Family - May 2007

i don't know what to get her

2007-05-11 16:30:02 · 6 answers · asked by matador 1

None of them live in the same town, so we cannot "split" equal time with all of them.

2007-05-11 16:28:42 · 10 answers · asked by Silazius 4

I apply online for child support services but I feel like is taking a long time I applied on august of 2006. I provide them every information SSN, Address etc everything and I haven't heard anything. I was wondering if I needed to go to court and get a court order for child support???

2007-05-11 15:54:44 · 12 answers · asked by titaalex 1

She doesn't want family or friends to take me in, just keeping me around so she can despise the rest of the family. I think its because of the tax exemptions. I need HELP

2007-05-11 15:37:06 · 6 answers · asked by Gary M 1

My husband's new found passion is fishing, but when his son (8 y.o) comes, his son doesn't want to go. My husband still goes without him. His son has been here for the last 3 weekends-which he is with us usually every weekend) I think that it has something to do on how his dad makes him feel (priority wise). I'll try to do things with my kids and step-son to keep him busy while his dad is 'busy with something else', but I can't help but feel bad to see the look on my step-son's face. I'm sure he'd rather be spending time with his dad.

I just came home and my husband just said, "if you're trying to make me feel guilty about going...it's not gonna work!"

I myself am not bothered with my husband going fishing, but I just feel bad for my step-son's feelings. Should I just stay out of it?

2007-05-11 14:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by LoveSlave 2

All the money she wants, she can have, except she uses it to take care of my sister's drug habit, and 4 kids. I would never give her money any more when i found out she gives it to my sister, and she uses it for drugs. Mom says she doesn't do that, but nieces tell other wise. She isn't trying to fill her up with the drugs, but she wants to keep her from going to extreme measures(prositution,theift, ) all those things. When i found out, i stopped giving her money, instead i started giving gifts...after hearing,"that must have been exspensive, I am not sure if i need that,you could have just given me the money instead. It kills me, now flowers,brunch,clothing,jewerly, anything, to me has no motherly love to give to her. I don't know what to do now...i am so broken hearted, even things i know she needs, still would be looked at as just material.
I have told her my feelings about her and my sister, she say's " as long as i know what she is doing , i am just happy she is alive.

2007-05-11 14:11:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everything that happens in my family is my fault. Everything that is the divorce, but even still, I feel like it's because of me. That's okay, I don't mind. But you'd think if they blame everything on me, at least they would be nicer. My mom makes fun of my dreams, me, and everything I do. Nothing is every quite right to her. I try to pretend nothing is wrong, because the past times I've told her she's hurting my feelings, she laughs it off or gets extremely mad and begins yelling and lecturing me about appreciation. Another thing is she completely favours my brother and everyone can tell. But nobody dares tell her because they'll get yelled at. If my brother says something nasty to her, she'll laugh and tell him to go to his room. If I say something nasty, she'll make a big scene out of it and make fun of me. She will lecture me for the next three days, and give me the cold shoulder for the next three months. How can I get her to really really listen to me?

2007-05-11 12:56:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is it?? should i be worried or is it just tobbacco.. it doesnt smell like pot at all.. it was hiding along with a pipe and a pack of zig zags.. what is this??? im scared. my dad left the family already and hes ruining it even more!

2007-05-11 12:44:45 · 11 answers · asked by gina_d 3

Ok my mom is always paying my cell phone bill in halfs. I really dont think thata is right. Because she would not pay half of the Water bill or the gas bill, so why pay half of my phone bill.I am 16 and im trying to get a job but my dad wont let me.I want to pay my own phone bill because my phone is always getting cut off, the bill will be 180 and she might just pay 70 thats not right.she should pay ALL of it.Im so sick and tired of this.We Got into a agreement about it.
What should i do?

2007-05-11 12:28:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im stay at home mama and its not easy, theirs cleaning cooking, cleaning dirty dipers and etc. so would you guys rather send your wife to work or for your wife to stay at home and take care of the kids and house? well if your could affort it. when me and my husband got married we talk and we both agree that he was gonna go to work and that i was going to stay at home working, you know cleaning, cooking etc but my friend has 2 kids his husband has enough money for her not to work but he sends her to work even do she gets paid 5.50 an hour so all the money she is making is going for the babysitters plus the kids have to get up at 4 in the morning I think thats wrong.

