He was yelling at my mom to duct tape her mouth (not sarcastically), and how he would love to break a chair over her head. At that point I got up, and took her from them, and she quieted down, and fell asleep. But anyway, something needs to be done about my dad, I don't know what, but I'm tired of him and his behaviors.

2007-09-22 02:12:02 · 8 answers · asked by Philly Phaithful 2

I have a beautiful 8 month baby and also engaged. My fiancee has a daughter from another woman. This girl is 12 years old and she know things that she is not suppose to know. she tries to do things to my daughter when i'am not around because i saw her pinching my daughter and she was crying. I decided i don't want her in my house. Now my mother in law saying that i'am getting carried away and i have to tolerate my fiancee daughter. We argued . Mind you my mother in law don't even come visit my daughter she saw her 3 times and has not even given her a gift. But with my fiancee 12 year old she gets her everything. My fiancee agrees with me but you know that is his mother. I dont know how to deal with this because i'am not gonna let that girl touch my daughter again.

2007-09-22 01:38:09 · 10 answers · asked by Sue 2

He just opens my door wide open without knocking. I think its so rude. I was once putting on my clothes when he barged into the room. When i confronted him abt it,he screamed at me. I've told him several times and he goes,"Why cant u just lock the door....must i even knock on ur door before entering...this is my house." Isnt he just unbelievably rude and self-centered?

2007-09-22 00:00:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

tonight I went out,and met a woman we left the bar cops where out
and so we went to my place,my girlfriend was there of 6 years
she was mad I don't blame her,I tried to go see her tonight but she went over to her moms I thought she was suppose to call me but I called her instead,she said just wait untill tomorrow so I got mad and toke off,I guess from what you've read so far makes me the bad guy,
but wait,we use to live together for a couple of years,I stayed with her
she would drink every night and stay on the phone start stuff with me
tell me to get out of her house with no place to go, one night I had to sleep in an old abandon van in a juck yard,so we separated and during that time my parents had a old mobile home they let me have
I've been fixing up and her and I only have been seeing each other
2 or 3 nights a week she won't move here and I cant give up my home to rent that's dumb if she was here like normal person none of it would never happen,it seems to me,I'm 51

2007-09-21 22:21:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I over heard my parents arguing. My mom thinks my dad is having an affair. Of course he denies it. What do I do?

2007-09-21 20:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, my butler is moving away, back to his hometown. I really enjoyed his company. He was always the one to pick me up from school, fix me a snack, bring me places, and talk. I entrusted so much to him, but now hes leaving. My parents aren't doing anything to stop him. Any suggestions?

2007-09-21 18:17:05 · 5 answers · asked by Adum 3

I need help with moving out of my folks house(1st time).I will be having a rommie but she mostly wants to rent out a house more than an apartment but is flexable with either choice.I have an apartment in mind which is nice and not too terribly expensive.It's a place where i'd feel comfortable living.What i'm worried about is getting the place since i don't know about my credit due to my dad messing things up with my name.I'm thinking about getting another job in the meanwhile.I just don't want to move out and then forced to move back in.I know it's my time to leave the nest.Any suggestions or steps?

2007-09-21 18:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by beautifulsekhmet 2

Ok, lets try this again.

I just turned 14, and I am living in Florida with my Dad, Step mom, and perverted step brother. I moved here from GA because i've had a lot of trouble in the past, and because my Dad wanted me to.

My dad does not want to pay child support, that is why he wants me. My mom wants the child support, so she wants me.

My dad only lets me talk to my family in GA two times a week, and that is not enough. I REALLY miss them.

It is NOT about the money, because it's free.

Is this fair, and can I do anything?

2007-09-21 17:50:27 · 6 answers · asked by lightriderangel 2

mother is re-married, grandmother spoils the 15-year old. 15-year old doesn't want to go back to mother and step father and siblings because he doesn't like to do chores, doesn't want to be disciplined. troubled child, was suspended in middle school. now in high school.

2007-09-21 17:45:47 · 16 answers · asked by Q&A Monster 2

My boyfriend demands that I stay the night at least once a week, I have in the past but, First off he smacks his mouth all night long, and grinds his teeth, he tosses and turns. and then he and I both state the next morning that we don't sleep well. I know this is stupid but he wanted me to ask this. He wants to see which one is in the wrong.

what to do

2007-09-21 17:37:50 · 6 answers · asked by SARAH S 2

she works and i cant get her anything and neither is anybody else i want to do some thing speicial to show her how much i care

2007-09-21 17:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in my second year of college, while my 16-yr old brother is still in high school. My parents like to go out with their friends pretty much every weekend for a really long time. I think it's neglect. I just feel bad for my brother who has to deal with them. He has a tennis match tomorrow, which my parents never go to. Yet, they're willing to get up early and drive 2 hours away to Cincinnati to drink with their friends and stay over night, while leaving my brother to fend for himself. Is this ok? I've told them that they are neglecting him and such, but I just got yelled out for questioning their parenting skills basically. What should be done. Not to mention, this isn't the first time. They tend to not care about anything we do, I'm just glad I'm in college away from them.

