All the money she wants, she can have, except she uses it to take care of my sister's drug habit, and 4 kids. I would never give her money any more when i found out she gives it to my sister, and she uses it for drugs. Mom says she doesn't do that, but nieces tell other wise. She isn't trying to fill her up with the drugs, but she wants to keep her from going to extreme measures(prositution,theift, ) all those things. When i found out, i stopped giving her money, instead i started giving gifts...after hearing,"that must have been exspensive, I am not sure if i need that,you could have just given me the money instead. It kills me, now flowers,brunch,clothing,jewerly, anything, to me has no motherly love to give to her. I don't know what to do now...i am so broken hearted, even things i know she needs, still would be looked at as just material.
I have told her my feelings about her and my sister, she say's " as long as i know what she is doing , i am just happy she is alive.
2007-05-11
14:11:56
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i wanted to take her out to a speacial place...she told me to save my money, and if i wanted to get her something....it could come in a cash gift, so that she could use it when she needed it...but i still know what is going to happen with the money. It seems to me, what ever i want to do for her, will mean nothing, cause it isn't going to be cash....i am so lost right now.
2007-05-11
14:13:33 ·
update #1
Rohawk...you are so on the money...ever word..is what is happening right now....
2007-05-11
14:25:40 ·
update #2
my heart out to you Sissy.....we 'were' floating in the same boat
2007-05-11
15:24:57 ·
update #3
Dear Mean...i have tried to intervine,but sis says she will go in when she's ready....thx for ur help.
2007-05-11
16:17:30 ·
update #4