2007-05-11 12:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have took over payments on my mother-in-laws car. And every since she has been yelling take me here take me there and if I can not take her she starts yelling. She is constantly calling leaving mean, nasty messages. She knows that we have foster kids in our home that can not handle the yelling but she dosn't care. We have both ask her to stop callling and acting this way but she still continues. My husband exspects me to take her every where she want/needs to go, and separtate her meds,and everything else she can not do one her own. He tells her that I will do stuff for her without asking me. And even on his days off he will not even go over to her house to see her. This woman is flat out mean and rude and I am so tires of it. She don't treat her daughter this way. My sister-in-law doesn't help out either. I love my husband and I do not really want to make him chose between us. I swore that I would never make him chose, but I do not know what else to do.

2007-05-11 12:14:05 · 20 answers · asked by sue h 2

their twenties???

2007-05-11 12:13:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need everyone that believes in God to pray the prayer of agreement with me that I will get a higher paying position...who's with me?

2007-05-11 12:09:47 · 8 answers · asked by Ms Mika 2

My dad drank behind our backs for 4 years. He was always angry and constantly yelling. I've never been able to talk with him and especially now. It happened about 7 months ago. My dad became so sick and I became worried. When he refused to go to the hospital I said "I will not stay in this house, if you can't even take care of yourself." Well, he did go. Turns out he was about to die from alcohol poisining. I saved his life.

Then there is my mom, who is one of my best friends. Yeah, we have or fights, but I love her so much. During my fathers drinking, my mom was hiding her drug addiction. She would take up to 70 pills a day. These pills are Narcatics (pain killers) and make you extermely tired. Why she isn't dead is a miricale. Let's just say, she was obtaining these drugs in illegal ways. And one day as she was picking them up the police arrested her. She went to jail, was released, and we haven't talked since. I am alone and sad, and can't find away to escape

2007-05-11 12:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by twilight411 2

When I graduated college, my father threatened not to attend because I did not want him to bring his mistress to what was supposed to be MY day. He ended up coming, sans the concubine, and everything was fine.

Tomorrow, both my best friend and my father are graduating from different colleges. It's impossible to attend both ceremonies. I was trying to decide which to attend. I asked my father if he minded if I attended my friend's graduation instead of his, largely because she doesn't have a lot of support.

For his answer, he cited my response to his suggestion to bring his girlfriend to my ceremony (which would've embarrassed me, my mother, and my maternal grandparents, also in attendance...) when I told him that I would never forgive him because in my eyes, he chose his concubine over me.

Now, all I want is some opinions on his response. I would be attending my friend's ceremony. He would've been at home, being selfish. He says it's the same thing. I disagree. Who's right?

2007-05-11 11:58:51 · 4 answers · asked by Steven A 2

I want to have my hubby make breakfast and dinner. And go out and spent some time with my friend while daddy deals with the kids. Peace and Quiet for me!

2007-05-11 11:11:25 · 5 answers · asked by Marge 5

I let my son go with his grandma today, and they were supposed to be going back to her house (15 minutes away) and playing, and he was supposed to be home by 3pm. 4:30 rolls around and they pull up to my house like nothings wrong(While I have been trying to call her cell and house for over an hour). She says shes sorry she is late but the train took longer than they thought. I asked what she was talking about, and she tells me she took my son on a train to NY city for a ride, without asking me if it was alright. I was totally pissed off and told her she had no business taking him on any trip without letting me know. nd to top it off she threw out his brand new shoes that I bought him, and bought him new ones because the ones he was wearing were a little to big. I spent 50$ on those darned shoes. She told me to relax I was really overreacting she thought she was doing me a favor, by making sure he had "good" shoes. I was more upset about her taking him on a train W/O my approval

2007-05-11 11:06:24 · 25 answers · asked by melissaw77 5

See, Were Eniemies, Me & my sister N law, She created All of This Herself & ends up blaming all on me. I cant call down there, Or they will take there Xtra Money & make sure I cant call my father In law, hes in his 70s, there living with him, & they brain washed him, Hes the kind whos Quiet, tilll He bursts, But He changed to, I dont know how to feel any more. My sister N law doesnt work, In her 20s, My brother N law, Is in his 40s, & They brain washed MY father N law, My father N law Was Better acting, Before They Went Down & stayed with him, hes in a Postion That He cant do anything, Any Suggestions Out there for me?

2007-05-11 11:05:59 · 13 answers · asked by ------------------- 1

She always acts like I'm a guest when I go to my moms house, she always says when are you going home? Everytime you come over you always leave this house dirty ( which Its not true I do clean) and the other day she told me you made me fail my test because you were here (she is in the RN Program) so sometimes I don't like going over there because I feel unwnated I usually keep quiet and tell her Shut up and cuss at her sometimes my mom usually yells at her and tells her the same shut up I don't know what to do when I am not at my moms she calls me and yes we talk on the phone she apolgizes by saying oh sorry bout yesterday I had a big test and I tell her well so do I I am in Law school and I have major projects you dont see me talking crap. By the way she lives with my mom she is 26 I am 25 living on my own she lives with my mother still because she is going to school to become a Doctor and she is in the RN program.
What should I do about this situation?