2007-09-21 17:20:41 · 11 answers · asked by triciawin87 2

My sister always feels hot, like im freezing and she will be saying " oh my god its hot" she wants to buy an additional A/C..should i let her, and which type? Or does anyone have anohter solution?!

2007-09-21 16:28:54 · 11 answers · asked by OverShiNe 2

I was never a big Christian, it, it makes you think about life, this kid, was a motocrossor had a lot going for him, was gonna be big...so he gone.....what happens now? You know, next life?

2007-09-21 16:26:59 · 8 answers · asked by thinking444 2

So my grandma lives in my home town of San Antonio this is her 4th stroke in the past 2 years and my gramps cant take care of her, I have already been to school and am able to care of her so I will be moving down next week. My aunt and my dad said there is some program in the state that would pay me to take care of her anyone else heard of this and can offer more info???

2007-09-21 15:51:47 · 4 answers · asked by krystalthompson84 1

ok,im really concerned about my mom & dad.they've been divoreced a while now.but my dad has been giving us food.food we dont really eat.its nice he's doing this,but its bothering my mom.this has happened a while now.she doesnt like to waste food,so she told my dad not to give anymore.if he does,she'll have to give him a restraning order.

i understand that she hates him,because of what my dad did to her long ago.but idk what to do.my dad sort of has a temper,so im scared he might try to yell at her.=/
what should i do?
im trying really hard to stay out of it...but i just cant.

2007-09-21 15:38:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

OKAY SO I GOT THIS SISTER IN LAW.. SHE IS SOMETHING ELSE. ONE MINUTE SHE COOL WITH ME AND THE NEXT SHE WANNA ACT ALL FUNNY AND GET ATTITUDES. IF SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN ANY OTHER HOE I WOULD HAVE BEEN KNOCKED HER *** OUT BUT THATS MY HUSBAND BABY SISTER. I GOT LOVE FOR HER. SHE CONSTANTLY TAKING MY KINDNESS FOR WEAKNESS. HER AND HER BROTHER COULD COME TO ME FOR ANYTHING. IF I HAD IT I WOULDNT HESITATE. EXCEPT MY CAMCORDER. SO TODAY SHE ******* CROSSED THE LINE AND SHE MAKE ME WANNA SHOW HER *** WHATS UP. SHE THINK SHE ALL GANGSTA AND **** BUT SHE IS JUST A DAMN WANNABE AND I LAUGH AT HER ***. SHE CALLED ME A *****. HER EXACT WORDS WERE ***** DONT TRY TO ACT ALL HARD CUZ U AINT... LOL... SHE TEXTED ME COULDNT EVEN SAY IT TO MY FACE. FUNNY THING I LIVE WITH HER. I DONT KNOW. MY HUSBAND IS IN IRAQ AND HE SAID IF IT CAME DOWN TO IT TO FIGHT HER ***. BUT I CANT. IF I FOUGHT HER MY MOTHER IN LAW AND MY FATHER IN LAW WOULD NEVER FORGIVE ME. NEWAYS I WENT TO THE MOVIES TODAY TO GET AWAY FROM THE DRAMA AT THE HOUSE AND WHEN I CAME HOME THEY WERENT HERE AND THEY LOCKED ME OUT!! HAHA I STILL GOT IN... MY IN LAWS R IN WA DOING WORK. SHE IS 17 THINKING SHE GROWN. I COUD SHUT HER UP SO QUICK BUT THATS THE OLD NITA. I CHANGED FOR MY BABY. HE ONLY 6 MONTHS BUT I STILL WANNA DO RIGHT BY HIM. I DONT FEEL LIKE I NEED TO PROVE MYSELF TO NO ONE BUT I FEEL LIKE IF SHE KEEP DISRESPECTING ME IMMA HAVE TO BUSS HER DAMN LIP. YOU KNOW THE SCARY BITCHES.. THE ONES THAT TALK **** BUT DONT WALK IT. WELL MY FRIENDS GIVE ME ADVICE BECAUSE I AM SO LOST WITH HER. FUNNY THING IS I LOVE HER LIKE SHE IS MY OWN SISTER AND SHE DONT EVEN KNOW IT, I THINK SHE FEELS LIKE I AM TAKING HER PLACE WITH HER PARENTS AND I WOULD NEVER DO THAT!!

