My Dad is an idiot?

Question

I'm tired of his abusing my sister, especially after yesterday. My three year old sister had a bad dream or something the last 2 nights, so she started crying in the middle of the night, my mom came over there to try to calm her down, while my father came over there just to get her to cry more, he started beating her, cursing at her, saying how much he hates her, etc all because she was crying. This isn't the first time this happened. So last night, she starts crying, but she is crying because she wanted me, unfortunately, I couldn't go there and be with her because they would go psycho at me. I was listening to everything he was saying to her, and felt really guilty. He was yelling at my mom to duct tape her mouth (not sarcastically), and how he would love to break a chair over her head. At that point I got up, and took her from them, and she quieted down, and fell asleep. But anyway, something needs to be done about my dad, I don't know what, but I'm tired of him and his behaviors.

Answer 1

I would report it right away before she gets hurt you need to get away from him

Answer 2

tell a teacher or tell a neighbor. You could tell your grandma too. tell someone who makes you feel safe adn you know will not let this happen. You and your sister deserve much better than what you are getting. just keep telling people before you or her gets really really hurt by your dad. I was abused as a child so I know it won't stop. Be brave and stick up for what you know is right. Good luck. If you need help email me and I will try to help you the best I can.

Answer 3

Some people are like that. It sounds very bad for your sister. You should try talking to someone you trust the most, like an aunty or uncle. You may even need to speak to a councilor but that could roll onto family services coming to save your sister.

Every child needs to feel loved and wanted, regardless of how anoying they can be with crying.

Sometimes people dont see themselves for what they have become and if they were to hear a recording or see a video of themselves at their worst may get them to change or they may just start on you.

Your sister sounds like she needs saving but are you capable and ready to save her.

Good luck

Answer 4

If what you say is true, my sympathies.
Get a tape recorder or one of those tiny cameras and record when this happens. Keep a diary of any abuse and report him with the evidence. People may not believe you and your father may threaten you, but you MUST get yourself, your mom and your baby sister out of that situation.

Answer 5

Apparently your mom cannot stop him or isn't taking him seriously. You need to tell someone, your dad is out of control and may not mean to hurt her but may actually lose control and hurt her. Obviously he's exhausted. I'm afraid I have to advise for you to call children's services, and if you are afraid of him, then you need to ask them not to tell him who called. All they have to do is say there was a complaint and that could be someone outside the home who happened to hear him. Good luck.

Answer 6

What does your mom say?? she need to talk to him and do something he has no right to treat your sister that way. Your sister is going to need psychiatric help because he is traumatizing her. you did the right thing by taking your sister. Be by her side because it seem that you are the only one in that house with sense. Try to talk to someone about it like your grandmother so they could talk to your mom or him. Your dad has a problem

Answer 7

It sounds like your father has a bad temper. Try talking to your mom when he is not around. If he is hitting your mom you need to encourage her to seek help.

Answer 8

Call the Dept of Mental Health for your State and report him. He could do some serious harm to her.