2007-05-11 11:04:09 · 10 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3

I find that parents give a lot of advice and mine did as well. The ones you would like to pass on to your kids are the ones that have had the most impact.

2007-05-11 09:42:09 · 20 answers · asked by Navigator 1

Okay i don't know where to start this all off at! Im 18 years old and I'm 7 months pregnant.( Don't Judge me because Im young) I have been going to college since i was 17 and now i have a daughter on the way! I have been with my baby's father for a little over a year when i got pregnant with our daughter. At first he was okay with it, than he told his mother who i believe convinced him that we shouldn't keep the baby. After that he kept telling me to get an abortion. I didn't because i was pregnant with his first child months before and i was devastated after getting that first abortion! So i said no to the abortion! He didn't change after that he was still the same person. I didn't notice that he changed until 5 months into my pregnancy! That's when he started disappearing and not coming around that much anymore, but he would call everyday and whatever i needed he would help with. But it was like he didn't care about me anymore! Than he called and told me he thinks we should take a

2007-05-11 09:19:52 · 10 answers · asked by HopelessRomantic 1

I know that nudism is a rather touchy subject with some people and that a lot of people have been made to think of the human body as a shameful thing. I've seen a lot of questions on here asking whether it's right or not to be a nudist and I have to say that a lot of the feedback is harsh and probably comes from people who have been taught that nudity in any way is shameful.

I'm 15 and I'm not exactly sure what to think. I grew up around my mom who isn't exactly a nudist, but has no problem with being naked. I sometimes lounge around naked in my room, but these occasions are seldom and I usually feel weird doing it. I know people who think the human body is a beautiful thing and others who think that it should be concealed at all times, I'm confused.

I want to know what you think about nudism. Please try to keep your answers polite whether your for, against or confused about nudism.

2007-05-11 09:19:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Uhm, I'm wondering if, in your eyes, my mom is an alcoholic or not. I'm 13, and she's like, what? 39? Well, anyway, she drinks things like sake(japanese drink) and margaritas all the time-- and usually sneaks them into mugs or hides the bottles in places(not from me, usually just my dad, who already knows that she's drinking). And, well, she's not an "angry" person when she's drunk- but it's just like, she's not as sharp, and she can't hear well, and her moods get all up and changing like a roller coaster, and she doesn't pay attention to me or answer me a lot of the times. This happens a lot, to the point where I can't always tell if she's drunk or not anymore, because it just seems like... she's always drinking, watching soap operas, or sleeping. And as much as I love my mom, I want to get her off the alcohol, because I kind of feel like I've lost her. I mean, she feeds me and takes care of me, but I feel like, emotionally, she's not there for me, or interested in me, really.

2007-05-11 08:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by dsfsd 3

2007-05-11 08:02:03 · 16 answers · asked by kitcatss 2

I dont make enough money for my own apartment,and I have no family in the state we live in. I want to move out really bad along w/ our son. What can I do?

2007-05-11 08:00:12 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Southern Belle 2

My is will be 7years old. His father has only seen him 2 times in his entire life. He lives in WA. I live in FL. He is not invovled at all. He is on probation I think until 2009 do to drugs, doesn't work and lives with his mom. I do not what my son raised by him if anything were to happen to me. Can I just make a will saying I want my son to go to my adopted mom?

2007-05-11 06:52:20 · 17 answers · asked by mariposa6009 2

2007-05-11 05:28:01 · 20 answers · asked by Angad 4

could this possbily be the reason why i have dysfunctional relationships outside of home?

2007-05-11 04:57:39 · 4 answers · asked by valley girl 1

same first and last name as me. She used to live here....and now there have been inportant pieces of mail that I have NOT gotten because they were forwarded to here stupid house. We have a post office box that we use (here in PA.......me and my family) but if someone sends something to our PHYSICAL ADDRESS, it doesn't get to me. She should not have changed her last name. That was really stupid. She knows I'm not dating anyone, so I wouldn't be able to get married and change my name like she did. What should I do about this?! I asked her to send me the mail that she got of mine.....its been over 2 weeks.....haven't gotten it. I need to do something better about this!!!

2007-05-11 04:28:31 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6

2007-05-11 04:19:25 · 17 answers · asked by flowerwife 1