2007-09-21 15:36:37 · 5 answers · asked by Sunita W 2

2007-09-21 15:23:04 · 7 answers · asked by ♥caligirl99♥ 3

ok..so i just found out..i shoulda figured this out a long time ago..but for some reason..i never really thought about it....i look NOTHING like ANYONE on my dads side of the family.....at ALL...well..i asked my aunt..she said my mom was sleeping around when she got pregnant with me..i dont even look like my sisters..the only thing i got from my dad was the mole under my left eye...but i heard that if ur sleeping with 2 guys the baby can get traits from both guys....is my mom wrong for not telling me this?? and should i bring it up or just let it go and try to find my real dad later in life???

2007-09-21 15:14:21 · 13 answers · asked by sexi_blonde_chick2008 2

my aunt invited my cousin to my house for a spa party sunday the problem is we dont get along she has no respect for me and i get depress when iam around her. anyways my aunt is sneeky and always crosses the line and my cousin calls me i wasnt home but why else would she call and my aunt did the invite anyways what should i do if she calls back or comes to my house? so help me please anyways i asked my aunt she said no why do u want me to invite her and we should talk dispite everything shes ever done which is use and abuse and distroy families thats all

2007-09-21 14:50:59 · 9 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7

My 57 yr. old father has always been somewhat of a hypochondriac. Hes always sick when we have a family event. Now he's become reclusive & never wants to leave his house. He's always sleeping. He was injured at work, went through workers comp & his employer(0f 35 yrs) forced him back 2 work. He told his employer he was still hurt. They basically forced him to retire or they would fire him (lose pension). I think he's depressed. My mother is in denial (enabling him). I also think he needs an attorney, but he refuses one. My sister thinks he wanted to retire all along & to let it go. I am very worried. He's the main provider for their household, without his income I don't think they can survive financially. I am married w/kids so I cant do much. I want my father to be well. How can I help him?

2007-09-21 14:36:57 · 5 answers · asked by kah35 4

Ok , first off, im in my mid 20's. To make a long story short, my mom always favors my bro who is 23 now. She is always up my *** telling me how to live my life and because my brother is " a man" she leaves him alone (hot headed italian parents i have). I have lost relationships because of my parents overcontrolling ways. I have a wonderful bf that i love and the rest of my family accepts him but my own parents. (he didnt do anything wrong) and i have had to cut friends out of my life just to please my mom as she didnt like them ( i dont do this now, i keep my friends)
Well becuase my bro just broke up with his gf (my mom has been wanting that by the way) he already likes a new girl, she came over the house and right away my mom tells me to go out with them to have drinks at a bar, i refused as im exhausted from work and just dont feel like being with them. My bro never invites me out and why should i go out to please my mom and bro when i get no support? anyone else have this?

2007-09-21 14:07:48 · 6 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1

My mom is obsessed with Doctor Who. How do I deal with it????

2007-09-21 13:28:29 · 16 answers · asked by featherpop97 1

To become a grandparent?

My husband's mother has a boyfriend, they've been together since before my daughter was born 3 1/2 years ago. For that time we've lived in another state but last month we moved to their town. MIL's boyfriend doesn't seem to know how to act around my daughter, one day he's playing with her and being a buddy, then next day he's cussing in front of her and yelling at her when he loses his temper (though he's mad at something else). MIL makes the excuse that it takes time to get used to the idea of having a child around. How long?

We don't use them for childcare or anything, we just want her treated well in their presence, I'm not expecting him to love her...

2007-09-21 12:45:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Houston Texas
My step mother died. Before she died she made a will. I do not know what is in the will.
My Dad her husband living with her had a stroke 10 yrs ago he signed the title of the home to her in case he had to go to a nursing home. He did not go he has been with her all these years.
He is bed ridden from the stroke and only has VA benifits & social security. The other family members refuse to give me any informaton regarding the will & what will happen to my Dad. Now that she is gone we will be his only family members to look after him. We have no information regarding how his care will proceed.
Can her children take all the proceeds from the home and leave him with only his Social Security?

2007-09-21 12:21:00 · 1 answers · asked by theladygeorge 5

i am sooo mad!!! its all for not putting my dishes in the dishwasher, or cleaning up like 5 toys after my BROTHER, and not cleaning my bathroom when i had no time! they are making me write an apology letter. and i dont think i am gonna do it. even though they are telling me if i dont i cant go to a party. but i think this is soooo gay!!!

what do you guys think about this?!??!?!

2007-09-21 12:03:28 · 60 answers · asked by sup yo 5